Hang in there! There are little nuances to this Mit cathing. When
you cath her try different angles. Try her at different angels.
Sometimes I have to lower the back of his wheelchair a little to get a
good angle. If you get frustrated, take a break. Also try cathing
her after her she has been cathed. Sometimes a full bladder puts the
conduit at a different angle. Do you remember what the angle of what
her folley cath was? Often times you need to follow that.

I hope this helps.