I'm one of those. I can only make myself orgasm on my stomach in
essence, humping my own hand. I have finally figured out where that
special spot inside is and have orgasmed with just my fingers some but
I keep wondering what is keeping me from having one during sex. I've
had A LOT of sex with many partners so variety, style, size don't seem
to have much to do with it. Oral just doesn't do anything for me
either. Grrrr!