--- In wernicke-korsakoff_syndrome@yahoogroups.com, Nora <dulcineasmom@...>
wrote:
>
> Hi Sunni,
>  
> I'm still here.  Have you thought of a "live-in" nurse's aide or some such
caregiver?
>  
> Good Luck
> Nora
>
Thanks for the great ideas..and replies...were still up in the air on what to do
afraid aides, and ass living will take his pension that he has debts to pay he
is responsible for. here is how today was...took dad to cash 45.00 irs check he
lost his ID so we had to go far away bank and he was over drawn 500.00 but they
did it they gave him 45.00 anyway and said he can come in Friday and dispute
some of the penalties from his act..so that will help some..his car must get out
of the impound it costs 20.00 daily..baught a 24 pack of beer for 14.00 a 1
pack cigs tomorrow withe his 15,00 he has left i will gethis 22.00 carton of
cigs in town..while im there taking my mom to emergency room finally for her
leg..I told dad I will not be able to check on him thursday at all Im booked
solid and have apts in new braunfels..so we got some tv dinners he likes
etc..when i unloaded the car my seat was soaking wet...URINE..i just now GOT
HOME AND CLEANED OUT THE CAR AND ITS BED TIME, more tome i havent been abloe top
spend with my 7 year old son.. already another day from hell...last night he
walked to my house for beer...so the message to get accross here is he must have
moey for beer and cigs and i must be the one to deliver them to him since i live
close by..so DANI..we need to get a budget for his cigs and beer set up...so i
wont have to take chanes of him walking to my house in all hours of the
night..and him stealing from me...he goes through my purse and glopve box for
change..he cant be trusted..my mom agreed to care for him..as long as she gets a
few breaksaway too..sounds reasonable to me..and fair..he is nice..ande easier
to get along with but he wants to paint the house..inside witha skeleton and a
red heart..ha I said lets get poster board and he said ok..he heard jennifers
husband shooting his gun the other day...now he wants to shoot..hgis gun out
side too at cans..hell no...what about kids animals..he is fine if he has what
he needs..for now..let s just wait and see how keeping him satisfied..etc..one
day at a time..and I do need to vent...so this is me venting..ha my mom says as
long as they have a phone she will be there for emergencies..no one has any
money left...does anyone in the family want to help witha cheap phone?? so they
have it?? that would be a big help...I lfte the house at 715got home at
815...doing stuff for everyone but Phoenix and myself..these days will grow old
fast..we need a plan and as long as he has $ for his habits he willbe ok and
that means so will I<>..