Ericksonian Hypnotic Language Patterns
Douglas
O'Brien
Patterns of Indirect Suggestion (not "Covert
Hypnosis")
In
a therapeutic setting we strive to achieve the client's goals with
elegance.
Sometimes, however, change is difficult and resistance,
conscious
or otherwise, is a natural response. By using the following
language
patterns we are able to bypass the conscious resistance
and
to communicate with the subconscious mind.
Milton
Erickson was famous for his therapeutic metaphors. He would
elicit
hypnotic responses in his clients or direct their thinking by telling
them
a story. He wasn't alone. Like Aesop's fables, the parables of
Jesus,
and Greek myths, stories can teach us and direct us with their
implicit,
indirect suggestions.
sophisticated
understanding of how the listener's subconscious would
hear
them. His use of these language patterns and vocal tonality to
slip
suggestions past the listener's conscious critical mind is
sometimes
referred to as "covert hypnosis." We take issue with this
representation.
This artful use of language cannot rightly be called
covert
when used in a clinical setting. The client has come to you for
treatment
and is paying for all of your expertise. Using Hypnosis
covertly,
like in a bar to seduce someone, is something Dr. Erickson
would
neither do nor advocate.
Adirect
suggestion is really a command. It tends to be evaluated by
the
conscious mind and may be rejected at the outset. Indirect
suggestions
are like a Trojan horse that slips past the gates and
guard
towers of the conscious mind and carries good suggestions
embedded
within. Hence the term, "embedded command." [ As an
example,
"You will feel confident," is a direct suggestion. As opposed
to
the Indirect Suggestion: "I'm wondering how it is when you feel
confident ."]
Note: Words
in bold are to be said utilizing a shift in your tonality
and/or
physiology. This is referred to as "Analogue Marking" because
the
shift in tonality and body gestures are analogous to that of a
command.
An Embedded Command can be marked out in a variety
of
ways. A louder voice, a softer voice, a change of vocal timbre,
pausing
just before the particular phrase, a hand gesture, a shift of
eye
focus onto the subject, etc. But, whatever way the phrase is
marked
out must be analogous to a command. You are telling them
to
do something and it must be clear to their other-than-conscious
what
they are to do.
I
should like to point out that without these shifts in tonality, etc., there
is
no command at all. You must shift your tonality in a way that is
noticeable.
Regardless of whether or not the listener pays attention to
it
consciously, it has to exist. Sometimes people think they are
shifting
their tonality and are not really doing so. Generally speaking,
you
can err on the side of exaggeration quite safely. Richard Bandler
is
sometimes almost comical in his broad way of delivering the
commands,
yet they unfailingly work.
Speaking
of tonality that is analogous to a command, in natural
English
language a change of inflection can change the meaning of a
sentence
entirely. As in the sentence, "You are going to the proms." If
you
were to use a lifting of your tonality at the end of the sentence it
becomes
a question. “You are going to the proms?" (Say it aloud and
listen
to it.)
With
flat tonality it is a simple statement. “You are going to the
proms."
(Say it and listen...)
When
you shift your tonality downwards at the end of the sentence it
becomes
a command. “You are going to the proms."
(Go
ahead, say it. Say it with the downward inflected tonality and
listen
to how it sounds.)
Thus: In
communication in general and in Hypnosis in particular,
tonality
is primary.
Excerpted by:
Awie Suwandi CHT
TranzWorks ~Institute & Clinic for Hypnotherapy