Malita, Thank you. It is a good feeling to know that someone can relate to what I am saying and maybe someday, maybe, just maybe, the sun will shine on us once...
This is truly beautiful and inspiring. May have some answers that we have been asking all of us. Note: forwarded message attached. Kim Fay ... Do you Yahoo!? ...
Married 7 years, constant emotional, mental and verbal abuse. Endured lies and manipulation. Separated 11/11 and divorced 12/5. He constantly calls assuring...
Cheryl, The IS recovery after abuse. It takes learning about the dynamics of Domestic Violence and rebuilding your self-esteem through battered women's...
thank you all for the support. Things are still the same "silence is supposted to be golden" but it is driving me crazy snd i think that is what he wants. You...
hi, i have only put one posting on this...pretty much new to all this. I have just had the worst 2 weeks of holiday that I knew existed. Judging by all your...
Hi, We're all here for you. Actually I've just joined, and haven't even posted anything yet. But remember you are not alone. If you're at this site, then you...
Hello Fi We are here for you. You can vent or ask advice here. You said that you have no family or friends where you are....abusers tend to isolate their...
HELLO - I DONT EVEN KNOW WHERE TO BEGIN OR WHAT TO DO BUT I FOUND THIS GROUP IN HOPES THAT I COULD FIND SOMEONE WHO COULD HELP ME AND SUPPORT ME IN WHAT I WANT...
Hi, I read this and had to tell you I feel the same way. Don't know where to start. brandy genuuso <bmgennuso@...> wrote:HELLO - I DONT EVEN KNOW WHERE...
Hi Tell us a bit about your situation. Chances are that some member of the group has "been there, done that" and has some info and/or advice. When I first...
WELL I HAVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND FOR 10 TEARS WE HAVE 3 CHILDREN 8 YRS, 4 YRS, AND 2YRS, I MEET MY HUSBAND WHEN I WAS JUST 17YRS AND ITS BEEN VERY TRYING EVERY...
Hello, my name is Mindy. I left my husband on July 11, 2003. I took my children and myself to a shelter for battered women and children. We had lice for over...
Hi all, Yes, *I've been very quiet, I guess trying to get my relationship back on track for the final time if he ever turns.. Just thought I'd let you all know...
San, You're grabbing at straws, love. His "improved" behavior is only an act to keep you from leaving him and to keep you confused as you are now. Only 1% of...
San Michelle is right. People can’t change without help. Abusers can take breaks between episodes but eventually something will trigger it again. Abusers...
San Michelle is right. People can’t change without help. Abusers can take breaks between episodes but eventually something will trigger it again. Abusers...
San Michelle is right. People can’t change without help. Abusers can take breaks between episodes but eventually something will trigger it again. Abusers...
San Michelle is right. People can’t change without help. Abusers can take breaks between episodes but eventually something will trigger it again. Abusers...
In a message dated 1/4/2004 9:15:59 PM Eastern Standard Time, the_sisp@... writes: My man has stopped drinking so much, now it's just occasional, for ...
Dear San, I completely understand what you are going through right now. I am in a very similar situation.... asked for change... am seeing some progress...
Hi Michele, I hear you... I guess I know all this just I want to hear it so I can gain more strength. I guess also, that my ability to make decisions has...
Hi Anne, co-dependence and enabling - I will have a read up, thankyou. I have thought about going to AA also, just to see what is happening in my life and to...
Sandra, You need BATTERED WOMEN'S counseling, love, NOT regular counseling. Do an engine search of "Australian Battered Women's Programmes" or "Domestic...
Hey Lynda, I LOVE your idea of confronting everyone while he is around! Your story ios much more severe i think than mine, or maybe just different but I...
Thanks Michele, I am looking into it NOW, you're doing good things for me right now. I'll give them a call and see how things go. ((Hugs)) San Michele Goff...
So far from all of my past experience, I really don't even believe that counseling can help these men. They might even agree to go as a last ditch effort to...
That's great, Sandra! I'm only an email away, honey. Michele ... From: Sandra P To: womansemotionalabusesupport@yahoogroups.com Sent: Monday, January 05, 2004...