We are so deeply sorry for the loss of your dear brother or sister and for this tremendous pain in your heart that you must endure now.
It is said that when your parents die, you lose your past; when your spouse dies, you lose your present; and when your child dies, you lose your future. However, when your sibling dies, you lose your past, your present, and your future. After all, the relationship between siblings is potentially the longest of their lives. We understand that, as we share this loss together and we are here for you, we have created this safe haven for anyone who has lost a sibling in death for any reason. Our brothers and sisters are never forgotten here. We keep them alive with us. We welcome you to share your brother or sister with us and your feelings, all of them, the anger, the sadness, the depression, the grief, the hurt and hopefully one day the happy stories of your sibling. We will listen without judgement, cry with you and hug you because we are all truly the forgotten mourners. We will not ask you to "move-on" but we will stay with you at whatever stage you need to be in for as long as you need to be. It is amazing how sibling loss has its own unique grief and challenges and we all share that grief together in order to make the load lighter. This group is moderated for the safety of our family. Allowing us to help you will help us in our grief as well. May your grief be gentle today.
Love and Healing,
The Safe Haven Sibling Loss Family