I am so sorry to hear about your situation and your loss. I know after a loss dealing with fibroids is very scary. I have 3 fibroids, 1 intramural and had the...
I also went into early labor and lost my son in 2004. For me we don't know why. I went to see a counselor right away and it helped me process my feelings and...
Beth, So sorry for the loss of your son, I know losing a little boy is so hard and yes it sucks and I wouldn't wish it upon anyone either. For me as the first...
I meant to also say, so sorry about losing Alex last year. How are you doing with the anniversary coming up? Forgot to mention it in my post. Julie ... ...
Beth, I am so sorry for your loss. I KNOW it is not much comfort right now but what Julie is saying is correct. Yeah, it will always hurt but it will get...
Hello Beth, I have just come back from a family vacation so I apologize for just now responding to your post. I am so sorry that you lost your little boy. Did...
Hello, I have not been through what you are going through and I can only imagine what you may be feeling. I know that after my son died I was devastated. I...
Hello, I was wondering how everyone was? Is there anything that is pressing on your mind as of late? Right now I am entering the 2nd anniversary of my first...
Hi Other Mommies (and Daddies), Pain and suffering are wonderful teachers. Though most of us would probably agree that the price of the knowledge gained is...
I think at the moment, I'm residing in denial. But it's not the regular denial. It's the 'I'm tired of being sad and am desperate to move in a positive...
Hi Beth, I know how much it must hurt to lose little Jacob. Sometimes it feels like your heart just can't take anymore pain. But I can say that it does get a...
Hi Alex's Mommy, I'm sorry the ache of missing him seems overwhelming for you right now. Big hugs to you! I was in counseling for a little over a year ...
Hi, I will definitely put you on my prayer list. Big hugs to you!! Though I'm not all that up to date on fibroids, but the surgeries have come a long way....
Hello Friends, I am happy to report that I made it through the test. I can't pronounce it, let alone begin to spell it...lol, but it's the test where they...
Hello Everyone, The last week has not been so well for me. I had been doing pretty well up until then, so I don't know what happened. I am so sad. Everything...
Hmmm, I guess I have learned a few things.? People tell me that I am sooooo strong. But, like I say I cry now every day of the week so I don't see it.? I am...
Hi Maya, Yah!! I'm glad your tubes aren't blocked. That's great news! [:D] But to have to go through such pain to find out? Whew! But at least you can...
Maya, I'm glad you shared those lyrics. I think that was one of my most painful issues- feeling as if God had abandoned me when I needed Him most of all. It...
Maya, In a way we are strong because we force ourselves to get out of bed and face the new day. A day without our babies. We chose to work through our grief...
Maya, There were a bunch of women in my life who were pregnant as well. My sister was 2 weeks behind me in her pregnancy. My cousin was pregnant and I think...
Maya, That is great news ( your tubes not be blocked ). It amazes me how many test and procedures that we have to endure just to maybe have a living child one...
The last song that I listened to with Nathaniel was Midnight Cry. It is on the Live With Friends CD from the Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir. There is a lyric that...
I agree with Coretta, Journalling is an awesome way to work through your grief. It helps to get your thoughts on paper. You can yell at people or simply get...
I know that I have days were I think it would be so much easier if I could forget Nathaniel ever existed. Why am I upset? I still had a living baby last year...
Coretta, It is hard for all of us to see others being pregnant or with their little ones and think how unfair it is. I often have the feeling that I am more...
For me I have learned that I am stronger then I thought I was. I have learned that the things that I thought were so important really are not. I tell those...
Hello, I have added a section in our database so we can keep track of who we and our babies are. Please e-mail me the following and I will add you to the list....
Thanks! This is a great idea. Maya Mommies Name??? Maya Smith Babies Name???????Gabrielle Rhys Mayfield Lost Date???????????April 17, 2007 Due Date???????????...
I wish that I could take the credit but I got the idea of a similar list that Julie made for the subsequent pregnancy group. Thank you Julie. Maya I have added...