Hey,
 It's hard what to tell him and what not to tell him, we treated this girl like
a member of our family, 3 years worth of love meant nothing to this girl. She
ended up telling him that she was falling out of love with him, WOW I know that
just about killed him. To top things off she didn't want to work, but after she
left him and moved to her sisters she got a job and went on with her life like
he was never in it. She also left behind a dog , that was hers, I already have a
inside dog and have just lost a 14 year , so no way do I want another one.
Anyway, he has alot to deal with and she just moved on, but I promised myself I
would stay out of it, but boy is it hard. My middle daughter got on myspace and
let his ex have it , cause she kept posting, finally single, so glad to be
single, on my own, well my daughter said enough was enough and told her what she
had been wanting to. I would love to do the same , but don't want to give her
the satisfaction of
knowing it bugs me that she hurt my son the way she did. Anyway, I think he
will be ok, he has gone out a couple of times, Mardi Gras just finished down
here so he went here and there. One problem he has is their friends seem to
think they need to tell him everything she is doing. Told him, that's because
she probably told them to, who knows. All I know is sure am glad am not in
dating world nowadays, LOL. I met my husband in 1976, 2 years after my accident,
he never looked at me as the girl that couldn't do this or that, so it was
great. Now I was married with a 3 year old at time of my accident and he just
dropped me at my moms when I came home on a weekend pass. What a jerk, he said
he couldn't live with me cause I could never have kids again, boy could I give
up some dirt on him, but will another time. But they say God doesn't punish with
a stick, and believe me it's true. Well dog crying to go out and need to fix
son's lunch for tomorrow, will be
back tomorrow, have a nice night.
Later, T

--- On Wed, 2/25/09, Rebecca Sanchez <mrsldyinwheels@...> wrote:
From: Rebecca Sanchez <mrsldyinwheels@...>
Subject: RE: [Women with SCI] HI
To: womenwithsci@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, February 25, 2009, 5:49 PM












Hey T!!! :)

   How are you!? Loving the weather here!!! gosh a broken heart huh? really
tough! :( I have 10more years (hopefully) before my daughter will have a
bf......PRAYING it'll be longer than age 15yrs.....I remember my first broken
heart....was w/the guy for 3yrs!!! Very tough! I feel for him, I don't think
there is a way to really tell somebody that a person isn't right for them, just
a part of life....gotta be reminded that when one door closes another one opens,
and it is much easier to say that than to see it!

How did you all meet your spouses??? What was your first broken heart like??? In
2001, I moved to Las Cruces and started dating this guy Lee, the relationship
moved quickly and before we knew it we were engaged....lost my virginity to him,
and soon afterwards he said he wasn't 'ready' to be married he just wanted to
date, so i gave him his ring back....tried to make it work with just dating, but
I was also going to school (NMSU) plus it was my first time ever being away from
'home'.....it didn't work out.....With a mixture of these feelings, I caught the
next bus back to Carlsbad (home) and stayed home for about 2-3 weeks before
returning, of course it hurt me when it came to school...... One night my
friends had all gone out and I had chose to stay in and mope...I ended up
spending the evening in a Yahoo chat room (back then they were not as bad as
they are now with all the bots), there was a sn that was similar to my x-Lee, so
I decided that i would

'mess' with him.....to make a long story short, it turned out to be my now
husband and his name is also Lee! LOL we've been together 7yr's and just got
married July 11, 2008......got married July 11, his birthday is July 12, and
mine is July 13th!!! Hey may as well get them all over with in a couple of days
instaed of spreading them out over a year huh? HaHa!!!

Yes Hotels are definetly a challenge when it comes to bathrooms... .In Oct. 2008
we went to Albuquerque for a conference for work, to which we stayed at this
5-star hotel (courtesy of work) they put ALL the people in w/c's on the upper
floors!!! the blind, people they put in the lower floors! lol it was funny
afterwards.. ..people don't THINK before they do!

Anyhow phone just rang, then its time to make dinner and get ready to do this
all over tomarrow:)

Rebecca



--- On Wed, 2/25/09, theresa hebert <Rodalways70512@ yahoo.com> wrote:



From: theresa hebert <Rodalways70512@ yahoo.com>

Subject: RE: [Women with SCI] HI

To: womenwithsci@ yahoogroups. com

Date: Wednesday, February 25, 2009, 6:13 PM



Don't know why , but pics didn't show on my email, can you send them to me?? The
bathroom thing can really be a problem, so far every place I have lived I have
been able to get in and out of bathroom, maybe because older homes, who knows. I
do know when we use to go on vacation, the bathroom always seem to be a problem.
Well would write more , but trying to clean out sons old room, he's moving home
after being gone for 3 years. he and gf broke up and think he just needs time to
heal and where is a better place then at home with mom helping him, by the way
he is 24 , but still my baby. anybody got any tips on how he can get over a girl
that was really not good for him to start out with. Have a good day till later,
by the way our weather down here is 69  right now, suppose to hit high 70's, can
hardly wait for warm weather, by back has been killing me. Talk soon, later, T



--- On Tue, 2/24/09, Rebecca Sanchez <mrsldyinwheels@ yahoo.com> wrote:

From: Rebecca Sanchez <mrsldyinwheels@ yahoo.com>

Subject: RE: [Women with SCI] HI

To: womenwithsci@ yahoogroups. com

Date: Tuesday, February 24, 2009, 11:58 PM



Hello!!!



    Sorry it has been a while since I last wrote! These past couple of weeks
have been bitter-sweet. ....We did finally move....the apartment is great! Only
thing bad is the bathroom door is not wide enough for my w/c to go through so in
order to take a shower or w/e, i have to get on the floor and crawl in, then
husband has to lift me up......we have dealed with this though with other
houses...... one day when money falls outta the sky we'll be able to have a
house built! lol haha



   I dont know if I told you all but i did pass my class with a C!!! Yeayyyy I
started my last class this past monday....only 8weeks left..... :)



 



How is everything on your side of the world???? Again my aplogies for the delay
in responding.. ...



Rebecca



p.s



my heres a pic of my daughter and me at the sidewalk of stars in CA.... :)



and then just one of my daughter



 



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