Plus, there's been a whole series of these "empty" messages from her email address. This isn't something she's in the habit of doing. Someone is definitely...
My boyfriend is in an "abuse cycle" right now..but instead of getting upset and doing everything in my power to get on his good side, I have taken a different...
I liked your question. The one about how to get out of the relationship, especially with him being all sweet and tender. Here is what I think SHOULD happen,...
Does one have to actually be physically *out* of the atmosphere to heal? Or can one begin and continue to heal simply by becoming aware and developing ways to...
Hi Marilyn, I picked up on your sadness/depression a little in the last mail of yours (from a while back) that I read, and I've been a little concerned,...
I really need some support and help to stay strong and not give in. My husband was once a really bad abuser. He saught help and things were great for a long...
My husband 'got' me this weekend. I'm getting closer to realizing all of the mindgames at the moment he's trying to play them with me, but these particular ...
ohhh Melissa, There is sooo much in your letter that could have happened in my house. Everything all of it...I would lash out just the same ways...and he'd be...
Its so funny to me that all of us can sit here and speak of the same feelings, thoughts, what they do etc and yet they never see it. I mean at times mine does...
Its funny that when I posted this morning I have recieved so many responses today alone with everything seemingly going through all of this or recently did. I...
Mileva- Don't be so hard on yourself! they know exactly how to play us & press our buttons! They like to play games. I think they are so down on themselves &...
lmao...hmmm maybe it's all the same guy in disguise?!?! batblue2000 <batblue2000@...> wrote: Its funny that when I posted this morning I have recieved...
so I started pulling away a bit from my bf and even ignored his calls last night and didn't sleep over (probably the first time i've ever done that this entire...
Mileva, I think that a certain amount of healing can and must occur before a victim is able to leave. Most of us don't leave our abusers, then figure out that...
-Once again Terri you hit the nail straight on the head, and I thank you for it. ... figure ... emotional ... suffering ... this ... time ... each ... victim ...
I know exactly how you feel. I was up until 3:30 last night really upset over my ex who treated me like a piece of crap 7 out of 7 days! We get upset over...
Did everyone remeber to set there clocks back 1 hr ?? Shellie ... Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. [Non-text portions...
Unfortunately, you are experiencing something that happens all too often in abusive relationships. Your husband was a really bad abuser. At some point in...
Hi Terri, Thank you for such a seriously contemplated and thought-provoking response. Something that occurred to me about this is that it's a good possibility...
Hi, I wanted to share a quick bit of dialog on abuse that I heard recently in an older Deadwood TV show episode. I enjoyed it so much, I guess, because of my ...
Welcome Susan! I'm glad that out of your hurts, pains and struggles, you were led to this group. We are quite a loving group of ladies, all who understand...
Hi everyone. It's been approximately 2 years since, I've written, and needless to say, I needed the support again from all of you. To make a very story (23yrs)...
Hi Girls I'm sorry I didn't see Tanya's request before she went offline. I SO admire people who can say that they need a friend, a listener, or help! THEY...
I think you said it all...LOL! Terri ... From: "batblue2000" To: womansemotionalabusesupport@yahoogroups.com Subject: [Womans Emotional Abuse Support] I call a...
This getting 'hooked back in' happens to me; has happened recently, so I'm glad it was addressed here. I'll be refusing to accept the abuse bait, but then ...
... <milevaeinst@...> wrote: This is a hard one..I have been trying for awhile to just "be aware" and learn to realize it is abuse when it is, and not got...