A little about myself Im 38 years old and have being married for 16 years, I married my first boyfriend and now have two children with another one on the way. ...
Sorry this is being posted PUBLICLY, but I am not able to contact you in a private manner. Why did you tell me I could write you ANY time Sandy? Apparently you...
... for ... Ang, Oh how I know that feeling well! I've also felt the same way! And I know others will say that's a silly thing to wish for, but in desperate...
This IS why it's so hard for us to see the abuse. We are trying to discuss issues, they are trying to tear us down. Ours is meant for the benefit of our...
Mindgamesnomore, You DO have options. They may not be very clear to you right now, but you have them. If it were so immpossible to divorce or separate from...
It becomes so exhausting that you opt out. Marilyn ... your ... this ... A,B ... So ... is ... ALL ... to ... old ... that ... work ... if ... 50- ... more, ...
Yes, they are liars and we believed them because we thought they loved us and would not lie to us. That is one of the saddest parts of all this. Marilyn ... ...
... That would leave me as the last one who still mispells words. I dont' know how to use it when on the website. Marilyn ... maddress@m... ... based ... thing...
Maybe you should change the title to "he isn't all bad???" I say that because when THE abuse rears it's ugly head IT IS THAT BAD! The fact that they are not...
What would you accept in a woman's frienship? Would you allow her to verbally abuse you? WOuld you allow her to play mind games? What are the requirements of...
... steps". ... It just feels like limbo. There are steps you can take to start your future for you. If you don't have a bank account in your name open one. If...
Sometimes there are failures in delivery because of the setup of receiving emails. I've had this problem with some friends. Try and try, my mail would not get...
That's exactly what the counselor on the DV hotline said. She said that I have to accept the fact that the good part of his personality and the bad part of his...
We're already there at the swallowing your pride stage. Thanks to my husband (and me for not trying to go back to work FT sooner, but I feared and still fear...
i reached out to my dad for help with money-1300.00 which he agreed to help me with. while wrapping up the wire transfer details, today my dad told me that I...
You never mentioned if you think your boyfriend is emotionally/verbally abusive as well. Even if he's not, it's obvious he didn't handle this situation with...
One time we were at a horse event... I had my horse in the wash rack rinsing her off, and this guy came over waiting to wash his horse next and said, "that's a...
I'm feeling really alone right now too. Today has been especially difficult. I decided not to go on the trail ride. I knew there would be alot of people...
Thank you Iris, I have know this man since 1991. When he started his business, he stopped coming home He would leave me for weeks at a time. so we broke up and...
I have noticed since being with my VA-PA, people do not have the same faith in me to be successful. It's like they have been seeing me as weak. So, I too,...
Thank you for sharing Kathy, i get it. Ouch. Why does it have to be that way? We live in a world of people, and sometimes we get compliments, and helpful...
Hello. I just recently asked a friend of mine who was divorced about some concerns that I had. Here is a portion of the e-mail: PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE give me...
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I see, so what you are saying is that these relationships might affect how others see us? I agree. I'm honestly thinking about just removing myself from ...
I feel you must immediatly begin to look at making money non-traditionally. ASAP. It can be done. Consider working at home via the internet--tutoring or ...
Thanks bee for your reply. I don't know what I am MORE.. scared or confused? You suggested making money at home, possibly with eBay. I have no idea how to go...
Maybe you can consider taking things one day at a time. the fear comes from the unknown. screw the unknown. :) all you can do is prepare, and prepare. the rest...
I have been "coming out" to my closest friends, I am shocked how many of them suspected what I have been living.. I still don't think they understand the...