Wow.. I am at loss for words. I can not grasp this one I am sorry Hun but I
am a firm believer in what goes around comes around and in due time it will
happen...
Last night after this week-end he told me he thought about me all day and said he was so sorry for the way he was this week-end and that he could never live...
Lynnlee, I'm new here and haven't posted till now. I've been married for 10 years to a man who was verbally and emotionally abusive. I went to an attorney...
This I absolutely agree on...my other repsonse to this post was supposed to be humorous.....dont fall into the honeymoon trap..it will just delay your...
I just went to the dentist today - and the hygienist told me all about her husband and their situation. What she was describing in bitter detail - was her NPD...
normalmemphisgirl that is why this time is so different than all of the other times and believe me in 7 yrs there have been many many times this has happened...
First of all...stop crying. I know its hard, Gods know Ive been there...but not for nothing its just a waste of energy that could to well spent elsewhere. I...
when you are ready and the time is right you will leave, I left my marriage after 24 years, its painful, hard and wonderful all at the same time. At least no...
karyn, I have only been posting here in the group for a couple weeks now and trust me I have been where you are at. I read Patricia Evans "The Verbal Abusive...
Jen, It really feels good right now. I hate the head games, life is just to short for that kind of stuff and afterall, we are not in elementary school...
For Lynlee- About what you told me...in case I dont get back to you today... Awwww sweetie I understand how you feel. It wasnt easy to tell Rch to leave..but...
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hello everyone my name is liz and i am 37 and live in yourkshire england i been out of my relationship for 8 weeks now and apart from in the beginning i doing...
Rev thanks so much for yours and everyones support and keeping me on the right track. Even tho we ALL know what that track is, with everything our abuser has...
I'm curious if anybody is in the same boat as me with regards to my past. My boyfriend and I started dating immediately after we met and moved in together very...
Now Linda...LET ME HEAR YOU ROAR! What a great affirmation. Repeat to yourself every day in the mirror....NEVER AGAIN.....Blessings and Hugs.... Rev. Morgan ...
Karyn, I've been there. It was horrible. You seem to be very real with what is going on. Good for you. Sounds like you're open to ideas of something new in...
Welcome Liz! You said that you felt like you were walking on eggshells to keep the peace. That is not normal in a "normal" relationship. Did he yell at you?...
I am scared. Up until today my husband was active duty Air Force, he is officially retired today. The military has been wonderful keeping him "under control"...
That would be very hard to live like that. I hid LOTS of things AFTER we were together, but I told him most everything about me during our courtship. I hate...
Exactly. I was thinking about not mentioning the internet part. But I know in my heart that it'll piss him off no matter what and I know for MY well being, I...
Wow this sounds so complicated to me. As a Minister I can only advise technically on the 'spiritual side' of it all. But I will keep you in my prayers and wish...
Dear Dana, Thank you for the KIND words! Some were not so kind that I received. This is a hard thing to deal with - and to say just stop crying about it, is ...
thanks so much dana for the reply he has hit me twice in 8 years the first time was cos i upset him about my ex husband i was being really bad and the secone...
Liz, his hitting you was abuse. Physical abuse. What you are now feeling is COMPLETELY normal thoughts and feelings! You are mourning/grieving the loss of...
Of course, I HAVE to reply.....because, say it with me now, "We live parallel lives!" I learned LONG ago not to share ANY details of my life from before I met...
Bravo Megan for your candor, honesty and your resolve to get out of that situation one day! That example of sexual abuse (which I feel it is) reminded me of...
The spiritual side of me is what has gotten me this far! The abuse was intolerable, I was exhausted by always trying to figure things out and to predict his...
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