THis is not a Pretty Site, but it will touch you in some form (I Think Anyways). After viewing this page, makes me glad that I don't Drink Alcohol. However,...
Hi - I am new. I am so ready to leave with my 3 and 4 yr old, but I keep putting it off because I know that I will have to be the one that leaves the house and...
Welcome to the group. You will get alot of support here, but you can only decide when it is right for you to leave. The longer you stay the more affected the...
In a message dated 2/3/2003 1:10:46 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... You will need an attorney sooner or later, so be ahead of the game by getting one from the...
Thanks for the reply. I am talking to attorneys. I hate to talk to the ones that charge just for an initial consult. I will have one lined up alright and I...
Oh yes....I used to love roller coasters and to go out drinking once in awhile. Now forget it. I hate roller coasters and drinking!! ... or ... away ... and ...
maybe you should talk to a few attorneys and see who is right for you. Just because they are expensive (wow 7500-10,000 dollars) dosent mean their any...
Get this, I can't read a newspaper anymore or watch any of our local tv stations. I don't know why but I really don't know what is even going on in the world...
This is very extreme control and abuse. I do hope you do something about it. I watched my grandmother be abused this way and when my grandfather died , she...
In a message dated 2/3/2003 8:22:52 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... I don't think you should skimp on this area, but spending more money desn't mean you will...
Ahhh, good advice. Thanks. I'm not necessarily going for the most expensive. I just went for the names that were recommended to me and they ended up being...
Hello Ladies, The last time I wrote to the list, I was telling you all how much my emotionally abusive relationship had improved. Well as it was instructed to...
Make sure any attorney you consider has experience in emotional abuse. I wasted almost $5000.00 on mine before I realized I needed someone who knew what I was...
Yeah, I've always known I wanted a woman because of my children / custody issue. I of course assume a woman will fight harder and believe me when I tell her...
In a message dated 2/4/2003 11:11:52 AM Eastern Standard Time, ... I believe each atty has his own rate. I would not consult diff attys in the same firm. I...
In a message dated 2/4/2003 12:36:35 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... Janet, I am so proud of you keeping your boundary. We all know here how difficult that is...
Thanks for all the advice. I will try Collaborative Negotiation first. It is much less expensive and we would each have an attorney in our corner, that is if...
hi everyone Well it if finally happening. We had our last fight last night. Not that it was much of a fight. Just him telling me exactly how much he thinks im...
Thank you Yoli! I have had such a peaceful week. He didn't show up in court so he reliquished the right to his stuff until he does. One of the many problems...
In a message dated 2/6/2003 12:40:15 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... Growing is scary, but you can do it. Push back those words that keep you in fear and...
In a message dated 2/6/2003 2:25:26 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... Yes, isn't it so much easier to see once you are not in it anymore? I am proud of you! Yoli ...
Sooo....After months of not coming out and telling him that I want a divorce, only many conversations about "I'm unhappy due to your emotional outbursts - it...
im afraid the emotional roller coaster is something that is hard to deal with. I am so sick of not knowing where he is comming from. One minute he wants a...
Not sure what I'm doing, or even if I'm doing it right. I have been with my partner 8 yrs. I just don't know where things are headed any more. Last week he...
... bitch ... I ... even ... me ... what ... Sorry, I thought I heard him. Anyway, he hasn't really said any thing about what happened. I feel like I have...
In a message dated 2/8/2003 4:28:02 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... My H is the same way, and we have a nanny! I went to a church breakfast yesterday and he...
In a message dated 2/9/2003 5:49:23 AM Eastern Standard Time, ... It appears that yoou are in a very dangerous situation. He reacted to loss of control over...