Jane, I agree with Zest. He has the letter to read if he doesn't understand why you aren't coming back. Obviously he didn't read the letter carefully. Like Mel...
Candy, I know that you are confused. It's okay to be confused. Sometimes I think our confusion is in our minds. We become confused because we think "this could...
Thanks Marilyn. I read the article and it was very good.I guess what I don't understand is why I get involved with the same type of man from the one I married...
My goodness he is so typical. You see you don't count. He is the only one who can be ill. My x manipulated me with a heart attack that he had in 1996. He...
That's the $64,000 question. Why do we choose the same type of man over and over again? Theories are many....I think it's because I didn't get a certain need...
thanks marilyn i needed that candy ... From: Marilyn <mothertime2001@...> To: womansemotionalabusesupport@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, April 1, 2008...
I agree w. Marilyn - don't enter into any official financial situation w. him - not a lease, not a mortgage, not a loan. Don't buy anything 'major' w. him. I'm...
Professionals in the Helping Industries & Their Personal Pathological Relationships Are you a doctor, nurse, therapist, social worker,female clergy, medical...
Hi all (this is really long, but therapeutic for me) I wrote a week or so ago that I had joined this group over a year ago when I divorced and was married late...
Wow. He sounds extraordinarily selfish, and probably narcissistic. http://www.halcyon.com/jmashmun/npd/ http://samvak.tripod.com/ Does he ask you how *you*...
Kelly...you are very good at expressing yourself and your feelings, as per your message. I wish you could read it like I did. I don't know him...but I hate...
I am struggling with this feeling of complete "dead, numb, emptiness" inside. I have had it a few times before in my life but they were under MUCH MUCH worse...
I had my midweek visit last evening with my teenage son. We were chomping on pizza when he says," Stan (his father) has a girlfriend". Now.. I dislike children...
Kelly, Let me start off by saying that when I saw the photo of that child my heart broke. I kept saying to my boyfriend "oh what a beautiful child, how could...
... (which actually does not bother me) and needs me to pay off about 18K in back child support in the next month so he can stay out of jail. Before we were...
If he is saying it to hurt you than the conversation is not up for discussion. Do you think that was his purpose? Maybe you should have asked him how ~he~...
Actually.... In looking at it again... I think it was more of seeking my reaction. My son has been dismissed by the ex many times...a girlfriend is just...
I know these are very good points and I am pondering them today. It is actually worse, he actually owes like 60K and the 18K is what is left of a probation of...
Hello Survivors, I've been busy but just had to update. Hope you may get some chuckles out of my story. Divorced, March 13, and his lawyer is so disgusted...
I went through a similar scenario when I went to my home to get my dog and some belongings. I am glad I asked the Police to keep peace as my husband was very...
I went through a similar scenario when I went to my home to get my dog and some belongings. I am glad I asked the Police to keep peace as my husband was very...
Dearest Lilly, One of the members here and I were talking on the phone with each other today- last year our "X's" moved out within 2 weeks of each other. The...
Kelly,, You don't have to be a sterling example of finances, you just have to pay your bills and support your kids. Do you do that? It sounds like this guy...
I believe it is not right for YOU to pay off HIS back child support so HE can stay out of jail.? That is a problem he created over a long period of time.? You...
Perhaps you could explain to the son that although you know his father is a significant person in his life and naturally he would want to talk about the...
I feel so stupid....like almost paralyzed with the decision of what to do. I am gainfully employed, do not depend on him for money at all, and I feel just...
//This is so covert and he doesn't even know he is doing it. // It sounds like you're being manipulated. I expect that's what the 'dead' feeling is about -...
Kelly, No matter what happens....no matter what.....you are not a loser. Do you know why? The answer to that is because you are: -trying your best. -working to...
Yeah..after reading everyones comments I think I could have handled it better. But nothing is totally lost...I'll be seeing him next week...at the appropriate...
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