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Hello moms,

How is everyone doing? August 5th marked 3 years since I found out
that I was expecting baby Nathaniel. Time goes by so fast and yet it
seems like it was only yesterday. Today was the first day of school
for our neighborhood kids. I also remember the first day of school
back in 2005. I saw this little boy who was clearly a kindergartner.
He was full of energy running up the street in the direction of the
school. Behind him I assume was his older brother. His head was down
and you could tell that it was not his first year and he was not
looking forward to the new year. I laughed and patted my belly and
couldn't help but laugh. I started to day dream about my new baby and
his/her first day of school and years to come. The following year I
saw those two brothers again. This time both boys had their heads
down LOL. I wonder how that first year was for the little boy. I hope
he faired better then I had. I looked for him again this year but did
not see him. I have to admit passing the school I cried. Remembering
how happy I was and full of hope is bitter sweet.

So moms what bitter sweet memories do each of you have? For the
veterans now that you are a year or more out how do you feel about
those memories?





Mon Aug 11, 2008 11:44 pm

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Hello moms, How is everyone doing? August 5th marked 3 years since I found out that I was expecting baby Nathaniel. Time goes by so fast and yet it seems like...
AnneAlyce
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Aug 11, 2008
11:44 pm

I am still very fresh in my loss, but bittersweet for me is seeing babies that are about the same age Gavin would be. He would have been 4 months old last...
alchalk
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Aug 12, 2008
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I agree. Although I am a year and few months out I still have a hard time seeing all of my friends who were pregnant with me when I lost Gabrielle. I look at...
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Aug 12, 2008
1:25 pm

Hello Maya, As some of the veterans know I have a lot of family and friends that have children who would be my son's age. My niece is only 2 weeks if that...
Adrianne Alyce
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Aug 12, 2008
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Hello, Although I joined this group a while ago this is my first post. Tomorrow is the first anniversary of the positive pregnancy test that resulted in a...
Deanna
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Aug 12, 2008
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Hello Deanna, I am glad you have posted. I hope you will post more as you journey on the road of grief. Now when I see a woman I wonder “did she lose a baby...
Adrianne Alyce
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Aug 12, 2008
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Hello Amanda, I too wonder what Nathaniel would look like. Every time I looked into my husbands eyes I saw our son. It took me a long time to look into my...
Adrianne Alyce
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Aug 12, 2008
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I'm 5 months out myself and it still doesn't seem real to me.  Nobody talks about it so sometimes it feels like a distant nightmare.  It's hard for me to...
Karmen Battle
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Aug 12, 2008
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Hello Karmen, I am 3 years out almost and I still have moments where it does not seem real to me. Nathaniel was so tiny he too looked more like a doll then an...
Adrianne Alyce
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Aug 12, 2008
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Well August 21st would have marked the birth of my twins Brycen and Kenan. I was just telling my mother last night it is such a "Bitter Sweet" date because...
Kendra
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Aug 12, 2008
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Hello Kendra, Remembering the moments we had with our babies is always bitter sweet. Nathaniel was my mellow baby. Outside of the morning sickness I hardly...
Adrianne Alyce
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Aug 12, 2008
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