Hi,

you should get your husband to read this site's articles, then also
the articles under 'Gender Identity Disorders' on the
http://www.narth.com site.

Also read these sites together:

http://www.users.bigpond.com/megabyte_mcguire/home.htm

http://www.realityresources.com
Jerry Leach is a man who has found healing from GID.
Also, http://www.tradingmysorrows.com
Walt Heyer is another man who found healing from GID.
A lot of transsexuals regret their surgery but are too embarassed to
say anything. Some are brave enough to have medical treatment to
change back, but I get the impression they need active encouragement
to do so.

My uncle is a post-operative male-to-female transsexual, which is why
I'm concerned about GID.
I would also say, make a promise to yourself NOW as a wife to be tough-
minded. You must not tolerate or collude with your husband acting out
his transsexualism or transvestism. You MUST, for the sake of your own
mental health, which is very precious, tell him, either go to therapy
to sort out the issue and become reconciled to your male body, and I
(iwill support you in doing this, or I divorce you. I'm telling you
this because anecdotally I know that a LOT, perhaps most wives of
transsexual men who go down the route of surgery end up having SERIOUS
mental health problems. Here is evidence from the UK about this.
http://www.gender.org.uk/wobsuk/faq.html

Don't live in denial of your true emotions. Have self-respect as a
woman.
I wish you well in addressing this issue directly and honestly with
your husband.
d
Carys Moseley


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> is there a chat room for this group.I am new to all this.I am a
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> wed that has just discoved this of husband.and am urging him to
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> be honest with him self about his gender disorder.
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