Well we are in the process of moving Dad to our home. It is not
easy for any of us seeing all Dad's treasures being given away to
charity and taking only his personal items. It doesn't help either
that he feels like crap and gets tired easily. He still insists on
going through everything though. Last night after 2 hrs Dad got
incredibly tired and very mixed up in his head - he asked me four
times if I wanted the same box. It was junk and headed for the
garbage. I'll be so glad when it's all done and we don't need to go
there anymore. My ex BIL was there and between him shouting orders
at us and throwing fits over certain items it was not a fun time. I
think Dad needs today to recuperate and rest. Actually if he just
goes through his important stuff then I can do the rest if he'll let
me. His grandson is moving out on his own so Dad is setting him up
with a lot of furniture and things.
Anyway I just wanted to let you know what we're dealing with here -
I have no siblings to rely on for help and my back has decided to
flare up this week - hubby is no help at all. I'll quit griping now
and go do something around here - the laundry pile is getting higher
and higher.

- Heather K
dealing with Dad's cancer who is 79. He is terminal and only has
months or weeks left - so sad.