Terri, I've had alcohol problems dating back when I was a teen and I'm almost 23 and I'm even worse than I was as a teen and I mix my booze with my anti...
-Thanks Shelly It is just so sad because the abuse issue was finally out in the open and we were making progress. Who knows if the change would have lasted. S ...
It's easier for us to be strong when they are not around. When they are in front of us they have a way of "explaining" themselves so that we are left spinning...
Hi Deb Welcome. Emotional abuse takes on so many different forms. You should read the Lundy Bancroft book, "Why Does He Do That" Inside the minds of angry...
My husband told me this morn ing that he was filing for divorce. 3 weeks ago I would have been happy about that. It seems to be a pattern, every time I let...
I'm sorry to hear that, but as you say, it might be for the best. People don't file for divorce just over talking to friends. It looks to me like he thought...
Welcome Deb. I'm glad that you instantly recognize the signs of abuse. You can try to change the way you respond to him, but you probably won't change him. At...
Hi All. Thanks for the support. Here is my letter and his response. I know that you are upset that I made that phone call. I wish that you could see inside of...
I don't know if this is any help, but when things were really bad at my house, I had 911 coded into my cell phone. I have voice-activated calling, so all I...
... going to check some of them out. I wanted to tell you as well....thanks for not judging me based on my lifestyle. I ... I'm not the judge of mankind. The...
... womansemotionalabusesupport@yahoogroups.com, "hummingbird903" ... What followed ... find ... man, ... This ... perceptions ... Yeah, unfortunately that is...
... <spietrone1115@y...> wrote: I am so tired of this emotional ... It wasn't the friendship that caused the pain. It IS his need to control every thing you do...
I'm glad you found this group. There's lots and lots of good information here, and lots of people with lots of experience with abusive people. Many, many...
Jessika, You have a great deal of power. You have the power to stop abusing yourself with alcohol and anti-depressants. You have the power to stop being a...
Deb, Welcome Deb. My name is April. We all love you and are here to support you. Anytime you just need an ear to vent or want some advice......we are all...
Well, a lot has been going on with this group. I admit I lost interest during the "war of words". I'm too emotionally drained these days to deal with that...
Terri, Please be careful mixing drugs like that with drinking. I'm a nursing student and I 've seen many people come to the hospital to get stomach pumped or...
Shelley, Has she told him yet? I'm worried aout her. Abusers, especially if it's gone physical, can get so violent if you tell them you are going to leave....
Well what has happened, she told him last night by phone it was over. He wanted to talk it out, and did not get home until 10:30 They both had been up since...
Dear S, I couldn't agree more about the issue over the fuss that's been going on. Ladies......let's not let things like this seperate us. We are much...
Ok, here goes, my husband works late every night. He hasn't been home for dinner in 2 weeks. He calls tonight and says he is coming home to take us to dinner....
There is something wrong with your husband! You are totally inocent, you had no way of knowing he was going to come home early. He is emotionally and...
He should have just dropped it came home and enjoyed the kids. That is just one of those things that happens, it's not a bad thing and it's nobody's fault any...
Thank you. I am sorry too. paula aube <pna19@...> wrote:There is something wrong with your husband! You are totally inocent, you had no way of knowing...
I told him to come home and he said no. I guess we will see later. Shelly <dontbotherthecrazypeople@...> wrote: He should have just dropped it came home...
April, Thank you so much for your concern. It is very touching. I know it's easy to mix up posts, so I'm not upset. But I think you got some names mixed up....
I noticed this last weekend Yahoo changed the layout. It confuses me and it takes time to get used to it too. I have found on the internet there is the...
It sure does! I've mixed up names and posts many a time. Terri ... From: Shelly To: womansemotionalabusesupport@yahoogroups.com Subject: [Womans Emotional...
Joanne, He'll be home. Saying that YOU are making him hate women is funny. I know it's not funny to you, but it is funny. That is a perfect example of ...