WELL I HAVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND FOR 10 TEARS WE HAVE 3 CHILDREN 8 YRS, 4 YRS,
AND 2YRS, I MEET MY HUSBAND WHEN I WAS JUST 17YRS AND ITS BEEN VERY TRYING EVERY
SINCE, 3 MONTHS AFTER WE STARTED DATING HE WAS CHEATING ON ME AND 1 1/2 YRS I
WAS PREGNANT, 6 MONTHS LATER HE WAS GOING TO PRIS ION FOR MURDER. WE MARRIED
WHILE HE WAS IN BETWEEN SENTENCING , WHY??? HE WAS IN FOR 4 1/2 YEARS THE
WHOLE TIME HE WAS EMOTIONALLY BEATING ME DOWN, I WENT TO SCHOOL T BE AN EMT ( I
HAD A BABY TO CARE FOR ) I GOT A JOB AND BOUGHT A CAR AND A CONDO SO WE COULD
START A LIFE TOGETHER WHEN HE GOT HOME. BUT ONCE HE CAME HOME HE TALKED ME INTO
QUITING MY JOB AND DIDN'T APPRECIATE WHAT I HAD BUILT FOR US. HE HAS BEEN HOME 5
YEARS NOW AND ITS BEEN VERY ROUGH I CAN T REALLY EXPLAIN, HE HAS A WAY OF
TALKING DOWN TO ME THEN SAYING HE IS JUST JOKING AND THAT I'M THE ONE WITH THE
PROBLEM. I'M AT THE POINT WERE I KNOW I M NOT HAPPY AND I KNOW ITS NOT HEALTH, I
GET PHYSICALLY SICK AND DEPRESSED AT TIME. I WANT TO
TEACH MY KIDS THAT THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN FIGHTING AND THAT THEY DESERVE TO
BE TREATED WITH RESPECT. I JUST HAVE A HARD TIME LEAVING AND WHEN I DO GET TO
THE POINT THAT I JUST DECIDE TO LEAVE HE WILL START BEING NICE. I EVEN REALLY
LEFT 2 YEARS AGO AN D TWO WEEKS LATER HE WAS SEEPING WITH A TOPLESS DANCER,
HE EVENTUALLY STARTED ASKING TO COME BACK HOME AND I FELT GUILTY FOR NOT WANTING
TO BE WITH HIM BTU HE MADE PROMISES AND SAID WHAT ABOUT THE KIDS AND HE
EVENTUALLY SLIDE HIS WAY BACK IN AND THE CONTROL STARTED OVER AGAIN. ITS THIS
VICIOUS CIRCLE THAT WE KEEP GOING IN. THIS IS JUST THE ICING ON THE CAKE I DON'T
WANT TO SIT HEAR AND SOUND LIKE WHO IS ME. I KNOW THIS AREN'T RIGHT AN DI HAVE A
PLAN TO MOVE ON AND RE BUILD MYSELF BUT IN THE MEAN TIME I HAVE SO MANY PS AND
DOWNS AND FEELINGS OF HOPELESSNESS. MY MOM SUGGESTED THAT I FIND OTHER WOMEN
WHO HAVE BEEN IN SIMILAR SITUATIONS. SO I HOPE THAT S WHAT I HAVE FOUND.



BRANDY


Anne <annet110@...> wrote:
Hi
Tell us a bit about your situation. Chances are that some member of the group
has "been there, done that" and has some info and/or advice.

When I first joined the group, I found it very helpful to read old posts. I was
surprised at how similar some of the situations were to mine.

Anne

paula aube <pna19@...> wrote:
Hi, I read this and had to tell you I feel the same way. Don't know where to
start.

brandy genuuso <bmgennuso@...> wrote:HELLO - I DONT EVEN KNOW WHERE TO
BEGIN OR WHAT TO DO BUT I FOUND THIS GROUP IN HOPES THAT I COULD FIND SOMEONE
WHO COULD HELP ME AND SUPPORT ME IN WHAT I WANT TO ACHIEVE IN MY LIFE...TO FEEL
AGAIN.

BMG


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