My husband and daughter recently had occasion to be traveling with each other for quite a few hours. During that time, my husband lamented the fact that his...
Robyn, I agree with you. I do know that when ever I felt good about me my ex-husband would say were did you get that idea. He would say only nice things when...
Instead of owning her behavior she deflected to all your faults making her son the wonder boy of the year. Marilyn ... that ... was, ... went." ... want ... ...
Yes- and then one hour later I see him calling me..the only reason he is calling is because his mom is making him. If he wanted to be in her life he would do...
Emily, do you have full custody, legal and physical? If so, then you can get a professional supervisor, and make him pay for the time with your daughter. See...
I have never legally gotten custody from the courts. he has never tried taking me to court and I am afraid if went that route, there would be a chance that he...
i am so damn confused! its like a drug...i cant seem to get outta my system....i am about to give up my kids just to be with him. but i cant seem to get over...
Hi my name is Bren and I am going threw the same thing -the part of taking my own life. I don't beleave that any man is worth that. I have harded up not to...
HELP>>>>I responded to the email of IM ADDICTED, and started out tring to confert her in her situation and found that I am going threw more then I can handle...
Do you have a stable family who could take your kids for awhile? This is very sad to me that you would be willing to give up your children for a guy!! I mean,...
You need to let the law decide what happens to him and focus your time on your children and yourself. they weren't the ones who got into trouble, yet they...
Mileva This is a great post and it is interesting that you are taking about this becuase this very thing has been on my mind this week. I am not sure what day...
Just re reading this post and I see that I had alot of typos. Sorry about that. Let me know if any of it seems unclear. :) ... had ... are ... people ... ...
Thank You and you are right, I am very stressed out because I have been the one to take care of him and be that mother, Now I am saying I am your wife and I am...
Wow! That is awesome. I am sooooo happy for you. Justice prevailed!!! What a blessing and a relief to you. I pray I will experience the same type of...
Hi Miki, It's good to hear from you again. I'm glad everything is going well for you. You should be proud of yourself for doing what was necessary to keep...
Hi Bren, It is very painful when we decide not to enable other people anymore. When you decided not to do his "work" for him anymore you made a decison not to...
i'm now on about week 8 of leaving my ex and its suddenly really hit me hard. i try to talk to my friends about the abuse and they are very supportive and kind...
i'm now on about week 8 of leaving my ex and its suddenly really hit me hard. i try to talk to my friends about the abuse and they are very supportive and kind...
This is the first anniversary since we have been seperated. I am not even sure how I feel about it. I haven't seen him since May and haven't talked to him...
I spent months in that state of knowing I needed to leave and yet not quite able to take that final step. You will reach a point where you just do it. I...
As Patricia Evans says, they live in a different "reality". Terri ... "Every morning in Africa, a gazelle wakes up It knows it must run faster than the fastest...
Bren, Your husband is using abuse tactics by deflecting, blaming and accusing you for everything wrong in his life. You are simply not enabling him. He is an...
Laura, It seems like everyone wants an escape from anything that doesn't feel good. That's why people use drugs, alcohol, sex or even gambling. They are ways...
I truly know how you feel. I felt the same way our first anniversary seperated. I know it may not seem much now, but, it does get easier and eventually it just...
Unfortunatly, yes, this is how it is at first. You mourn, you get angry, and so the cycle of emotions repeat. You are not doing or going through anything that...
I thought of that to do something for myself. I thought of going for a massage or something. I just didn't want to be alone most of the day. I wasn't sure how...
I'm sorry it's so tough. I've only been out of mine since March, so I haven't had the anniversary come around to be blue about it yet. But since we didn't...
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