I know i have been emotionally abuse aside of physically , but seeing my life now I am happy, I have friends or should I say people to socialize with , but...
Anyway I am new and well just lookin for some advise and stuff but I see there alot of us pretty much with the same kinda type of situations , were the kids...
Welcome and everyone here was or is confused we have all been thru it, that is what abuse does to us. Makes us afraid and doubtful of ourselves. Try to take...
In a message dated 4/9/2003 7:18:08 PM Eastern Daylight Time, ... Hi! Your lonely feelings are normal, but you are smart to know that he is not the answer....
Hi. I'm brand new to this forum, and am searching for answers. I believe I am involved with an emotionally abusive man ('G.'), and am wondering if I have also...
Welcome to the group.....my opinion...You are being abused by his children no doubt and as I see it children live what they learn...hopefully you can move...
Karole thx for your input. I believe I have been abused by G's children directly, and at the very least, since he lets it happen, by G indrectly. Do you view...
His children must see him disrespect you and your feeling in order for them to think it is ok to treat you this way. If he does not stop the behavior he must...
Karole You hit the nail on the head; my actions (of which I'm not proud) were out of frustration, rage and feelings of helplessness. G has on numerous...
Nancy, You must remember that it is the abuser's CHOICE to abuse, male or female makes no difference and neither does age. G. taught his son how to abuse and...
First of all your husband is very abusive, not to mention your kids, AND his moronic medling sister!!! I was going to suggest a rule and dicipline system I...
BearySilly, You know, it's a few things going on here for you. Ask yourself if you would had ever gotton into the relationship if you would had know then what...
Nancy, Sorry, but, where there is no respect there is no love. A man should NEVER allow his children to EVER raise a hand to his wife or speak to her in the ...
If any other incidents occur with the kids, I would not depend on G handling them. Do it yourself and shock them all. And make sure to announce that you have...
I just wanted to reach out as I feel very alone and depressed. I am in a relationship where my partner has the tendency to be quite controlling. We recently...
Welcome to the group..you are not alone anymore. From my experience with my abuser...they use crazymaking tactics as to keep you on an emotional roller...
In a message dated 4/10/2003 2:35:48 PM Eastern Daylight Time, ... Hi. It sounds like you have family problems common to blended families. It is not an easy...
All Thanks for your input. I figure if G is allowing his kids to abuse me, indirectly he's abusing me. What I haven't talked about is the incredible stress...
... G handling ... announce that you ... respectful ... disrespectful. ... Dear AutumnSky888 -- I understand your point, and need input as to how to implement...
Nancy you don't need him to back you up....take control and just say you will not tolerate it any longer...you already know he doesnt back you up. this will...
In a message dated 4/10/2003 6:39:54 PM Eastern Daylight Time, ... I can understand the compassion, but the line was drawn. Your H sounds like he is afraid...
Fortunately, I am not married to G. I moved here when we got engaged, & the marriage never occurred. G's sons are 11 & 13. Their mother has custody, but G has...
In a message dated 4/11/2003 7:34:56 AM Eastern Daylight Time, ... You know, for me the only thing that turned my marriage/abuse around was my letting my...
Sam, Anyone who treats you in this matter has no love for you. You DO deserve better. Before you can work on you, you must get away from this man--fast. ...
Nancy,' I'm in the same boat with you there. It bothers me to not be honest and forthcoming with my husband over the fact that I fully intend to leave. But ...
Inform G that you have come to the conclusion that he will not back you up on anything and you therefore feel helpless and that just isn't going to work. You...
You ARE a survivor!!! You survived breast cancer and choose to have your second chance at life with this bum??!!!! Honey, he don't deserve you! Yeah, perhaps...
these are his kids right? Not your biological children? Bobbi ... From: mylifeisfabulous To: womansemotionalabusesupport@yahoogroups.com Sent: Friday, April...
In a message dated 4/11/2003 2:21:09 PM Eastern Daylight Time, ... Nancy, I can see more of the entire picture now. Your husband and his children do not...