Hi my name is Tina, and I've been going out with my boyfriend Miguel for about a year and a half, everything started out perfect he was my prince charming,...
Hi I recognised the name as one a former co-worker/friend from Oklahoma.. could this be you? Kimmy tracy little <trace693526@...> wrote:hi sherry, i am...
I have not been able to write much due to the fact that I am still looking for a place to live and a job. Yesterday, I found out that I am pregnant from the...
In a message dated 4/30/2004 1:37:59 PM Eastern Daylight Time, lyndan3000@... writes: I personally, don't care if he talks about me.. if he is bettering...
Simple rewards is something I use all the time here and yes it does work too! My man and I, for instance, reward ourselves with scratchies LOL. We are both...
Hi, yup my guy kind of did this.. I finally got him to attend anger management counselling - he went along.. with all good intentions but in reality he didn't...
That's the hard part for me too Yoli, those of us who decide to stay, hear and give advice we just don't follow ourselves... that in itself, confuses me! San ...
Sandra, I fee that way..drag myself out.I do not know which one is the first..my body or head? My friend told me today that we have to be our own cheer...
Yes!Emily,,,I like that.."I am not his servant" True..I really enjoy your postings..it is Sunday night..feeling lonely and found your posting and I am...
Emily, this reminded me of my ex's behaviors. whenever he got a ticket for ignoring red lights or parking the wrong place, he blamed me for it. He said "it is...
Oh Emily, You sound exactly like my best friend whom I adore very much. She said exactly the same thing you said here.....and she is such a great person. She...
In a message dated 5/2/2004 8:34:07 PM Eastern Daylight Time, the_sisp@... writes: so he went to counselling, he told them if he drinks VB (beer) or...
I don't know Yoli... You are the only other person apart from my best friend who thinks he has a problem when it comes to perving... so maybe it's just me...
Funny you should say that Yoli, my guy has been very peaceful since I started counselling too... Another funny thing though is he knows I don't necessarily go...
Hi Tina, I can really relate to you..the feeling of going crazy..crying all the time..just do not want to get out of bed.I remember that feeling and I still do...
San, How you have just put my feelings in words! My guy does the exact same thing.... He always says how he has to get the grunt of my past and now he has to...
Lynda, yes, they don't realise that further abuse opens past wounds, in fact they don't realise they are being abusive in the first place. I am almost at the...
i dont excactly know what this is but its like i am afraid to go to the store cause i know i will do something wrong and he will yell at me or if i want...
As amazing as it may sound many people do not realize how easy it is to LEGALLY stop paying for their groceries! This is how the one hour television show began...
Abusers know whrere our sore spots are..and tell us we are insecure or whatever..although they make us more insecure by degrading us..They are the ones who are...
Dear sweet Malati, When our self-esteem is so sorely traumatized, in many cases during our childhood, we become insecure also. And abusers can sense that...
Malti & Michele Your posts hit a note with me. I've had the privilege of meeting a man who seems to be truly nice. After years of being physically and...
Hi Michele, it is always good to hear from you!!what you said is very powerful and informative...I learn from you a lot..thank you...the most I admire about...
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