Hi Dominique, I feel your pain. The only advice I can give you is to try to find a good support group where you are. Groups may not be for you, but I can...
My husband and I discovered we were pregnant at 8 weeks. We had been trying for about 6 months and I had two home pregnancy tests with negative results. I felt...
Hi Dominique, Thanks you so much for sharing your story. I know for me it was so hard to go over the details of my son Caleb's birth and the days and months...
My name is MaryBeth and I found SHARE and one of the kindest people I've ever met, Marcia, on the internet nearly 12 years ago, after the stillbirth of my...
I recently found out, a few weeks ago, that my girlfriend was pregnant and had lost the baby. She didn't know that she was pregnant until she miscarried as...
Hello Tom, I am so sorry that you and your girlfriend lost your baby. Both of your reactions are totally normal. Your girlfriend is right seeing you,...
Adrianne, Thank you so much for your message, I truly appreciate it. I really want to help her get through this, but I don't want to make her feel as I am...
Tom, Adrianne said this beautifully. I think I can go away now...she has it covered!! I do have a few additional thoughts: I have been listening and sharing...
I recently lost my baby girl in month 5 of my pregnancy on January 30, 2008. My water broke suddenly and after was all said and done she was stillborn. I named...
Hi Tom, It has taken me a while to respond to your email. Every time I would start and then I just couldn't get out everything so then I would close it out,...
Shunta, It is good to see you here on our forum! Thank you for joining us and sharing this beautiful poem with us. I love what it says...and that you wish to...
This is beautiful, I am so sorry that you lost Angel. I lost my son, Nathaniel at 19 weeks back in '05. Welcome to the forum. Many Hugs, Adrianne atl_sapphire...
Hello Tom, Everything that Marcia wrote in her e-mail are all great ways to be proactive and positive. Use these idea's or come up with ways that fit your...
I'm sorry that you lost baby Nathaniel and thank you for the welcome. How are you coping now? Did you try again and if so, how did you come to that decision? ...
I have my good days and bad. Most are good days. I choose to focus on the blessings that my son brought to our lives and not how short it was. I do miss my son...
Thanks Adrienne, good thoughts. I guess it comes with time. Since this is so new to me, I just need to give myself some time to deal. I guess the question is...
Hi Shunta, I'm so sorry for your loss. There is no set time for healing as I've learned that grieving is a process. And everyone's walk through that process is...
Shunta, I don't think you should look at it as "by this date I should feel this, I should be here in my grief". Each walk is unique. You will go through an...
Shunta, I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am for the loss of your daughter, Angel. Grieving is hard work, and some days are harder than others. Allow...
Thamks Maya. Thats a good idea. What is a "Gabrielle Weekend"? Is that your child's name? ... process. And everyone's walk through that process is unique to...
Hi Tom. I am so sorry for the loss of your baby. I wish I had some really helpful advice to give to you. Unfortunately, though, I can only offer a few thoughts...
Dominique, I am truly sorry for the loss of your little angel, Claire. Having lost my son almost nine months ago, I know how hard it is for you and your...
Hey there, ? Yes, Gabrielle is my son's name. Those weekends for me are when I clean the house and listen to songs that I know he might have liked. Or, when I...
Tammy, I am sorry to hear about the loss of your little boy just as I am so very sorry for everyone here that has lost a little boy or girl. I appreciate your...
Hi Tom, All people react differently. I have friends that have had miscarriages and they didn't want to talk about it, acted like it never happened and were...
Regarding your question about whether I lost patience with my husband, the answer is a resounding yes. Of course, my husband lost patience with me several...
Tammy, Thank you once again. I think the lack of communication is the hardest part for me. I am pretty sure that over time I will feel better about what...
Tom, Caring about how your girlfriend is doing is not selfish at all. In fact it is the opposite. If you were selfish you would do as you were saying, you'd...