by Peace Bella----Men are the most egoistic creatures on land. They have high level of testosterones in their body. They are eager to win and they are always...
//Either way, it wasn't good for me. That's why I'm out.// I guess, ultimately, that's the best way of looking at it. But in the 'down times', it would sort of...
You are a lot more knowledgeable this time around. I know that you would spot another abuser and that you would see right through his sugar mouth. God never...
Here we go again. My goodness you are figuring him out as you wrote this post. You have another abuser. I am so sorry for your pain. I know how hard it is to...
Domestic violence toward women: Recognize the patterns and seek help Date updated: May 23, 2007 Content provided by MayoClinic.com Your partner apologizes and...
Are you sure that you can handle something so heavy duty? This whole situation may bring you great emotional pain. Be ever so careful you have to keep yourself...
//So far, I have $100 saved in my new account// Go girl! Just last week, it seemed, you started with $20. //And the moral of the story is: there is no knight....
L, There are so many women on this list that thought about speaking to their ex's new "love" to warn them. While that's not a good idea because they have stars...
I had to take rests between each step. I was still living with my ex but I wasn't in physical danger. He did get to the point when he started throwing things...
//I think I'm pretty attractive, most of the people I work with have made comments that I am very smart and think I do my job really well..I am nice and really...
Here we go Emily, I asked him if it ... sometimes..you ... Demeaning remarks, dismissing your reality of your physical symptoms. and he was like "oh you know...
As long as he can get you to doubt yourself (wearing you down a little at a time), until he has trashed you, and you feel totally valueless; he will have...
A "pact." I love it; yes we need to speak up and out about this terrible shredding of souls. I spent years talkling about the (now ex) and his abuse, but no...
Just wanted to pass this info. on. While shopping for an energy company for when I move out, I discovered that Green Mountain will waive the deposit fee for...
So after the guy I am seeing has shown that he is only about himself and doesnt care if he is hurtful to me, I sent him a message last night telling him that I...
The first mistake we make is responding or contacting them; their response will ALWAYS be abusive and crazy-making. We live in reality, so we think we should...
Thanks Alicia..I know what you mean about contacting them. I just hate being ignored. To me, that is one of the most painful forms of abuse. I can already see...
Jesus told us that we would know the tree by the fruit it produces. He said that because there are many who claim to be Christians and don't show the fruit of...
Hi L, Just read this now. I think you just want to stop feeling, that's why you mentioned it in your email. Because we are tired of being hurt. But its...
How do people keep up their strength through divorce and other problems that seem to hit all at once? October, I am asked to resign from my 11 year job for...
Hi billsgirl, Be glad that he is showing his true colors now. He will definitely get worse pretty soon. I actually asked my husband, why he did that when we...
Take a breathe! I don't know why it all does hit us at once. You have 2 things that you need to think about now. 1) Getting rid of all asthmatic environments. ...
ROMEO'S BLEEDING When Mr. Right Turns Out To Be Mr. Wrong Part 1-Control By Roger Melton, M.A., L.M.F.T., CEAP OBGYN.net Editorial Advisor Who needs a heart...
... ways ... Abuser's show their colors right away. The signs are there. Usually we make excuses for them.... It wasn't directed at me so I'm safe... They...
Sometimes I felt like I was going backwards. As I looked at where I was and compared it to where I am at any given time I realize how far I've come. Is there...
//Men are the most egoistic creatures on land. They have high level of testosterones in their body. They are eager to win and they are always ready to fight....
//I know that you would spot another abuser and that you would see right through his sugar mouth.// Sure hope so. I'm so much more guarded at present, but...
Hey Marilyn, I am working on getting rid of the asthma causing environment. Hopefully soon all of that will be finished with and I can start cleaning up. If...