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Yes, Bernie, there is life after surgery. I'm 65, lost my husband 5yrs ago. Have a colostomy and have just met the most wonderful,loving, man you could ever meet. Met him on the internet last year and we will be married soon. It was a surprise to me too that anyone could ever accept me like this. But there are some wonderful,sensitive, guys out there. I'm overjoyed and want to encourage you to love yourself and project a positive image. Accent the positive and you'll be surprised at the outcome. Keep looking Up!! It ain't over till it's over!!
jboat
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Havent been in touch with this site for long time. Feel pretty lousy this Valentine night. Just found out this week that my hubby has another woman.......after 25 years of marrige. Had my iliostomy five years ago. He told me then it didnt make any difference he would love me anyway. So much for that!!!!! Hes leaving to move in with her and i will be left alone. Who will want me now.....bad enough being middle aged but having an iliostomy too. Has anyone been in the same situation as me and met someone new....god knows im not ready for that yet but when the time comes what do i do?? At what stage do you mention that you have a stoma etc. And i have so many scars, feel so ugly. So many younger prettier NORMAL women out there. If anyone has any advice please let me know Thanks xxxxx | |||
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