Not knowing the full scope of your relationship but knowing the impact of confrontation - I really don't know what to tell you. I do know sometimes it is...
Hi Jackie, Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Thanks for responding just the, "you've come a long way really helps."Â Ba Humbug to all abusers. My...
I had to ask myself again and again how my x could woo a beautiful young blond woman.I am talking about his last realtionship he just had with a young woman...
Hello Everyone A friend just sent me a link to Two NEW giveaway offers, so I am sharing it with the group! Grab a Keurig coffee machine and a FLIP music...
I can't understand why you are still so fixated on this man. You have to not think about this other woman. You say you are over him, if that was true, why are...
I should have never gone back to the health club, it stirred up all the feelings that I had under control. I am really surprized at your attitude. Â Â Â Â ...
I can understand somewhat ..for the first year afterward, if anyone spoke to me unkindly, in anyway - for any reason, I would run back into my hole. It was...
Thank you my beautiful sister. I am busy making wish boxes today and I set written goals this morning, so today is a much better day. Thanks again Dana,...
Lauren, I applaud you for being open and honest about your thoughts and reactions to what you have been told about the other woman. I was with my X for over 18...
Hi Lauren, Don't ask yourself too many questions..... He wooed ~you~ a beautiful young blonde woman into his life. He can woo another one into his life too. I...
Thanks Marilyn, Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â I am so glad that you are in this group to keep reminding everyone in this group that...
I understand. Indulge me while I tell some of my story. I do the same. I am not fixated on my ex-husband, I'm fixated on me. Questions like, What happened to...
Well said. I've not heard that my abuser has had anything to say about me, but since he is the "victim" of this bad break-up, I'm sure he's poisoned the...
Thanks forbusybee, Â Â Â It really helps me get things into their proper perspective when other women share their experiences. Â Â My husband physically...
"dottemama" wrote: // I've never met her or spoken to her but I've heard she's had things to say about me. She participates in abuse by proxy. She's reciting...
OMG, this is what my abuser did. Played 3-4 of her online friends against each other . . . or tried to. I did my best to stay out of it when she attempted to...
// > Is your ex a narcissist who needs secondary supply from you when his first source of supply isn't around? // Most definitely, my ex is coming back for...
If you respond you'll just get caught up in ~his~ web of chaos. I made that mistake with my ex last week. He did mind f*ck me....I allowed it. No contact, no...
I enjoyed this. Women don't listen??????? Question authority! Especially when the "authority" is a man....or woman. I think the man would have INSISTED that he...
I have a bit of that anger and frustration about my X still out there hurting women too. He hurts more than women like me though. He hurts our children (even...
I hear you there, busybee. The hardest part for me is knowing my abuser is out there getting away not onyl with what she did to me, but to other people, as...
It's been a long time since I've risked posting on here again, so unfortunately I don't know your story about the abuse you've went through. I rarely get upset...
The short version: My abuser is a friend I met online. She spent the better part of a year and half to two years working her "magic" on not only me but at...
I been with my boyfriend for 10 yrs. we have 2 kids together.I dont know what to do anymore lately hejust comes home and all he those is put me down I meen...