Hey. i know EXACTLY what your going through, only im on the other
end of the situation.. You see i have panic attacks, and was seeing
a boyfriend of mine. When my attacks got SUPER bad I called off the
relationship and told him we should take a break beacuse I couldnt
handle the stress of him and myself..
The best thing to do in your situation is to talk to her about her
problem and help her get over it. Try not to lose touch with
her..
Realize also that its not you who has the problem, its her and she
is just going through something tough right now. Most you can do is
help her through it so you guys can date again!
hope that helped
monica








--- In teenagerspanicsupport@yahoogroups.com, "J. Massucci"
<jmassucci@h...> wrote:
>
>
> Hello,
>
> Recently, my girlfriend and I separated (taking a 'break').
> I'm having trouble understanding everything...help if you can!
>
> Around thanksgiving, she got a call from her father (divorced
> parents) who was not very nice to her. It triggered these panic
> attacks all of a sudden (couldnt breathe, numbness of body
parts).
> She had them origianlly when her parents got divorced. She is 19
> now, was 6 then. Hasnt had them since.
> Well she really hadn't been the same since. No...ambition...it
> seems, tired, just wants to be at home, tired, (ocasionally she
goes
> out with friends from work), etc. Then all of a sudden she said
that
> we needed to take a break and she needs time to herself to get
> better. She says she doesn't feel herself and can't handle the
> stress of a relationship right now. She is going to the doctor
and
> he is supposed to prescribe either paxal or zoloft. She promises
me
> that once she feels better, we will get back together. I want to
> believe that but I just can't seem to let my mind accept
> it...probably b/c I don't understand the situation now.
>
> Can anyone shed any light on the situation?
> Thanks!
>