Your time is limited, so don't waste time living someone elses life. Don't be trapped by dogma-which is living the results of other people's thinking. Don't...
Keep all your dreams so close to you heart, and never give up, when your life is falling apart. Let your dreams give you strength to carry on, and help you...
Yes, this is NORMAL---for an abuser. My first question is why have you been his fiance for such a long time? Read: The Verbally Abusive Relationship by...
Hi Lauren, I hope you are doing good? I agree with you on the message you have here. It is important to be just you no mattter what others my think you are or...
Everyone who posts in this group is wonderful! I have gotten so much needed information and support! I have a question that I wonder if I could get some...
Call 911 for emergencies FOR IMMEDIATE HELP PLEASE CALL: National Domestic Violence/Abuse Hot line -- 24 Hours a day -- All 50 states 1-800-799-SAFE...
Definition Of Abuse: Abuse comes in many forms and types. It's hard to pinpoint why an abuser chooses a certain type of person. Unfortunately, that's usually...
Abusers abhor and dread getting emotionally intimate. The cerebral ones regard sex as a maintenance chore, something they have to do in order to keep their...
Hi Lauren, Thank you for your prayers...I know that you are right, he is a very sick man, who after 34 years of his life is still caught up on the roller...
Hi Karyn, Wow, thanks for sharing all of that. I have been living my life much the same way with my husband until I finally filed for divorce 4 months ago....
Hi Glorie, I am so proud of you for taking a stand a saying no more abuse. I will make it through all of this and our son will not grow up in a dysfunctional...
Ending Abuse In Your Relationship: A Woman's Roadmap To Empowerment ARE YOU IN A CYCLE OF VIOLENCE? Family violence is not a single act of abuse – it is a...
Marilyn, I am at the point right now that I just wish god would take me from this earth. I just moved to hawaii and my son is in indiana and I talked to him...
I look at my life and wonder why do i put up with this.... i know what he does is abuse and that things will never get any better so why am i so afraid to...
I think it's going to be over now. I've only posted a couple of times about my situation but to summarize my H finally "admitted" to his abuse and was taking...
Lynlee, It sounds like you are going around and around with yourself. You could keep going around and around forever- you can, you really can. Some people ...
My name is Danielle. I'm not all that new to the concept of abuse, physical or verbal. I grew up in it, of course, making it easier to walk right back into it...
My husband and I have problems in past where he would be passive aggressive and use emotional abuse but that changed after his family witnessed him. We had...
Hi Melissa, I'm so sorry for your pain with your daughter. I know from personal experience how difficult it is because I have two young adult children who...
Nails in a Wall There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must...
Detaching Most people struggling with very unhealthy partners eventually come upon the concept of detaching. Unfortunately, detaching is something that is...
What is detachment? What are the negative effects not detaching? How is detachment a control issue? What irrational thinking leads to an inability to detach? ...
February 07, 2006 The Truth About Verbal Abuse Verbal abuse is, correctly speaking, verbal violence. The old adage says: "Sticks and stones will break my...
No, you are not over reacting...this is verbal abuse, he is trying to get you to separate from you own instinctive, gut feeling....this is how they keep us...
Hi Lauren, So you are newly separated as well, I think this is the hardest time, it's just so fresh in our heads. You are so smart to get yourself all wrapped...
Glorie - are you online to talk for a bit??? Karyn ************************************** See what's free at http://www.aol.com. [Non-text portions of this...
Hi Shel flower, Thanks so much for your response, so each time you took him back he just eventually would start back up with the abuse? It's like there is...
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