HI i ABSOLUTLY AGREE. My opinion is why should yu leave and live in a shelter, ours here are horrors, his behavior is innappropiate, not yurs. He should go...
Thank you for taking the time to reply to my request for info. I have researched my situation and the laws of where I am living presently. Everything that I...
hi I ahave spent most of my life healing from the damages and i realized that i contiually find myself in the sme damaging situations. I suppose that i have to...
hi Thank you for sharing your mother...I have been treated by most of the people in my life. I am a professional and my close people feel i should work a a...
Are there support groups that deal with a controlling husband. I find that I am not the prson I was, weak, no back bone. Confused and not knowing where to go...
Have you consulted with a legal advisor anyway? I would just want you to be sure, you may be entilted to assets that you may think are not available to you....
This is a support group for women who are controlled by their husbands. Many women here overcome that control and take steps to gaining their self esteem back....
Here's a website for MN. Look under "Get Help", then Help in Minnesota,then click on which county. If you want to know about another state, look under, "Help...
My husband and I have been married for 12 years. We are at the end of our ropes with each other. I have for years been trying to please him and cannot. I...
Yes, I would say your situation is abusive! If you can, and have time, read some of the old posts, or if you would like I can send you some I have saved that...
I remember the day that I ran away from my mother.It happened 38 years ago but I remember it like it was yesterday.At the time I was 8 years old and my...
I would agree that your father was ineffectual. He blamed you for "saying" something and YOU said or did absolutely nothing but get a compliment from your...
Hi Jacearren, WOW! Is all that I can say when I just started your note. I'm going to comment under your statements. This is so chockful of learning about...
jacearren, i hesitate to post for personal reasons, if you would like, i could respond privately. i am in a recovery situation, and can relate to your...
Yes please send me what ever you have,,,, I am desparate.... You can mail it to jacearren@.... I am so grateful for you guys. Jace ... time, read some...
Marilyn,,,, THANK YOU so much for you words. I cried my way through them. there is so much more to my story as I am sure you are aware. I really appreciate...
Marilyn, In answer to your question, yes I would like to be loud about my situation and proclaim it to the world and especially the international world to let...
I was in an abusive relationship for 2 1/2 months shy of 14 years. Two years after our divorce was final, he did die, although rumor has it that he was...
I can relate. I am called fat, at 5'2" 118 lbs. That is the nicest thing I am called. I am tying to find a job., at 60 years old that is a challenge. Most days...
I do that too Jo Lay. Go to my room and absorb the comments. How can I keep doing that? I have children to take care of.. and myself. I have a strong...
I can also relate to being called fat when I use to weigh anywhere between 125 and 132 at 5' 4" from people when I was in high school. I also inherrited a big...
//I was wondering if anyone has been in an emotionally abusive relationship and had their spouse end up taking their own life?// I stayed with x much longer...
Well, we need to understand first and foremost that it is not about US. We are normal, decent women....oops, sorry, we are excellent women who are trying to be...
So I am broken up with my ex abuser for all of you who know my story. He continues to call/text even though I have asked him not to. I have ignored him for the...
You know, I go through this repeatedly. But one thing my therapist told me is just to record every time he calls or texts. Not to respond. Once you respond, he...
I have to thank you for your insight and suggestions. I am going through what you did in the past and what gives me stregnth is woman like you who have...