In a message dated 12/31/2004 4:29:26 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, lexylex@... writes: Am I the crazy one? Does this mean that my marriage is doomed?...
Yes you are being abused. You have scars they are just not physical. You husband is VERY insecure. That is HIS problem not yours. Yoli is correct. You need to...
Your position for leaving him is your strong point right now. The ball is in your court and you must do the right thing now. If need to organize your thoughts,...
Today I start my 7 month law enforcement academy which is either going to make, or break me. That is assuming my husband doesn't break me first. I worked all...
Decided to join group after my life escalated from verbal and emotional abuse to the physical level. Not sure what to do right now - just feel numb and very...
You have come to the right place. I am so sorry for what you are going through right now. First I have to ask you if you have gone to the hospital to be ...
If he's out of the state, MOVE quickly! ... __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! Mail - Find what you need with new enhanced search. ...
Focus on you right now. This is your dream and now it is a reality. Good Luck to you and I am sure you will do an amazing job. Take care and stay safe, Mae ...
Please read this book called "The emotionally abused woman" written by Beverly Engel. I bought the book on Amazon.com. It will help you. Emotional abuse by...
welcome top the group..you'll like it here..everyone is very warm, loving and supportive.. thank God he has left the sate for the moment..give you some time to...
We have four kids - one of which is his at four years old and the other three are teenagers in high school. Not sure what I should be doing not sure what I...
I'm sorry things have gotten this far for you. Mine hasn't gotten to that level but it's only a hare's breath away. I'm in no place to offer any advice other...
you need to take a deep breathe and relax my friend.. he isn't going to change..you know that.. just use the time you're in class to let go and forget about...
Don't depend on his promises. You need to do this legally to protect yourself and your children. I am glad you have a good job and independence. It is not ...
Thank you all so much. It just helps knowing that I'm not the crazy one. He tells me all the time that I'm the reason for his unhappiness. I know this isn't...
He is doing it to upset you. Stop. Dont let him. The house will get done, it will be there when you do what you need to for your self. Go to school and know...
I dont mean to keep posting but another thing that I read, fininacial devastation is another form of abuse. It makes you dependent on your abuser or makes it...
CB--your husband sounds very much like mine. He always wants to remember the "happier times", but "happier" means when he got his way all the time, or when he...
Thank you all for your support & encouragement. At a time like this, I really need it. As Mae said, this is my dream & I need to do this. I also need to show...
Abusers always have to put the blame somewhere. Your not the crazy one. Take care, Mae ... === message truncated === __________________________________ Do...
Hi CB, It is the men yes. We unfortunately are the type of woman these men hook into. Abuse is a cycle. Dont be upset with your self. Emotional abuse is...
That is excellent that you keep copies of all important documents. Also, document any incidences that happen to you by the abuser. Keep copies of birth...
Hi: I read your site. Thank you for sharing your experience with others who might be going through the same thing. Take care and stay safe, Mae ... ...
Can you get an order of protection while he is away. This way he can not come back into your house or in your presence. He will probably be "sorry" when he...
... to leave me many times (stopped saying that when I finally got the courage to tell him to go). My husband told me to "write up the papers, I'll sign...
wyattlilly, have you considered if you husband has Narcisstic Personality Disorder traits? It seems he goes where he gets the most attention. If it is from you...
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