Smartdebbie Sandra is right about many things: 1. Abusers depend on us being silent. they like to look like the "good guy" to others. Since abusers cut off...
Hi Meredith, I'm in Melbourne too, to get some help call Life Works and have a chat to them. They are doing wonders for me. I was advised this was the best...
Yes, I have contacted United Way, Salvation Army and the abuse hotline. The 1st two have options if you live in a larger city. I live in a small town in...
You are so right. I am in the process of doing just that. I have resigned myself that even if I have to go to a shelter, then so be it. I'm wanting to wait...
Thank you for all the support. I have been not checking my email due to not wanting to see if he contacted me. It is so sad but still a part of me hoped that...
Hello to Everyone, I am new here so I will brief you on history of what I still deal with. I am 44 years old, parents met in AA at the age of 40 then came me...
I have been sad since Sunday. I called my ex back (On Sunday) because he left me a message saying it was an emergency to call him. He did not want anything but...
Instead of thinking of the "good stuff", Deb, why not write down a list of all the things he has said or done to you to hurt or control you. When you start...
Hi, I don't post here much but, i read all of the posts. I'm 24 and have a 21mnth. old baby girl. My b/f John is the father and I live with him. He's...
Hi Kat Your delimma is a difficult one. Babies are wonderful but it also means that you become more dependent upon your abuser. How you handle this depends on...
In a message dated 4/5/2004 10:04:58 PM Eastern Daylight Time, smartdebbie2001@... writes: He did not want anything but to ask me if I knew where he put...
In a message dated 4/5/2004 11:05:53 PM Eastern Daylight Time, katnkitten@... writes: ...he says "no, you're probably pregnant" and just little things like...
Hi Kat, This again is what I have understood. I have three great children. I also was married to a sex addict. I believe it really was not that he enjoyed...
Hi Kat, This again is what I have understood. I have three great children. I also was married to a sex addict. I believe it really was not that he enjoyed...
You are right I need to see someone. I am doing the best that I can but it is hard. Thanks for the support. I will start searching again for a therapist. ... ...
Deb, I know it's hard to be alone. Sometimes it seems that the bad times were not so bad, and it would be better now. But it's a lie. Don't believe it for a...
Hi Kat, This again is what I have understood. I have three great children. I also was married to a sex addict. I believe it really was not that he enjoyed...
Hi Deb, You are not alone...I have really hard time..because my mind always go back to the old days...I have not talked to my ex for four months..and everyday...
In a message dated 4/6/2004 5:21:56 PM Eastern Daylight Time, smartdebbie2001@... writes: You are right I need to see someone. I am doing the best that I...
Robin thank you so much for the e-mail. I was feeling bad and when I read the e-mail it completely lifted my spirit. Sometimes I feel like I am floating on a ...
--Thank you so much for the encouragement. I feel soo much better after I read some of the posts. I feel centered and directed. But wow how long will I feel...
I just want to take this time to say THANK YOU to all who are in this group and responded to my "sad Feelings". You have pulled me through yet another phase of...
Hi, I am new to this group and would like to say a little about myself. My name is Erin, and I am 28 yrs. old. I have been in abusive relationships..actually...
In a message dated 4/12/2004 3:30:24 PM Eastern Daylight Time, weezer7567@... writes: Now I am here on my 2nd and hopefully last marriage and my husband...
Erin, Many times victims will try to sabotage a relationship with a good man because they feel "good guys" are too boring. To explain this better, when an...
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