I had another flashback last night when I was in bed..I was sleeping & he came into the bed with me..he whispered in my ear that it was not going to be so easy...
My husband was telling me how I feel again last night. He started explaining to me how he knows I'm scared about going off to school (this was news to me)....
Sherri, I'm sorry all of this has happened to you, but you need to know that none of this is your fault. You should not hate yourself for any of this. I'm...
Have you ever charged the perpetrator with Sexual Assault or Child Sexual Abuse? He is a perpetrator Sherri and you are a victim of his abuse. He can be ...
Your right, you need to gain your confidence back. You don't need to be told what to do. You are a very intelligent woman who has a mind of her own. Being ...
Thanks Mae, I appreciate your support! I do know that I need to exercise, but hearing it from him makes it harder. He says he's encouraging me & just offering...
I'm sitting here, sort of in a fog. I'm so tired, I'm not really with it. I can't go to sleep right now, though, because I have too much to do & places to...
There is nothing you can really do until she admits that there is a problem..but we are here to support you..to listen to what you have to say..and steer you...
This seems to be a common controller tactic--telling you how you feel--or rather, how they THINK you should feel. Stick to your guns. You'll do it! ... From:...
Hello everyone. My father is an emotional and physical abuser. He has abused my sister and I emotionally, my mother, his first wife, physically. 2 wives...
You need to take care of yourself first K9. Get plenty of rest and then everything will fall in place. When we become sleep deprived our bodies and minds ...
I usually veg out in front of the TV before bed. Nothing is more mind numbing than television! Last night he was having one of his "reaching out" moments &...
Does he give you any time for yourself? Mae ... __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? All your favorites on one personal page – Try My Yahoo! ...
Hi I am here and I am looking for support because I was in a 3 year emotionally abusive and verbally abusive (sometimes Physical) relationship. He was a total...
This would drive me nuts! My husband also picks the worst possible moments to start a conversation, but luckily, it's not in the middle of the night. In...
Absolutely! Pun was intended there. LOL ... From: gone2thek9s To: womansemotionalabusesupport@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, December 01, 2004 2:56 PM ...
... possible moments to start a conversation, but luckily, it's not in the middle of the night. In fact, since he comes home and immediately starts drinking,...
I get time to myself when he's at work & the kids are at school. When everyone is at home, though, that's a different story. He can't even keep the kids quiet...
I think driving me nuts is his intention with all of this. At times, I can tune him out a bit & start to drift off, at least when he's going on about...
Hi & welcome! I'm glad you found us, although sorry to hear you are going through what we've all been going through. It helps to get it out & share with...
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I'm pretty sure the sex-o-meter is his measurement of how well the relationship is going. I could never say another word to him, but agree to have sex...
How did you finally break away? I do have a plan. I'm going back to school in January to get the education I need for a career & life of my own. I'm still in...
My husband uses the same tool to measure our relationship. No wonder men don't get it, they are always thinking with the wrong head! I don't think it's fair...
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Thanks for the compliments, much appreciated! You sound very wise & tough yourself. It's true, we all need to stick together & help each other. I think...
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