Hi I do know what you are going through my hubby left me in 93 after 23 and a half years of much alas this was in 93 and I am still on my own I have a good friend but he does not want to commit himself and we are just good friends he is now in his 80's alas I can not trust another man and lucky to have a good friend in john but yes i miss being married and yes i am lonely

bernie609 <bernie609@...> wrote:

Hi All
Havent been in touch with this site for long time. Feel pretty lousy
this Valentine night. Just found out this week that my hubby has
another woman.......after 25 years of marrige.
Had my iliostomy five years ago. He told me then it didnt make any
difference he would love me anyway. So much for that!!!!!
Hes leaving to move in with her and i will be  left alone. Who will
want me now.....bad enough being middle aged but having an iliostomy
too.
Has anyone been in the same situation as me and met someone new....god
knows im not ready for that yet but when the time comes what do i do??
At what stage do you mention that you have a stoma etc. And i have so
many scars, feel so ugly. So many younger prettier NORMAL women out
there.
If anyone has any advice please let me know
Thanks
xxxxx 

kindest regards christine

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