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Have a safe and happy 4th. if I don't get the chance to log on again. Just a reminder that many times holiday weekends cause a lot of stress in already...
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I'm not sure how common this is, but whenever I see that my abuser's been trying to be friendly with mutual acquaintances, I get depressed and angry. Depressed...
Hi Rose, Like many of us here you may be codependent. I suggest you read the book Codependent No More by Melanie ?????. It may be available at your local...
Rose, a belated welcome to you. My abuser is very charming and attracts people wherever she goes, but she's a bitch when it comes to me. She had the...
FyrButch, My deepest sympathies for this person coming in and trying to destroy you. You are not to blame for her insecurities. Has she done any of her...
Oh, yes, I have some really nasty emails from her, and about the only thing I can say is that she is a poor speller and lazy grammatically, and she HATED for...
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<<<and she HATED for me to write like I normally do because she considered me pretentious.>> He told me that I only act smart to make him look bad. Ummm...no....
I am no longer his victim, but still his target. He attempts emotional and verbal abuse. I tell him to stop, then I walk away or hang up or drive away... as...
It is funny how when we get away from them, we see their comments/remarks for what they are. Mine always said my vocabulary was too large - I used big words to...
Thank you a million times over for your statement. If someone were to pay me a true compliment they would tell that I am bright. I have not been called a...
I can relate. I am a teacher & because my soon-to-be-ex did not go to college, he has his own insecuritites (because I did and he didn't...Which I never cared...
I am divorced from an abusive husband for 3 yrs now. But because we own a house together and it needs extensive work my ex agreed to help repair the things he...
I have been very depressed & didn't want to come on here and just whine. Didn't feel like I could be any help to anyone. I have been reading your posts, and am...
Hi Dana sorry to hear that. I know about depression. It sucks the life out of you. I finally had to resort to meds inorder to cope and live a normal life. I am...
Thanks Bonnie. I have no insurance & have a job that doesn' pay 1/3 what my other job paid. So I guess you can call it financial depression LOL. I am older &...
Dana whining now and then is not bad. THe squeaky wheel gets the oil. We all have to express our feelings or we would go nuts. Do you have a free clinic where...
I have now been away from my abuser for two weeks. In that time, I have secured a place to live, and have been able to get the majority of my things moved. I...
Put the photo album away! Seriously. You are in danger of forgetting the bad times, as time goes by things become less fresh & you may beging to doubt...
The fact that you are reaching out to others when you feel lonely is a good sign. It's been over a year since the relationshop with my abuser ended, and I...
Dana ~ This forum is all about being a safe place to whine and complain, get some validation, understanding, empathy...whatever YOU need at the time that you...
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