Brenda, How exactly is he stopping counseling for your son ? I ask this because I have never heard of a Judge telling a mother, no, there child cannot go to...
Hi Nancy, Here is an edited version of a post that I sent to another list a little while back. I hope it might be helpful to you and others. It seems that...
The other day, my boyfriend told me that he's really sorry for the way that he's been treating me and for the way that he talks to me. And he said that he...
No-one really knows if they are worthless words except for him. What you will know however will be based on his actions. Actions speak louder than words and...
Melissa and i love u too. I have gotton on my nees to pray and ask god for healing in myself and for my son. It is not the Judge stopping the couseling it is...
Hi Kristie, They might be useless words, they might not. Watch his behavior. If it's good, does it last or is it only temporary? Does he still maintain...
Brenda, Tell me exactly what you need so that I can try to help you. I can write petitions etc. As for the guardian have you contact the courthouse for...
So, the night I joined this group, last Thursday night, I was interrupted with my post by a kock at the door. It was the police. They stated they were here to...
I am not saying anything your boyfriend did was acceptable, because it wasn't ! But just out of curiousity if he is willing to live somewhere else like you...
My staying here, in his eyes anyway, I believe, is contingent on us staying together. He's willing to go, not for me to get myself together, but to give me...
Oh, ok..Was there something about my question that made you avoid it?? Although right now, it seems as though my husband seems to be sincere, there are ...
Dear Melissa, Hello my friend! How are you? I just had the pleasure of reading your letter. I am sorry that i could not repond ealier . I was out of town and...
Contact your local women's domestic abuse center. They can help you the most because they are local and know the local laws. Terri ... From: marsali_rain To:...
When I first got out, I didn't think I was employable either. But I registered with a temp agency, which led to a temp job, which led to a full-time job. ...
Hi ladies, Its been a while since I wrote and believe me I wish I had the time and strength to write constantly. I believe I told you about my chronic pain...
Hi ladies, Its been a while since I wrote and believe me I wish I had the time and strength to write constantly. I believe I told you about my chronic pain...
Diane, Dealing with a drug addicted alcohol infected ex is tiring. I know, I have one. Fortunately for me, he is now running from the law....again....and I...
Hello Heather, I have been in your shoes...one minute they're the man you know. And, the next...someone completely different. A real Jekyl and Hyde. That's a...
I am also ambivilent about charging women who are abused. We also need to hold women responsible. I honestly believe Andrea Yates was severely emotionally...
You can get a job. You can do it. You don't need his permission to do this. Your new employer will be so grateful that he/she has a conscientious person...
Hello Heather & Karen: I myself have been in a abusive relationship. It started with the verbal abuse then mental abuse then the physical abuse. When it came...
Sheree, Wait, was he arrested? If he wasn't arrested why isn't he coming in the house? How long does he have to remain out of the house for? What does the ...
... Even if his change is true, I need time to ... Don't let anyone take that time away from you. If it is a real change he will allow you this time because he...
Hi Heather, Your husband was confronted on his physical abuse so he changed it to verbal/emotional abuse. It's the same thing. Once he realizes he can't...
Yes, he was arrested, and in jail overnight until his step-father bailed him out. He is to stay out of the house until his court date, may 8th, or, until I...
Melissa Yes I am gonn atake u up on that offer it is about 11:00pm and am wiped so tomorrow I will get u all the info on it but and even the case will be sent...
I saw this documentry thing on A&E tonight. The case was about a battered woman who murdered this man. She was abused by him and also raped. She says...
My husband did the same thing. One day he shared all these I see what I am doing thoughyts. Things seemed ok for a while, but with in 6 months he was back to...
Sheree, If you do choose to stay with your mutual friend. It may be good to have a back up plan, just in case. I worry that it may give your BF easy access...
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