Belle, I don't know about everyone else in the group, but I would never want someone to leave because they choose to either leave or stay in a relationship....
A male family member recently asked my why this happened to me (a crime and then a male friend became abusive and betrayed me severely). I was and am angry...
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I think as humans we always try to think of why something happens so we can prevent it from happening again. But the truth is I am not in control of other...
... From: Leenie <leenielives@...> ... Leenie, This is what I have had to do with my abusive son. Each and every time he begins using abuse techniques,...
20 Ways To Maintain A Healthy Level Of Insanity. 1. At Lunch Time, Sit In Your Parked Car With Sunglasses on and point a Hair Dryer At Passing Cars. See If...
Hi. I have been with a guy for 3 months now. He will go in spurts from wanting to be w/ me every day/night and very affectionat, to suddenly not wanting me...
Belle, I'm a part of this group and there is no way I would suggest that you not post because you decide to stay. In fact I recommend you continue reading and...
Thanks, Leenie- You know, everything you said makes a lot of sense. I was exactly where you were before this theory came along. I think this theory is just one...
Hi, Dana- I am also staying away from men. I have no desire to meet new people. I don't need to be badgered, or feel unsafe. I don't need yelling, swearing,...
I suppose his name is Bill since you are "billsgirl." Who are you without Bill? You've been with him for 3 months and already you've lost yourself. You don't...
my name is anna, i'm 25 years old, and I live in WI with my parents and uncle. I suffer from depression, have pervasive developmental disorder (a form of ...
Hi Dana, and girls got my e-mail all set up so please send me an invite to the the non-public group. Well as you I sent nothing for my New Years, Figered I had...
There are choices you have been explained how to remove yourselfs if you do not do that we are unable to help any longer. But Please read before you ask to be...
I was pleasantly surprised by the responses to Belle's decision to stay. My experience with friends and family has been a response of either leave him or guit...
Poodlegrey, I had a few thoughts about your post that I'd like to share. In a way I agree with your family and friends. It becomes time to stop complaining...
Sounds to me like this guy wants a trophy hanging from his arm not a girlfriend ! There is more to a person than just what is on the outside ! Sure, you have...
Hi, I guess I just wanted to put my two sense in here and I hope I do not offend you with what I am about to say, that is not my intention at all however...
DOES NO - ONE READ WHEN THEY SUBSCRIBE TO THIS SITE !!!!!!!!!! NOT FOR NOTHING BUT WHEN YOU JOIN THIS GROUP OR ANY GROUP PLEASE READ THAT IS WHY IT IS THERE !!...
Hello, I just joined today. I've been married for almost 5 years. My H is sometimes nice and then other times makes me feel I have to be on the defense. Not...
I am married to a man who calls me stupid, ugly, fat, whore, bar trash, retard, ect ect. every night I cry. when i cry he yells. sometimes he hits. i dont want...
Belle, I know how hard that decision was for you. I hope things go better for you. Please be careful. Remember it is ok for a woman to change her mind! I am...
Melissa I agree, To take the time for me to explain was a waist but I bothers me that there are women who need help and then there are those who dont and have...
Sherri, Good set of resolutions. I need to make all the same ones too. Thanks for the help. Joanne Sherri Jackson <gdfantasy2002@...> wrote: I want to...
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I am sorry if this message offends anyone, but I am feeling like i need a well monitored site that offers suport to women who have dealt with verbal/emotional...
You asked a loaded question at the end...."I am not going back for more. Isn't that what you all want?" Every situation is different. There are so many...
Hello all !!! I know that we have all wanted to plan revenge...hahahaha, a friend sent this to me and thought it was pretty funny ! All I know is that this...