Dear Group: For the past ten years or more I feel I have been stuck in an unhappy marriage. I think it all began before my husband and I got married. Before...
My story is a little different. My emotional abuse came from my father. Although he never sexually abused me he has used his words to make my life a living...
I'm going to assumed this was the 'ex parte" that you got? Did you have a hearing? Heres a website that might help: http://www.womenslaw.org/MA/MA_how_to.htm ...
This might help: http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/selfhelp/family/divorce/ m_dolores06 <no_reply@yahoogroups.com> wrote: Hello..I'm in desperate need of guidance...
Everyone we knew thought my former abuser was a model husband, even to the point where the sheriff in our town APOLOGIZED to him for having to serve him with...
Okay, here's a breakdown of what happened: 1. > First he came in the door with dinner and was in a bad mood You're beginning to recognize that his episodes...
I'm glad you found us, and I hope that we can help. We are a group of women who truly understand because we have experienced abuse. So much of what you...
First of all thank you for the response to my last question..was very helpful. I just did something that I shouldn't have and now I dont know what to do. you...
First of all thank you for the response to my last question..was very helpful. I just did something that I shouldn't have and now I dont know what to do. you...
Welcome to the group Sonja, Sorry to hear about what youčve gone though, but at least your strong enough to take action, that is a good thing! Ouch in regards...
Brokenwing, This is a very difficult time for you. Suspicions arise and you second guess yourself. From a "normal" relationship perspective checking his phone...
my mom saw the email I wrote about hearing another girl on his voicemail..she thought it had something to do with an std but i told her how it was a "cold" she...
I have been so strong for so long now its to the point where he's not accepting me ignoring him anymore he's just been showing up my house job driving around...
I don't even know were to start other then saying I wish I could kick my life to six months down the road say what I am gonna do and then have it all done with...
You asked if the honeymoon stages get better. I don't know if they get better or if the Stockholme Syndrome makes us view ~any~ kindness from them as being...
I recieved an email from a Johnnyfluff2 with a Johnnyfluff1 email address. He addressed me as Maz which is my email name. In order for him to call me Maz he...
Bren, You know that we get sucked back in to believing our husbands. Please take a breath and consider yourself. You are a very special, loving woman who is...
I have Fibromyalgia, fibro for short. I was already in an abusive relationship, but with the diagnosis of fibro, the abuse has come to an all time high. The...
lost, I have Fibro, and survived 6 years of an abusive relationship - verbal/emotional, intimidation, bullying, controlling. Was working his way up to...
Lolo, thank you so much for answering. You sound just like me, down to the hoarding and ADD, and never being able to keep my house up. And then the never...
I don't have fibro, but I have endometriosis which can get extremely painful (last weekend I was taking 2 hydrocodone every 4 hrs) plus an unexplained...
While I was married to my abuser, I was diagnosed with chronic fatigue syndrome with fibromyalgia. It's a terribly difficult thing to be dealing with. I can...
Marilyn, I looked in the members list. There is a Johnnyfluff1 listed as a member. It appears that he joined this group on Dec. 2, 2006. As for his use of...
Dear Group: My story is different too, because my abuse began with my mother from a very early age she was controlling and critical of me. From the time I was...
Hi Terri, Thanks for that information. He also suggested I join a group called divorcecareforyou and I couldn't find this yahoo group. I guess I'm just leary...
Hi CJ, No - I ran from him a year ago and stayed elsewhere for my overnights throughout that weekend, and quickly put a restraining order in place. Then I...
My story is a little different. My emotional abuse came from my father. Although he never sexually abused me he has used his words to make my life a living...
This is a very long letter, so you might want to get you a cup of coffee and a snack (LOL) I'm sorry you have had to go through so much. It seems so unfair ...
Remember what we tell others - trust your instincts. If something is telling you this just doesn't feel right, pay attention and use caution. The risks and...