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#831 From: "newaupfriends" <newaupfriends@...>
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#827 From: ayambri@...
Date: Thu Aug 13, 2009 12:59 pm
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
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Thanks Tracy and to everyone for your prayers and support!!!
 
-Maya


-----Original Message-----
From: Tracy Kimble <tracy.kimble@...>
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wed, Aug 12, 2009 10:47 am
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group



Congrats Maya on both making past 17 weeks and for having a boy... How precious... I have a 7.5 month old boy and he is kissable cute... So much fun...
 
Keep us posted!
Blessings,
Tracy

On Sun, Aug 9, 2009 at 11:14 AM, <ayambri@...> wrote:
 
Hi Angie,

Guess what?? I made it past the 17th week!! I am so happy!

And I also found out that I am having a little boy!

I can't believe it?!!!

I hope all is well with you and your little ones.

Love,
Maya


-----Original Message-----
From: Angie Hernandez <therapist_ng@...>
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sat, Jul 11, 2009 10:37 am
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group



Maya
 
I got pregnant soon after my loss of my twins Nicholas & Maylin (wasn't planned) and it was w/ twins again. It was very difficult in the beginning, there was even times that I reffered to my new babies by the names of my baby angels and I felt extremely guilty. I also felt detachment... I soon realized that it was all fear. It takes over u and u r afraid to love ur new baby while pregnant. So i just decided that I would cry and let the fear go.
My family was very supportive, since they were handling the grief differently they were able to enjoy my pregnancy and I tried my best to look at it through their eyes. That helped a little... prayers also helped alot. When I gave birth it was a new set of emotions  ( I recently gave birth to them prematurely July 4th 2009, after being hospitalized on bedrest) and I'm trying to focus by making lists and journals of my emotions and accepting that I have earned the right to cry whenever I want and my recent delivery is a gift. When I see them I see my lost but I also see/feel love like no other and its even stronger because of what I went thru w/ the loss Of Nicholas and Maylin. I hope this makes sense and helps...
 
Angie
Mommy to Baby Angels
Maylin and Nicholas B/D 10/23/08
Keanu and Lanai born 7/4/09

--- On Fri, 7/10/09, ayambri@... <ayambri@...> wrote:

From: ayambri@... <ayambri@...>
Subject: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Date: Friday, July 10, 2009, 6:03 PM

Hi Everyone,

I'm new to this group. I lost my son Gabrielle at 17 weeks on 4.17.07 due to multiple uterine fibroids. I am currently 17 weeks into my subsequent pregnancy and am on bedrest until next week.

I feel like I haven't really bonded with this baby and am really concerned if that is normal. Everytime I begin to get a little excited something happens that makes me feel as if this pregnancy won't make it either. And this pregnancy has made me miss my Gabrielle even more. And I begin to have this incredible guilt that just washes over me when I begin to actually enjoy this pregnancy.

Did anyone else experience any feelings like this?

Maya

PS-Oddly enough, I've begun listening to music and singing again and I haven't really sang since Gabrielle died. It actually makes me feel better. And when I sing, every now and then I will feel this baby move.



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#826 From: Tracy Kimble <tracy.kimble@...>
Date: Wed Aug 12, 2009 2:47 pm
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
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Congrats Maya on both making past 17 weeks and for having a boy... How precious... I have a 7.5 month old boy and he is kissable cute... So much fun...
 
Keep us posted!
Blessings,
Tracy

On Sun, Aug 9, 2009 at 11:14 AM, <ayambri@...> wrote:
 

Hi Angie,

Guess what?? I made it past the 17th week!! I am so happy!

And I also found out that I am having a little boy!

I can't believe it?!!!

I hope all is well with you and your little ones.

Love,
Maya


-----Original Message-----
From: Angie Hernandez <therapist_ng@...>
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sat, Jul 11, 2009 10:37 am
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group



Maya
 
I got pregnant soon after my loss of my twins Nicholas & Maylin (wasn't planned) and it was w/ twins again. It was very difficult in the beginning, there was even times that I reffered to my new babies by the names of my baby angels and I felt extremely guilty. I also felt detachment... I soon realized that it was all fear. It takes over u and u r afraid to love ur new baby while pregnant. So i just decided that I would cry and let the fear go.
My family was very supportive, since they were handling the grief differently they were able to enjoy my pregnancy and I tried my best to look at it through their eyes. That helped a little... prayers also helped alot. When I gave birth it was a new set of emotions  ( I recently gave birth to them prematurely July 4th 2009, after being hospitalized on bedrest) and I'm trying to focus by making lists and journals of my emotions and accepting that I have earned the right to cry whenever I want and my recent delivery is a gift. When I see them I see my lost but I also see/feel love like no other and its even stronger because of what I went thru w/ the loss Of Nicholas and Maylin. I hope this makes sense and helps...
 
Angie
Mommy to Baby Angels
Maylin and Nicholas B/D 10/23/08
Keanu and Lanai born 7/4/09

--- On Fri, 7/10/09, ayambri@... <ayambri@...> wrote:

From: ayambri@... <ayambri@...>
Subject: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Date: Friday, July 10, 2009, 6:03 PM

Hi Everyone,

I'm new to this group. I lost my son Gabrielle at 17 weeks on 4.17.07 due to multiple uterine fibroids. I am currently 17 weeks into my subsequent pregnancy and am on bedrest until next week.

I feel like I haven't really bonded with this baby and am really concerned if that is normal. Everytime I begin to get a little excited something happens that makes me feel as if this pregnancy won't make it either. And this pregnancy has made me miss my Gabrielle even more. And I begin to have this incredible guilt that just washes over me when I begin to actually enjoy this pregnancy.

Did anyone else experience any feelings like this?

Maya

PS-Oddly enough, I've begun listening to music and singing again and I haven't really sang since Gabrielle died. It actually makes me feel better. And when I sing, every now and then I will feel this baby move.



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Marietta Real Estate Counselors
3405 Dallas Highway, Ste 825
Marietta, GA 30064
Cell: 770-596-8808
Fax: 770-874-4677

#825 From: Angie Hernandez <therapist_ng@...>
Date: Sun Aug 9, 2009 3:59 pm
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
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Maya
 
thats wonderful, I'm so happy for u. My little ones are fighters, there's lots of ups and downs w/ premies but I'm happy to say this week has been good. Take very good care of yourself.
Angie

--- On Sun, 8/9/09, ayambri@... <ayambri@...> wrote:

From: ayambri@... <ayambri@...>
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sunday, August 9, 2009, 11:14 AM

 
Hi Angie,

Guess what?? I made it past the 17th week!! I am so happy!

And I also found out that I am having a little boy!

I can't believe it?!!!

I hope all is well with you and your little ones.

Love,
Maya


-----Original Message-----
From: Angie Hernandez <therapist_ng@ yahoo.com>
To: sasubpregsupport@ yahoogroups. com
Sent: Sat, Jul 11, 2009 10:37 am
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group



Maya
 
I got pregnant soon after my loss of my twins Nicholas & Maylin (wasn't planned) and it was w/ twins again. It was very difficult in the beginning, there was even times that I reffered to my new babies by the names of my baby angels and I felt extremely guilty. I also felt detachment.. . I soon realized that it was all fear. It takes over u and u r afraid to love ur new baby while pregnant. So i just decided that I would cry and let the fear go.
My family was very supportive, since they were handling the grief differently they were able to enjoy my pregnancy and I tried my best to look at it through their eyes. That helped a little... prayers also helped alot. When I gave birth it was a new set of emotions  ( I recently gave birth to them prematurely July 4th 2009, after being hospitalized on bedrest) and I'm trying to focus by making lists and journals of my emotions and accepting that I have earned the right to cry whenever I want and my recent delivery is a gift. When I see them I see my lost but I also see/feel love like no other and its even stronger because of what I went thru w/ the loss Of Nicholas and Maylin. I hope this makes sense and helps...
 
Angie
Mommy to Baby Angels
Maylin and Nicholas B/D 10/23/08
Keanu and Lanai born 7/4/09

--- On Fri, 7/10/09, ayambri@aol. com <ayambri@aol. com> wrote:

From: ayambri@aol. com <ayambri@aol. com>
Subject: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
To: sasubpregsupport@ yahoogroups. com
Date: Friday, July 10, 2009, 6:03 PM

Hi Everyone,

I'm new to this group. I lost my son Gabrielle at 17 weeks on 4.17.07 due to multiple uterine fibroids. I am currently 17 weeks into my subsequent pregnancy and am on bedrest until next week.

I feel like I haven't really bonded with this baby and am really concerned if that is normal. Everytime I begin to get a little excited something happens that makes me feel as if this pregnancy won't make it either. And this pregnancy has made me miss my Gabrielle even more. And I begin to have this incredible guilt that just washes over me when I begin to actually enjoy this pregnancy.

Did anyone else experience any feelings like this?

Maya

PS-Oddly enough, I've begun listening to music and singing again and I haven't really sang since Gabrielle died. It actually makes me feel better. And when I sing, every now and then I will feel this baby move.






#824 From: ayambri@...
Date: Sun Aug 9, 2009 3:14 pm
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
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Hi Angie,

Guess what?? I made it past the 17th week!! I am so happy!

And I also found out that I am having a little boy!

I can't believe it?!!!

I hope all is well with you and your little ones.

Love,
Maya


-----Original Message-----
From: Angie Hernandez <therapist_ng@...>
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sat, Jul 11, 2009 10:37 am
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group



Maya
 
I got pregnant soon after my loss of my twins Nicholas & Maylin (wasn't planned) and it was w/ twins again. It was very difficult in the beginning, there was even times that I reffered to my new babies by the names of my baby angels and I felt extremely guilty. I also felt detachment... I soon realized that it was all fear. It takes over u and u r afraid to love ur new baby while pregnant. So i just decided that I would cry and let the fear go.
My family was very supportive, since they were handling the grief differently they were able to enjoy my pregnancy and I tried my best to look at it through their eyes. That helped a little... prayers also helped alot. When I gave birth it was a new set of emotions  ( I recently gave birth to them prematurely July 4th 2009, after being hospitalized on bedrest) and I'm trying to focus by making lists and journals of my emotions and accepting that I have earned the right to cry whenever I want and my recent delivery is a gift. When I see them I see my lost but I also see/feel love like no other and its even stronger because of what I went thru w/ the loss Of Nicholas and Maylin. I hope this makes sense and helps...
 
Angie
Mommy to Baby Angels
Maylin and Nicholas B/D 10/23/08
Keanu and Lanai born 7/4/09

--- On Fri, 7/10/09, ayambri@... <ayambri@...> wrote:

From: ayambri@... <ayambri@...>
Subject: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Date: Friday, July 10, 2009, 6:03 PM

Hi Everyone,

I'm new to this group. I lost my son Gabrielle at 17 weeks on 4.17.07 due to multiple uterine fibroids. I am currently 17 weeks into my subsequent pregnancy and am on bedrest until next week.

I feel like I haven't really bonded with this baby and am really concerned if that is normal. Everytime I begin to get a little excited something happens that makes me feel as if this pregnancy won't make it either. And this pregnancy has made me miss my Gabrielle even more. And I begin to have this incredible guilt that just washes over me when I begin to actually enjoy this pregnancy.

Did anyone else experience any feelings like this?

Maya

PS-Oddly enough, I've begun listening to music and singing again and I haven't really sang since Gabrielle died. It actually makes me feel better. And when I sing, every now and then I will feel this baby move.





#823 From: "newiekilly" <newiekilly@...>
Date: Sun Aug 9, 2009 12:11 pm
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#822 From: Adrianne Alyce <annealyce@...>
Date: Fri Jul 17, 2009 6:50 pm
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Hello Angie,
 
Congratulations on your two little ones. Unfortunately I know the PNICU and life with a preemie all to well. I know that it can be scary at times. If you ever need anything please feel free to ask.
 
-Adrianne

 


#821 From: Angie Hernandez <therapist_ng@...>
Date: Fri Jul 17, 2009 2:27 pm
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
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Hi Maya
 
You are welcome I'm glad I could help and thak you. My babies will be in the NICU for a while( atleast 10 wks), they were born at 26 wks, they are stable and we are praying for them to come home soon.
Angie

--- On Thu, 7/16/09, ayambri@... <ayambri@...> wrote:

From: ayambri@... <ayambri@...>
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Date: Thursday, July 16, 2009, 9:43 AM

 
Hi Angie,

I remember you. Sorry it took me so long to write back. I just wanted to say Thank you and Congrats to you. I am so happy for you. Wow 4th of July babies...fireworks every year for them! Are they home yet? Yes sometimes I see Gabrielle when I see these ultrasound pics of the new baby but I think only until here recently have I accepted that this new baby is indeed a gift. I will like you give myself a pass to cry and to just feel whatever I need to feel....I've earned it!
 
Thank you for sharing with me...you've helped me a lot!
 
Maya


-----Original Message-----
From: Angie Hernandez <therapist_ng@ yahoo.com>
To: sasubpregsupport@ yahoogroups. com
Sent: Sat, Jul 11, 2009 10:37 am
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group



Maya
 
I got pregnant soon after my loss of my twins Nicholas & Maylin (wasn't planned) and it was w/ twins again. It was very difficult in the beginning, there was even times that I reffered to my new babies by the names of my baby angels and I felt extremely guilty. I also felt detachment.. . I soon realized that it was all fear. It takes over u and u r afraid to love ur new baby while pregnant. So i just decided that I would cry and let the fear go.
My family was very supportive, since they were handling the grief differently they were able to enjoy my pregnancy and I tried my best to look at it through their eyes. That helped a little... prayers also helped alot. When I gave birth it was a new set of emotions  ( I recently gave birth to them prematurely July 4th 2009, after being hospitalized on bedrest) and I'm trying to focus by making lists and journals of my emotions and accepting that I have earned the right to cry whenever I want and my recent delivery is a gift. When I see them I see my lost but I also see/feel love like no other and its even stronger because of what I went thru w/ the loss Of Nicholas and Maylin. I hope this makes sense and helps...
 
Angie
Mommy to Baby Angels
Maylin and Nicholas B/D 10/23/08
Keanu and Lanai born 7/4/09

--- On Fri, 7/10/09, ayambri@aol. com <ayambri@aol. com> wrote:

From: ayambri@aol. com <ayambri@aol. com>
Subject: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
To: sasubpregsupport@ yahoogroups. com
Date: Friday, July 10, 2009, 6:03 PM

Hi Everyone,

I'm new to this group. I lost my son Gabrielle at 17 weeks on 4.17.07 due to multiple uterine fibroids. I am currently 17 weeks into my subsequent pregnancy and am on bedrest until next week.

I feel like I haven't really bonded with this baby and am really concerned if that is normal. Everytime I begin to get a little excited something happens that makes me feel as if this pregnancy won't make it either. And this pregnancy has made me miss my Gabrielle even more. And I begin to have this incredible guilt that just washes over me when I begin to actually enjoy this pregnancy.

Did anyone else experience any feelings like this?

Maya

PS-Oddly enough, I've begun listening to music and singing again and I haven't really sang since Gabrielle died. It actually makes me feel better. And when I sing, every now and then I will feel this baby move.






#820 From: ayambri@...
Date: Thu Jul 16, 2009 1:43 pm
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
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Hi Angie,

I remember you. Sorry it took me so long to write back. I just wanted to say Thank you and Congrats to you. I am so happy for you. Wow 4th of July babies...fireworks every year for them! Are they home yet? Yes sometimes I see Gabrielle when I see these ultrasound pics of the new baby but I think only until here recently have I accepted that this new baby is indeed a gift. I will like you give myself a pass to cry and to just feel whatever I need to feel....I've earned it!
 
Thank you for sharing with me...you've helped me a lot!
 
Maya


-----Original Message-----
From: Angie Hernandez <therapist_ng@...>
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sat, Jul 11, 2009 10:37 am
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group



Maya
 
I got pregnant soon after my loss of my twins Nicholas & Maylin (wasn't planned) and it was w/ twins again. It was very difficult in the beginning, there was even times that I reffered to my new babies by the names of my baby angels and I felt extremely guilty. I also felt detachment... I soon realized that it was all fear. It takes over u and u r afraid to love ur new baby while pregnant. So i just decided that I would cry and let the fear go.
My family was very supportive, since they were handling the grief differently they were able to enjoy my pregnancy and I tried my best to look at it through their eyes. That helped a little... prayers also helped alot. When I gave birth it was a new set of emotions  ( I recently gave birth to them prematurely July 4th 2009, after being hospitalized on bedrest) and I'm trying to focus by making lists and journals of my emotions and accepting that I have earned the right to cry whenever I want and my recent delivery is a gift. When I see them I see my lost but I also see/feel love like no other and its even stronger because of what I went thru w/ the loss Of Nicholas and Maylin. I hope this makes sense and helps...
 
Angie
Mommy to Baby Angels
Maylin and Nicholas B/D 10/23/08
Keanu and Lanai born 7/4/09

--- On Fri, 7/10/09, ayambri@... <ayambri@...> wrote:

From: ayambri@... <ayambri@...>
Subject: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Date: Friday, July 10, 2009, 6:03 PM

Hi Everyone,

I'm new to this group. I lost my son Gabrielle at 17 weeks on 4.17.07 due to multiple uterine fibroids. I am currently 17 weeks into my subsequent pregnancy and am on bedrest until next week.

I feel like I haven't really bonded with this baby and am really concerned if that is normal. Everytime I begin to get a little excited something happens that makes me feel as if this pregnancy won't make it either. And this pregnancy has made me miss my Gabrielle even more. And I begin to have this incredible guilt that just washes over me when I begin to actually enjoy this pregnancy.

Did anyone else experience any feelings like this?

Maya

PS-Oddly enough, I've begun listening to music and singing again and I haven't really sang since Gabrielle died. It actually makes me feel better. And when I sing, every now and then I will feel this baby move.





#819 From: Tracy Kimble <tracy.kimble@...>
Date: Thu Jul 16, 2009 2:31 pm
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
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Hi Maya,
 
I know exactly what you are going through. 17 weeks is a BIG milestone for you! And you are almost through it... :)  I lost my baby boy 6/30/07 at 37.5 weeks. I delivered my son who is almost seven months at 37 weeks. I had many milestone during that pregnancy to overcome and many healings that took place in me. I miss my little girl more than anything but praise the Lord I have a healthy son now!  It does feel as though you don't want to get excited about your pregnancy BUT you can. This is a beautiful new life that you are building. You have to take it one day at a time. You have many wonderful things to look forward to and this is your time. Hang in there, you are doing great...
 
Keep us posted...
 
Blessings,
Tracy Kimble
Mother to Tripp 12/30/08 and angel baby Lilly 6/30/07

On Thu, Jul 16, 2009 at 9:44 AM, <ayambri@...> wrote:
 

Thanks Kelley and to everyone else for responding to me and offering me such guidance and support through this time.
I really appreciate it!

Maya




-----Original Message-----
From: Kelley Green <kelleyegreen@...>
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Fri, Jul 10, 2009 10:12 pm
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group



Hi Maya,
Thank you for sharing your thoughts about both of your babies. Gabrielle is a beautiful name. Congratulations on your current pregnancy. This is a very courageous step forward. I believe you will find some peace during this pregnancy.
Do you have support while you are on bed rest? I like to read and find Karen Kingsbury books very interesting. I started with the Redemption Series and have read 15 of her books since then. Reading and writing have both been very helpful when I am missing my son. Sometimes I think it is difficult to experience conflicting emotions with our unique circumstances. Hang in there--Think Good Thoughts.
Kelley


From: "ayambri@..." <ayambri@...>
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Friday, July 10, 2009 6:03:04 PM
Subject: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group

Hi Everyone,

I'm new to this group. I lost my son Gabrielle at 17 weeks on 4.17.07 due to multiple uterine fibroids. I am currently 17 weeks into my subsequent pregnancy and am on bedrest until next week.

I feel like I haven't really bonded with this baby and am really concerned if that is normal. Everytime I begin to get a little excited something happens that makes me feel as if this pregnancy won't make it either. And this pregnancy has made me miss my Gabrielle even more. And I begin to have this incredible guilt that just washes over me when I begin to actually enjoy this pregnancy.

Did anyone else experience any feelings like this?

Maya

PS-Oddly enough, I've begun listening to music and singing again and I haven't really sang since Gabrielle died. It actually makes me feel better. And when I sing, every now and then I will feel this baby move.



An Excellent Credit Score is 750. See Yours in Just 2 Easy Steps!






--
Tracy Kimble
Marietta Real Estate Counselors
3405 Dallas Highway, Ste 825
Marietta, GA 30064
Cell: 770-596-8808
Fax: 770-874-4677

#818 From: ayambri@...
Date: Thu Jul 16, 2009 1:44 pm
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
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Thanks Kelley and to everyone else for responding to me and offering me such guidance and support through this time.
I really appreciate it!

Maya


-----Original Message-----
From: Kelley Green <kelleyegreen@...>
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Fri, Jul 10, 2009 10:12 pm
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group



Hi Maya,
Thank you for sharing your thoughts about both of your babies. Gabrielle is a beautiful name. Congratulations on your current pregnancy. This is a very courageous step forward. I believe you will find some peace during this pregnancy.
Do you have support while you are on bed rest? I like to read and find Karen Kingsbury books very interesting. I started with the Redemption Series and have read 15 of her books since then. Reading and writing have both been very helpful when I am missing my son. Sometimes I think it is difficult to experience conflicting emotions with our unique circumstances. Hang in there--Think Good Thoughts.
Kelley


From: "ayambri@..." <ayambri@...>
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Friday, July 10, 2009 6:03:04 PM
Subject: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group

Hi Everyone,

I'm new to this group. I lost my son Gabrielle at 17 weeks on 4.17.07 due to multiple uterine fibroids. I am currently 17 weeks into my subsequent pregnancy and am on bedrest until next week.

I feel like I haven't really bonded with this baby and am really concerned if that is normal. Everytime I begin to get a little excited something happens that makes me feel as if this pregnancy won't make it either. And this pregnancy has made me miss my Gabrielle even more. And I begin to have this incredible guilt that just washes over me when I begin to actually enjoy this pregnancy.

Did anyone else experience any feelings like this?

Maya

PS-Oddly enough, I've begun listening to music and singing again and I haven't really sang since Gabrielle died. It actually makes me feel better. And when I sing, every now and then I will feel this baby move.





#817 From: Angie Hernandez <therapist_ng@...>
Date: Sat Jul 11, 2009 2:37 pm
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
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Maya
 
I got pregnant soon after my loss of my twins Nicholas & Maylin (wasn't planned) and it was w/ twins again. It was very difficult in the beginning, there was even times that I reffered to my new babies by the names of my baby angels and I felt extremely guilty. I also felt detachment... I soon realized that it was all fear. It takes over u and u r afraid to love ur new baby while pregnant. So i just decided that I would cry and let the fear go.
My family was very supportive, since they were handling the grief differently they were able to enjoy my pregnancy and I tried my best to look at it through their eyes. That helped a little... prayers also helped alot. When I gave birth it was a new set of emotions  ( I recently gave birth to them prematurely July 4th 2009, after being hospitalized on bedrest) and I'm trying to focus by making lists and journals of my emotions and accepting that I have earned the right to cry whenever I want and my recent delivery is a gift. When I see them I see my lost but I also see/feel love like no other and its even stronger because of what I went thru w/ the loss Of Nicholas and Maylin. I hope this makes sense and helps...
 
Angie
Mommy to Baby Angels
Maylin and Nicholas B/D 10/23/08
Keanu and Lanai born 7/4/09

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From: ayambri@... <ayambri@...>
Subject: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Date: Friday, July 10, 2009, 6:03 PM

Hi Everyone,

I'm new to this group. I lost my son Gabrielle at 17 weeks on 4.17.07 due to multiple uterine fibroids. I am currently 17 weeks into my subsequent pregnancy and am on bedrest until next week.

I feel like I haven't really bonded with this baby and am really concerned if that is normal. Everytime I begin to get a little excited something happens that makes me feel as if this pregnancy won't make it either. And this pregnancy has made me miss my Gabrielle even more. And I begin to have this incredible guilt that just washes over me when I begin to actually enjoy this pregnancy.

Did anyone else experience any feelings like this?

Maya

PS-Oddly enough, I've begun listening to music and singing again and I haven't really sang since Gabrielle died. It actually makes me feel better. And when I sing, every now and then I will feel this baby move.



#816 From: Kelley Green <kelleyegreen@...>
Date: Sat Jul 11, 2009 2:12 am
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group
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Hi Maya,
Thank you for sharing your thoughts about both of your babies. Gabrielle is a beautiful name. Congratulations on your current pregnancy. This is a very courageous step forward. I believe you will find some peace during this pregnancy.
Do you have support while you are on bed rest? I like to read and find Karen Kingsbury books very interesting. I started with the Redemption Series and have read 15 of her books since then. Reading and writing have both been very helpful when I am missing my son. Sometimes I think it is difficult to experience conflicting emotions with our unique circumstances. Hang in there--Think Good Thoughts.
Kelley


From: "ayambri@..." <ayambri@...>
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Friday, July 10, 2009 6:03:04 PM
Subject: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] New to Group

Hi Everyone,

I'm new to this group. I lost my son Gabrielle at 17 weeks on 4.17.07 due to multiple uterine fibroids. I am currently 17 weeks into my subsequent pregnancy and am on bedrest until next week.

I feel like I haven't really bonded with this baby and am really concerned if that is normal. Everytime I begin to get a little excited something happens that makes me feel as if this pregnancy won't make it either. And this pregnancy has made me miss my Gabrielle even more. And I begin to have this incredible guilt that just washes over me when I begin to actually enjoy this pregnancy.

Did anyone else experience any feelings like this?

Maya

PS-Oddly enough, I've begun listening to music and singing again and I haven't really sang since Gabrielle died. It actually makes me feel better. And when I sing, every now and then I will feel this baby move.



#815 From: ayambri@...
Date: Fri Jul 10, 2009 10:03 pm
Subject: New to Group
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Hi Everyone,

I'm new to this group. I lost my son Gabrielle at 17 weeks on 4.17.07 due to multiple uterine fibroids. I am currently 17 weeks into my subsequent pregnancy and am on bedrest until next week.

I feel like I haven't really bonded with this baby and am really concerned if that is normal. Everytime I begin to get a little excited something happens that makes me feel as if this pregnancy won't make it either. And this pregnancy has made me miss my Gabrielle even more. And I begin to have this incredible guilt that just washes over me when I begin to actually enjoy this pregnancy.

Did anyone else experience any feelings like this?

Maya

PS-Oddly enough, I've begun listening to music and singing again and I haven't really sang since Gabrielle died. It actually makes me feel better. And when I sing, every now and then I will feel this baby move.


#814 From: "kelleyegreen" <kelleyegreen@...>
Date: Fri Jul 10, 2009 8:16 pm
Subject: Looking for Resources for Physician Referrals
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Hi Friends,

My husband and I are flying to Arizona for a vasectomy reversal in early August.
November 29th will be three years since we experienced having our son, Joseph,
stillborn. I am searching for information regarding OBGYN physicians that would
be attentive during our journey to conceive and give birth to a healthy fifth
child. Today I visited with a family physician and we did our pre-pregnancy
plan, labs, etc.
I am 40 years old and have three healthy children. Sophia 6, William 5, and Ava
4. I currently work full time as a teacher in the Cobb County School System.
This journey brings with it a need for compassionate and attentive medical care.
Any suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks--KG

#813 From: crystal Shoemaker <ladybug_30340@...>
Date: Fri Jun 12, 2009 3:28 am
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] Anyone have info on blood clotting and taking Heparin for a friend of mine......
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Julie,
 
I also had to take baby aspirin during my pregnancy with Michael.  It was due to having one genome factor that "could" cause a blood clot.  It worked for me but I know there are many people who must take the Heparin.  I think it depends on the condition the doctor is convinced the mother has.  Marcia's information is great... how are you and your "not so little" baby girl?


From: Julie <juliannlouise@...>
To: sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Monday, June 8, 2009 11:28:53 PM
Subject: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] Anyone have info on blood clotting and taking Heparin for a friend of mine......

A friend of mine in Houston has had 2 miscarriages and while they were consulting with an RE she ended up pregnant. They advised her to take Heparin which has her scared. I tested fine on blood clotting and only took baby aspirin as a precaution so not an expert on this. Was wondering if anyone had any experience, advice or websites to direct them to so they could arm themselves with questions and help with any concerns.

So how is everyone doing these days.......

Thanks!

Julie



#812 From: "Julie" <juliannlouise@...>
Date: Tue Jun 9, 2009 3:55 am
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] Anyone have info on blood clotting and taking Heparin for a friend of mine......
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Thanks Marcia.....I will ref the share info.  I told my friend that she needed
to ask specifically WHY they were suggesting so she could know if any tests they
had taken showed anything.  Of course she is scared, we all know what that is
like!

BTW, I will be calling you, I have some blankets I need to drop off!
  :-)

Julie

#811 From: marciahm@...
Date: Tue Jun 9, 2009 3:49 am
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] Anyone have info on blood clotting and taking Heparin for a friend of mine......
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Julie,

Heparin has helped to get MANY SA babies here.  Dr. Beer in Chicago pioneered this process.  He passed away several years ago, but his following and practice is huge.  It is for antibodies and to keep clotting from happening so it doesn't happen in the cord or elsewhere and stop the babies life flow.  There is much about this on our site and also just google the topic.  I have never known anyone to have issues with it.  Dr. K and T use it a great deal.

Take care, Marcia





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Subject: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] Anyone have info on blood clotting and taking Heparin for a friend of mine......



A friend of mine in Houston has had 2 miscarriages and while they were consulting with an RE she ended up pregnant. They advised her to take Heparin which has her scared. I tested fine on blood clotting and only took baby aspirin as a precaution so not an expert on this. Was wondering if anyone had any experience, advice or websites to direct them to so they could arm themselves with questions and help with any concerns.

So how is everyone doing these days.......

Thanks!

Julie


#810 From: "Julie" <juliannlouise@...>
Date: Tue Jun 9, 2009 3:28 am
Subject: Anyone have info on blood clotting and taking Heparin for a friend of mine......
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A friend of mine in Houston has had 2 miscarriages and while they were
consulting with an RE she ended up pregnant.  They advised her to take Heparin
which has her scared.  I tested fine on blood clotting and only took baby
aspirin as a precaution so not an expert on this.  Was wondering if anyone had
any experience, advice or websites to direct them to so they could arm
themselves with questions and help with any concerns.

So how is everyone doing these days.......

Thanks!

Julie

#809 From: "Julie" <juliannlouise@...>
Date: Tue Apr 21, 2009 2:42 am
Subject: How is everyone?
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We are headed to Florida this week, so I am missing the SHARE walk this year. 
Looking forward to a much needed vacation.  Check in and let us know how you are
doing!

peace,

Julie
Mom to Angel Caleb born at 24weeks in 2004 and my subsequent sweetie Sarah age
2.5yrs

#808 From: "Julie" <juliannlouise@...>
Date: Wed Apr 15, 2009 3:01 am
Subject: Re: Just checking in
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Congrats Emily!  Time does FLY.

--- In sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com, "emily_janke" <emily_janke@...> wrote:
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> Hi Girls!  It has been FOREVER since I've been on the message board, but I
just wanted to drop a quick note to say hello.  I think Marcia posted my news
for me way back in December that we had a healthy delivery of our baby girl
Anna.  She is 4 months old already -- I am amazed at how quickly the time is
going!  Hope all you pregnant mommies are doing well!  My thoughts and prayers
are with you all!
> Emily
>

#806 From: "emily_janke" <emily_janke@...>
Date: Thu Apr 9, 2009 3:37 pm
Subject: Just checking in
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Hi Girls!  It has been FOREVER since I've been on the message board, but I just
wanted to drop a quick note to say hello.  I think Marcia posted my news for me
way back in December that we had a healthy delivery of our baby girl Anna.  She
is 4 months old already -- I am amazed at how quickly the time is going!  Hope
all you pregnant mommies are doing well!  My thoughts and prayers are with you
all!
Emily

#805 From: Tracy Kimble <tracy.kimble@...>
Date: Sun Mar 1, 2009 5:02 pm
Subject: Re: [SHARE Atlanta Subsequent Pregnancy Support] Apoligize for being a slack moderator
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Julie, I am so sorry to hear about your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope everything else is going good.
Blessings,
Tracy

On Sat, Feb 28, 2009 at 7:18 PM, Julie <juliannlouise@...> wrote:

I want to apoligize to you all. I have not been around which is just
terrible, I am am truly sorry. Not that any excuse makes a difference,
but my dad died last month. He went into the hopsital on Christmas and
lived for 3 weeks after that. I have been a little bit of a mess and
truly feel bad for not checking in. Please forgive me!

Julie




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your friend! Check my personal page here:
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#803 From: "Julie" <juliannlouise@...>
Date: Sun Mar 1, 2009 12:21 am
Subject: Re: How is everyone doing these days?
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Hi Patty, SOOOO sorry this post is late in coming.  How are you
doing?  Did you find out the sex?  When I was pregnant with Sarah I
decided to find out and she would NOT cooperate either.

so sorry about your loss of Boden.  I lost my son Caleb in 2004 to
premature birth. I don't think the pregnancy got easier for me with
Sarah my subsequent baby until we were home and she was in my arms
ok.  But I will say, I did relish any moments when I wasn't nervous
or scared and I LOVED seeing those ultrasounds.

Peace,

julie




--- In sasubpregsupport@yahoogroups.com, "Patty" <pattyadair@...>
wrote:
>
> I just realized that you sent this email out a while ago and no one
> has responded.  So, I will share my progress.
>
> I am currently 16 weeks 2 days pregnant with our 4th child.  This
is
> my 3rd pregnancy. My first was 5 years ago with fraternal twin
boys.
> Then March 2007, I found out the I was pregnant with our 3rd, a
boy,
> Boden Truett. Boden became our angel on November 2, 2007, just 2
days
> before my scheduled c-section, November 5, 2007. He grew his angel
> wings as a result of cord compression.
>
> I found out about my current pregnancy 2 weeks before Boden's 1st
> heavenly birthday...truly a gift from our cherished angel. I have
> debated over whether or not to find out the sex, because after all,
> what if I don't bring this baby home? The thoughts have crossed my
> mind. However, at my 12 week Nuchal Translucency scan, the baby was
> hiding the parts.  Most of my friends have been told what they are
> having at this test...so we were a little excited about the
thought.
> The following week, the legs were crossed just at the right spot.
So,
> now I am very curious...is it a 4th boy? or is it the little
princess
> my husband has secretly wanted? By the way, Boden was to be our
last.
> We will find out on Jan. 19, 2009...I will be 17 weeks and cannot
> wait to see the little person inside. Another by the way, my
doctors
> have been very understanding since my loss was the first full term
> loss the practice has had since 1993. Whatever I have wanted, they
> have allowed, so many ultrasounds:) I also am welcomed to have
> heartbeat checks...had the 2nd one last Friday. My nerves have been
> on the edge...because I know the worst that can happen.
>
> My goal for this pregnancy is to enjoy every minute of it, relax,
let
> my boys get to know the baby inside(regardless), TRY to not the
last
> brush with death get to me...I know Boden had something to do with
> this...when we first first held our angel, we knew more were to
come
> our way, BUT, only when Boden was ready to be a big brother...I
take
> it that he is...
>
> Thanks for letting me share my novel...
>
> Much love to all,
>
> Patty Adair
> Mommy to precious Boden Truett Adair, November 2, 2007
>

#802 From: "Julie" <juliannlouise@...>
Date: Sun Mar 1, 2009 12:18 am
Subject: Apoligize for being a slack moderator
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I want to apoligize to you all.  I have not been around which is just
terrible, I am am truly sorry.  Not that any excuse makes a difference,
but my dad died last month.  He went into the hopsital on Christmas and
lived for 3 weeks after that.  I have been a little bit of a mess and
truly feel bad for not checking in.  Please forgive me!

Julie

#801 From: "Patty" <pattyadair@...>
Date: Tue Jan 13, 2009 4:43 pm
Subject: Re: How is everyone doing these days?
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I just realized that you sent this email out a while ago and no one
has responded.  So, I will share my progress.

I am currently 16 weeks 2 days pregnant with our 4th child.  This is
my 3rd pregnancy. My first was 5 years ago with fraternal twin boys.
Then March 2007, I found out the I was pregnant with our 3rd, a boy,
Boden Truett. Boden became our angel on November 2, 2007, just 2 days
before my scheduled c-section, November 5, 2007. He grew his angel
wings as a result of cord compression.

I found out about my current pregnancy 2 weeks before Boden's 1st
heavenly birthday...truly a gift from our cherished angel. I have
debated over whether or not to find out the sex, because after all,
what if I don't bring this baby home? The thoughts have crossed my
mind. However, at my 12 week Nuchal Translucency scan, the baby was
hiding the parts.  Most of my friends have been told what they are
having at this test...so we were a little excited about the thought.
The following week, the legs were crossed just at the right spot. So,
now I am very curious...is it a 4th boy? or is it the little princess
my husband has secretly wanted? By the way, Boden was to be our last.
We will find out on Jan. 19, 2009...I will be 17 weeks and cannot
wait to see the little person inside. Another by the way, my doctors
have been very understanding since my loss was the first full term
loss the practice has had since 1993. Whatever I have wanted, they
have allowed, so many ultrasounds:) I also am welcomed to have
heartbeat checks...had the 2nd one last Friday. My nerves have been
on the edge...because I know the worst that can happen.

My goal for this pregnancy is to enjoy every minute of it, relax, let
my boys get to know the baby inside(regardless), TRY to not the last
brush with death get to me...I know Boden had something to do with
this...when we first first held our angel, we knew more were to come
our way, BUT, only when Boden was ready to be a big brother...I take
it that he is...

Thanks for letting me share my novel...

Much love to all,

Patty Adair
Mommy to precious Boden Truett Adair, November 2, 2007

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