I think it is about personal opinion. I think that whatever you
imagine is what is best for you.

For some reason I always imagine Ethan as like a 6 year old- but my
loss was only 1.5 years ago. But that is just how I imagine him.

For Christmas last year I donated age appropriate toys in memory of
him and so I imagine this year I will donate something for a 1 and
half year old and so forth but I think it is personal and up to you. I
mean my husbands dad still likes Hot Wheels so if that is your
preferred gift than I think it could be for any age for sure. To me it
is just what you imagine or what makes you feel best.

-Allysa

--- In shareatlantasupport@yahoogroups.com, "Mindy" <msimmons1023@...>
wrote:
>
> I guess my question maybe more for those whose loss has been years
> ago. Do you think angels age? My son's angelversary is coming up
> 10/23 it will be 12 years. My pseudo-sister asked me if when I leave
> presents for Athen if I get him baby stuff or things appropriate to the
> age he would be? I really didn't have an answer as my toy of choice
> are hotwheels...the 37 yr old "boy" @ my house still enjoys those! I
> guess sometimes I still invision him in a permenant baby state, mostly
> I see him as growing up. I had a psyhic reading about 2 yrs ago and
> she told me he has taken on an older spirit of about 10 or 11 (the age
> he would have been at the time). Anyhow, I was just curious what your
> opinon is????
>