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Dear Lisa Y. ,
We know that each of you has been touched by the work of our founder Ellen Pence. We mourn her loss after a long struggle with breast cancer.
Known for her generosity, quick wit and sense of humor, Ellen's work has left a deep and lasting influence on the domestic violence field. Her work with men who batter is the basis of DAIP's Creating a Process of Change for Men Who Batter curriculum, as well as many of our other educational materials.
"No one has done more to end violence against women than Ellen Pence. She has been a teacher, mentor, friend and sister to countless women and men across the world. We at DAIP join hearts with Ellen's friends and family to grieve the loss and celebrate her amazing life." - Linda Riddle, DAIP Executive Director
"Ellen was recognized in tribal communities across the country and abroad as a friend and ardent supporter of self-determination of tribes to develop strategies in responding to domestic violence; including raising the issue of racial disparity that factor in to the victimization of American Indian and Alaska Native women and their children." - Tina Olson, Co-Director, Mending the Sacred Hoop
- Your friends at DAIP
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Ellen's Obituary
January 6, 2012, saw the passing of a great spirit. The day was bright, warm and sunny day, with a divine sunrise, but in the early morning a great shadow was cast over the hearts of so, so many who were touched and transformed by the genius, capacity for love, and tireless activism of Ellen Pence.
Like many who have had a huge impact on the world, Ellen made no distinction between the personal and the professional. She brought her whole heart to her work and with it a remarkable ability to intimately connect with and influence even those whose views were most divergent from her own. She gave her family and friends the joy of ever-creative social gatherings that generated strategies and nurtured relationships, leading to many levels of social change.
During the 1960s, Ellen was an activist in the housing, antiwar, civil rights and feminist movements. In 1975, she became active in the battered women's movement, which was the primary focus of her work for the remainder of her life. After a time of advocating for funding for battered women's shelters, Ellen moved from Minneapolis to Duluth, MN, where in 1980, she and a small group of activists organized the Domestic Abuse Intervention Project, commonly referred to as the "Duluth Model." The model, which has been adapted for use throughout the world, employs an interagency approach to shift responsibility for confronting domestic violence from the victims of the violence to the community, based on the idea that women (and their children) have as much right to be safe at home as all people have to be safe on the street.
Ellen continued to seek an end to violence against women through many other endeavors. Starting in 1990, she worked with a team of experts to redesign the U.S. Marine Corps' response to family violence. She was the founder and director of Praxis International, a non-profit dedicated to helping institutions meet the needs of the people they serve. In 2009 she began work with professionals in the Saint Paul criminal justice system to develop a "Blueprint for Safety" for battered women. Her unfinished projects include the response of family court in cases of battering and racial disparity in the child welfare system.
Ellen effectively integrated academic research with grassroots community work. Like Paulo Friere, who inspired her social activism, she was both scholar and organizer. She earned a B.A. from the College of St. Scholastica in Duluth and a Ph.D. from the University of Toronto. She published numerous articles on institutional responses to the issue of violence against women and designed the Praxis Safety and Accountability Audit, an ethnological process used extensively to assess the response of community agencies to violence against women and child abuse.
Above all, Ellen will be remembered by thousands of people nationally and internationally for her remarkable gift of public speaking. Her sense of humor, extensive knowledge and experience, passion for justice, and belief in the potential for change in both individuals and institutions leave us with treasured moments and offer us a torch to carry on the work in her name.
Ellen was preceded in death by her father, Robert Pence; sister Diane VanValkenburg; and nephew Jake VanValkenburg. She is survived by her mother, Audrie Anne Marshall Pence of Shoreview, MN; partner, Amanda McCormick, and son, Liam McCormick, of Saint Paul, MN; Godson, Forrest Funmaker, Merrilan, WI; sisters Carole (Don) Miller of Fridley, MN, and Fran (Rick) Myran of Stillwater, MN; brother David (Candice) Pence of Mankato, MN; and many loving nieces and nephews.
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In Memoriam
Ellen Pence
April 15, 1948 -
January 6, 2012
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Memorial Service for Ellen Pence
Ellen's memorial service will be a time to come together, honor her achievements, and share our memories. All who knew and loved her are welcome to attend.
Saturday, January 14, 2012, 2:30 - 6:00 pm
Rauenhorst Ballroom
Coeur de Catherine Building, 3rd Floor
St. Catherine University
2004 Randolph Avenue
Saint Paul, MN 55105 (map this)
Donations
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be sent to the Minnesota Coalition for Battered Women (Ellen Pence Memorial Fund), 60 East Plato Blvd., Suite 130, St. Paul, MN, 55107. The fund will provide cash assistance to women who experience violence.
Memorials can also be made in Ellen's name to DAIP's 30th Anniversary "Carry It Forward" fund, established to honor our co-founders and can be sent to us at the address at the bottom of this email or through our website.
Sharing your Memories and Condolences
Responses can be posted on Caring Bridge or emailed to us to compile for her memorial service.
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-- Lisa Young Larance, MSW, LCSW, LMSW
RENEW Program Coordinator Reflectively Embracing Nonviolence through Education for Women
Catholic Social Services of Washtenaw County 4925 Packard Avenue
Ann Arbor, Michigan 48108 Tel: 734-971-9781 x468 Fax: 734-971-2730
"If you have come to help me, you are wasting your time. But if you have come because your liberation is bound up in mine, then let us work together."
- Lilla Watson, Australian Aboriginal Woman
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