Yes, I overcame it.  It only took me about a week of strict discipline and forcing myself to not resort to my old ways of masturbation even if I knew it would be easier that way.  TMS is when people have come to only be able to orgasm through masturbation in some weird position or other fashion.  If your only problem is clitoral desensitization, then its sounds like it could one of several things.  Either A) You masturbate too often.  You need to give your nerves down there time to regain their sensitivity, B) You're using some sort of device, such as a vibrator or waterhead which WILL cause nerve damage.  Again, find gentler ways.  or C) It's mental.  You have convinced yourself there is something wrong with you which will cause you to be unable to orgasm.  Just refocus.  Let us all know how it goes!  Hope this helps!

mainer099 <mainer099@...> wrote:

for years I've been convinced I just desensitized my clit through masturbation. my
boyfriend is at his wits end, convinced I just don't trust him/ love him enough to orgams.
all I want to be able to do is orgasm normally, even if its just by myself! I've tried stopping
masturbating for months on end before, and that hasn't worked. Has anyone had any
success or are we doomed??