Hi Rhonda
I know just how you feel Rhonda it is a matter that is hard to get
your arms around, those of us who have placed our spouse have
wrestled with it from all angles. In my case it was my Doctor
telling me that it was taking its toll on me and for the good of my
health he thought it was best. I have second quessed myself many
times but it always came back to my health. There comes a time when
you have to start thinking about yourself and you will know when. Ed