hi, joined your group yesterday. i am a t12 complete as of jan.
2002. i also have the good luck of having a hardware failure. redo
june 2003. this was a pretty extensive surgery as i was fixed from
the front. i keep thinking i can put all that behind me and move on.
now i have a pretty severe pelvic tilt which keeps me in pretty
constant pain. well all of those things are for another day. my real
question is about sex. i am 44 and married to a great gut for 24
years. my libido is very good. i don't even need ky when we have
intercourse. i can't find any info on enhancing the expeience
besides how erotic our necks and ears are.. i'm sorry but to me
thats a load of crap. my neck will never feel like my genitals. is
there any help out there? when i was in rehab all that they said was
use lots of pillows. why??? i hope someone can help. thanks