The sixth step says we become Willing to have all of our character defects removed. After doing my fifth step I sure was. I had to let go of selfishness (not...
The word "struggle" is a huge red flag for me. Anytime I am struggling with anything it means I am absolutely not 'letting go" or 'going with the flow'!...
I would like to thank the members that have given me feed back on this question so far. Thanks Connie A. Lei Wendy S. Lian N. Sandra C. Charlene Prosper1ty...
The weekly meeting topic is: I have been struggling and My Sponsor says that it is time for me to work on my 6th step again? I feel like telling him/her to...
Thanks Dave, If ever in doubt, look to the literature, the answers lie there, & it will provide the solution to our problems if we keep an open-mind. Stormy ...
Hi group, It's been awhile since I had much input, yet I have found such growth from receiving your posts. This is a great question and very appropriately...
Hi Dave, This is what Recovery looks like to me: Recovery looks like when you're seeing things for the first time with a fresh pair of eyes (like an innocent...
Thanks for your support Stormy. I greatly appreciate it. I'm starting to see some light at the end of my tunnel or rather see the light with in it. Thanks...
Those words of wisdom you offer are strong. I too have been admitted in an institution while in recovery. I was there 1 night and decided I wasn't crazy. I...
The weekly meeting topic is: I have been struggling and My Sponsor says that it is time for me to work on my 6th step again? I feel like telling him/her to...
I prayed to be willing for many years but it took me ten years to be willing to give up nictine and sex with strangers. Perhaps I was not as willing as you. I...
This questin was written in a some what confusing manner, but I'll try. All I ever have to share is my experience so here it goes; I myself have been...
Thanks for the hope Connie. I too would like to quite smoking and pray about it alot. I would also like to learn to live with out Sex outside of a healthly...
Becki, I really agree with what you are saying but your key is if there is an alternative. As our fellowship grows in age the effects of our drug use ages in...
First of all congratualations on being able to ask for help! Give yourself credit for that. Stay close to your sponsor, the fellowship and God/Spirit/HP. In my...
Kristine, when we are in the darkest places, keep in mind we can turn on the light through our fellowship and HP. You alone have the power to turn on the...
While I too believe in Jesus what about everyone who does not? What about Spirit, Budda, Mother God, Father God. How do we have a right to tell people that...
Thought I'd just jump in and say hello. I got this link off another
recovery e-mail list. Multi addicted, gratefully recovery person here. Looking forward...
Kristine, My sponsor reminds me of the three t's; THINGS TAKE TIME. Some of us come into the fellowship more damaged/beat up than others so healing takes...
Damn I've really been stalling on this fourth step mine.I get really bad and start to convince myself that I don't know how to do it (or how the hell do I even...
I'm having a hard time coming out of my shell.............so I write we can be free of hangups here.This is good ,but I want my akwardness to go away I want to...
The weekly meeting topic is: I have been struggling and My Sponsor says that it is time for me to work on my 6th step again? I feel like telling him/her to...
Jacob, I hear ya man. I too had a hard time with completing my 4th Step. I was so sick. I was also so afraid. Change and the addict are tough companions...
Jacob, calling your sponsor to seek guidance as to forth step structure is a good thing. Asking in this e-group is good as well. I too had trouble knowing...
Welcome, glad your here. I'm new myself and very glad I joined this group. Theres lots of love and understanding here. Consider yourself hugged. Love, Kristine...
Hi, Charlene! I'm a recovering alcoholic/addict, and I wanted to put in my 2 cents' worth about surgery: It's not what you put into your body, it's the reason...
When I gave away my 4th step it was probably the first time in my whole life
I really understood I was just another human being. Not some horrible
person even...