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Re: [Women with SCI] Hi!!!

Hi to all,
 Well guess I am a oldie here cause i have been a para since 1974, I was just
21, at that time I was married with a 3 year old daughter. To make it short he
couldn't handle the fact that I supposely wouldn't have anymore kids, but I
think it was due to me not walking and what comes along with dealing with all
that. But hey life went on, he did try to take my daughter from me cause he
didn't see how I could raise her, HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. Two years after my
accident I met my now hubby who never once looked at my chair as a problem and
always treated my daughter great which was a plus for me. Well in 1980 we had a
daughter , 4 years later we had a son. My kids are all grown now and have all
grown up to be wonderful adults, my oldest is an LPN , my middle daughter is an
dental assistant, my son hangs steel. I also was always involved with my kids
while in school, I now have 4 wonderful grandkids who keep me going, 12, 10, 7,
and 6. I sometimes think my ex
did me a favor , cause if he hadn't left me I don't think I'd have the
wonderful life I do now. Just wanted to put my 2 cents in and hope we can get
some people talking on this group, would be great to share life stories and what
each of us has to deal with everyday. And where is everyone from??? I am from
Louisiana, deep south, rural small country town, we don't even lock our doors.
Course just hubby and I at home, HAAAA. Everyone have a nice night and lets
chat.
Later, Theresa

--- On Sun, 2/1/09, mary cooper <mmchmc1@...> wrote:
From: mary cooper <mmchmc1@...>
Subject: Re: [Women with SCI] Hi!!!
To: womenwithsci@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sunday, February 1, 2009, 6:24 PM











Hi Monica,

It will be 9 years on november 20th. 

Hannah is in the 5th grade and when we go to the movies she sits with her
friends in the front or back and only needs me if she wants pop corn or candy. 
besides that i am chopped liver.  that is ok.  i think i did the same to my mom.

mary



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From: Monica KamalRossa <xena-rolls@charter. net>

To: womenwithsci@ yahoogroups. com

Sent: Sunday, February 1, 2009 11:33:52 AM

Subject: RE: [Women with SCI] Hi!!!



Hi Mary,



What a coincidence! I had my eight year anniversary on Jan 22 of this year.

My sons were in 3rd and 6th grade at the time. My youngest doesn't remember

me walking either.



I was extremely involved with my sons' schools and activities. Now on son is

a Soph. in college and the other is in high school so they don't want me

meddling in their stuff any more.



In fact I went to the same movie theater that my son went to when he was

going with his friends. He was upset because he thought I was "chaperoning"

him. I said I was not even going to the same movie. I think he was

chaperoning us. :-)



Have a great day!



Monica



_____



From: womenwithsci@ yahoogroups. com [mailto:womenwithsc i@ yahoogroups. com] On

Behalf Of mary cooper

Sent: Saturday, January 31, 2009 7:29 PM

To: womenwithsci@ yahoogroups. com

Subject: Re: [Women with SCI] Hi!!!



Hi,

I am a 44 year old women wha has had a sci for 8 years. i also have a

daughter. she was 3 when I became paralized. things changed drastically.

she does not remember me walking. I am also a single mom with no help form

her dad. I do have great friends who have made sure that she experiences

everything.

She is noiw 11. I tend to be involved in so much of her life. I volunteer

at her school. I was in graduate school but don't like the programs close to

home. have not decided what to do next.

it was great hearing about you.

mary



____________ _________ _________ __

From: Rebecca Sanchez <mrsldyinwheels@ <mailto:mrsldyinwhe els%40yahoo. com>

yahoo.com>

To: womenwithsci@ <mailto:womenwithsc i%40yahoogroups. com> yahoogroups. com

Sent: Thursday, January 29, 2009 8:53:19 PM

Subject: [Women with SCI] Hi!!!



Hello!

How are you all doing? Good here!!! I guess I'll start off by introducing

myself.... :) I am 28yr's old and have lived with SCI since the age of 9mo's

old after a car accident claimed the life of my mother and step father. I am

a proud mom to my beautiful 5yr old daughter, have a great job and wonderful

husband!! and i'm also one class away from a associates degree in Criminal

Justice! I am very excited about meeting other women here!!! When I had my

daughter i had so many questions about how to raise her while haveing a SCI

so far it's worked out GREAT! She's an awesome kid!!! :) Anyhow again I'm

excited and can't wait to meet you all!! :)



Rebecca - from New Mexico



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Hi Monica, It will be 9 years on november 20th.  Hannah is in the 5th grade and when we go to the movies she sits with her friends in the front or back and...
mary cooper
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Hi to all,  Well guess I am a oldie here cause i have been a para since 1974, I was just 21, at that time I was married with a 3 year old daughter. To make it...
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Hey Theresa! :)    wow what an incredible person you and your famly are!! It amazing the questions that I (i'm sure 'we') are asked.... the funniest one i've...
Rebecca Sanchez
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Feb 2, 2009
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Hi. I am also the mother of daughters age 11 and a son 21.  Have being  in a wc for three years and still learning. Reading your stories have fill my day...
Liza Perez
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Hi Lisa!    My daughter is only 5yrs so hope that i can help you even just a little bit..... :) OKay i admit having a baby and being n a w/c was not the...
Rebecca Sanchez
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Hi Rebecca, OK,how did you handle your girl  and the grocery cart all by yourself?  My girls friends often have questions regarding how I  do  things and...
Liza Perez
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Hi All,  It sure is not the easiest thing to have a child and deal with all you have to deal with just being in a chair. I think having my children taught me...
theresa hebert
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Hi Theresa, Wow, I love your sense of humor. I just had my 8 year anniversary. I am a t5 SCI compete. I am looking forward to grandkids at the correct time. I...
Monica KamalRossa
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Hello!!!     Sorry it has been a while since I last wrote! These past couple of weeks have been bitter-sweet.....We did finally move....the apartment is...
Rebecca Sanchez
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Don't know why , but pics didn't show on my email, can you send them to me?? The bathroom thing can really be a problem, so far every place I have lived I have...
theresa hebert
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Hey T!!! :)    How are you!? Loving the weather here!!! gosh a broken heart huh? really tough! :( I have 10more years (hopefully) before my daughter will...
Rebecca Sanchez
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Hey,  It's hard what to tell him and what not to tell him, we treated this girl like a member of our family, 3 years worth of love meant nothing to this girl....
theresa hebert
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Hello..... :)        Was wondering if anybody has Yahoo Messenger? If so, please feel free to add me! It'd be nice talk.... :)  my sn is...
Rebecca Sanchez
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Feb 26, 2009
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... complete, post almost 6 years. Have you tried "crank hindges" or "off set hindges" This will give you about 2 extra inches in the doorway. They are not...
Connie Haw
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Feb 25, 2009
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Hi Theresa, Great advice.  Now tell me when you were the mother of the bride/groom how did that go.  I listen to music from the 70,80 and 90.  Since I am a...
Liza Perez
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Hi Rebecca, Congrats on passing your class!!  You just gave me a good idea on how to deal with the bathroom issue in houses with narrow doors. My parents...
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Hello    No I havn't tried the things for the doors.....the whole bathroom is small, thinking if i could get a chair such as a office chair, then i could...
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Hi Theresa, I read some place that  to get over someone it helps to focus on their bad qualities. Good luck! Liza ________________________________ From:...
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