Tami, Yes, I can totally relate to what you are going through because I have been going through the same thing for 4 years. Every fight is my fault, I somehow...
Allison, I wish there was something I could say to take your pain away but I know nothing I can say will do that for you because you will feel pain, hurt,...
am so happy to have found this group, finally some people who will understand what I'm going through. I have been married to a mental abuser for 10 years now...
YOur story sounds so much like my own everyday life, my husband constantly tells me I don't love him........blah, blah, blah and anything that goes wrong is...
Thanks sooo much Melissa for your kind words!!! I know each and every one of them are true. It's like...sometimes you just get so sad or angry and forget what...
Traci...you have friends here that understand! You ARE NOT CRAZY and it you may not be perfect...nobody is...but his behavior is not your fault!! So much of...
Hi Julie..I truly understand what you are going thru but Im sooo glad to hear that you are going to school and bettering yourself!!! Congratulations!! The...
Julie, I can definatly relate to the situation you are in. I was there myself with my ex husband and unfortunatly there again with my new abuser (yes, you will...
Ok..this might sound bad or cruel.. but why are you putting so much in a relationship that is going nowhere? And where would you want to go? Where would you...
I agree with what Huntress is saying but it's never so simple...at least it was not for me. I fell in love with mr wonderful first and then slowly this other...
I'm new here and have read some of your stories...and wow. I could be the one writing most of the same things! I am glad I'm not alone, but at the same time,...
Sheila, I can totally understand your frustration so lets take it one step at a time. If you really want out of this relationship here are your options : Go to...
Sheila...I understand your pain...both the physical and emotional. It all sounds overwhelming but give yourself a golden star for still being alive and sane,...
You ladies are just wonderful, I'm so appreciative of your support. I can only log on here while I'm at work, so it was uplifting to come in this morning and...
Most of us need help getting out of our situation. I am VERY well, personally, acquainted with the problem. Though I did not have any children with my...
Hi Tracey, Yes, I can relate to what you are saying. I am going through the same things you are. My husband tells me all the time that I don't care about him,...
Hello, I don't post very often but I read ALL THE TIME. Please don't call the police! This will for sure cause him to rant rave and beat her! Call her work and...
Sheila..Im an domestic violence advocate in Minnesota. Please contact me, my email address is huntress824@.... I can give you alot of help either thru...
Thank you so much Alissian for the kind words. And Thank you for being here for women who need such caring words also. I apologize that I havent been on much...
i've been there. my abuser does that too. they play the victim (a) they like feeling sorry for themselves and (b) they like it even more when someone else...
Toni...there is no need to apologize for anything...we can only do so much at one time...we do the best we can!!! Thank you so much for encouraging and giving...
If only I could help her thru you...it would help me. I wish sombody could help me...I mean help him be who I wanted him to be...or do what he should do. If...
I am going through the same thing. You are not stuck though. Believe me, it does feel like that. But there is always someway to get out. I am working on that...
The last time I did this it worked for me too. I wished for a baby, and you all know what happened (approx. 2 months later). I had to give this a shot... Don't...
Actually, I think I am becoming to recognize it (thank the lord) My best friend told me once, about her mom, she said Kim it was explained to me like...
I'm having a hard time coming to terms with this whole situation. It's like someone just ripped the wool from my eyes and suddenly I see what's been going on...
Hello. I am trying to move on past an emotionally abusive relationship too. It is hard, but this website is such great support. It was interesting to me that...
I'm new here, but I can sympathise. I think ALL abusive relationships make you feel exactly as you've just described - even when the source isn't a husband -...
I am sorry to say that for a true abuser it doesn't matter what you say or do...for them it is about keeping you off balance and under control:( IT IS A VERY...
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