Men are just dogs, pigs... whatever you want to call them. Deep down they are all the same. I haven't met one yet who's perfect. My husband has been trying...
He chased me through my dreams last night laughinging..telling me he was real and I was the dream that I was nothing but one of his memeories I woke up scared...
Second what K9 said. We can listen, we can offer support, but this information you are giving us would be more useful in the hands of a qualified therapist. ...
Maybe that's what I'm going through--a mid-life crisis! It would be nice to put a neat label on it like that, wouldn't it. Our husbands would love that. Of...
I have a lot of resentment myself. That's why I feel no matter what he does, or even if we go to counseling it's not going to change anything. We're near the...
Hi, So here I am and my ex starts in. He calls me on Friday to say that his daughter wants to talk to me. I got his message but was helping out a family...
He sees you as a puppet because he was able to manipulate you in the past. You allowed it, just like I allowed it to happen to me. He is playing games with...
... <cbid05@y...> wrote: On my way home from the store today I ... I keep thinking about what Lundy Bancroft has to say in his book Why Does He Do That? He...
Hello, What are the less obvious signs and a really good book for starters to identify this stuff? I have doubts he will explore the depths of his problems in...
All I can really say is to be careful. I hope that he hasn't become physical towards you and that it won't happen - ever!! It seems like these guys have a...
CB wrote: He said he knows he shouldn't have "lost his temper" and "said the things he did" in the past, but that he has issues with me too. And that nobody...
... <jhuesties8@y...> wrote: What is ... Here is an excerpt from something I posted on another group. It describes the spin zone, which is what I call it. ...
Oh I'm sure he hasn't started with his "punishment" Just keep your hands to yourself no matter what happens. If you need to, go get an order of protection....
Marilyn, Wow! Thank you for that passage. It makes sense to me now - not that WHY he wants to do this stuff makes sense, but I understand WHAT he is trying...
This is a huge battleground. I'm trying to understand my feelings about it. We haven't had sex in months because I've basically said NO. But why? Am I truly...
Hi, Well, considering that you are married and a woman - everybody has sexual needs/urges etc. I had the hardest time explaining this next part to my ex....
just wanted everyone to know I'm okay.. still a little hyper..kind of giddy today.. I did have a good night's sleep last night.. no dreams.. last night I just...
... about it. We haven't had sex in months because I've basically said NO. But why? Am I truly a frigid woman who needs a good dose of Viagra (according to...
Now your not dreaming about him is good but having your child start dreaming is not good for him. You both need to grieve and then let it go. In time it gets...
I realize that but John is mentally challenged and still dones't understand the concept of death..I've tried to explain and he understands most of the time he...
He has you to reassure him that everything will be alright. Your a very caring and loving mother. Children are much stronger that we give them credit for. I...
Ahh! This situation is driving me nuts!! I called him to see how his counseling session went today (as we agreed to only talk about that and 'our' daughter)....
Iris, It's a tough choice to stay/go. I feel like I have finally made my decision to leave, but still not without wondering if I'm doing the right thing. I...
had another one of those nights again.. feel so worthless today.. hate having to alwasy be strong for everyone.. I hate myself so much for so many reaons.. I...
I didn't have time to post this earlier, but this will give you some idea what I'm dealing with here: My children's father (I'm pretty much disgusted with him...
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