Hi,

This is simple really. You deserve more than this. You must like yourself
better than to allow someone to treat yourself like this. You also should know
that you don't need a man to take care of you. It may be that you could find
some sort of support group locally that could help you, or some female friends,
maybe a roommate or something so you are not dependant on a man. I'm not saying
that all men are bad, just that you need to have some confidence in yourself by
living on your own for a while. Once you do that, guys will not be able to have
so much control over you.

Value yourself more. Stay away from that guy, he could give you AIDS!

Shelley

mopenhym415 <meo22@...> wrote:
I just came across this group and figured I'd give it a try. I am 24
years old and have been in an emotionally abusive relationship with a
42 year old for 2 years now. I've met woman he has cheated on me
with and even suffered from an abortion of his child. We go through
a cycle of breaking up and getting back together, even though I know
that he lies and hurts me. He has a way of manipulating me and
making me think that I am crazy and accuses me of nagging him if I
ask him why he has women's lingerie in his bed. Just one week ago,
he told me we should just be friends. I have been crying
hysterically for no apparent reason. I feel almost desperate to have
him take me back and don't understand why. I'm a just looking for
support and people to talk to so that I can stay strong and avoid
going back to him. He seems to have a way of sensing when he is no
longer in control of my feelings and reels me back in. A good
listener and supporter from someone who knows the pain I am going
through is all I ask.

Megan


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