and a welcome to all that I haven't welcomed yet. My apologies. I have 100 emails to answer... including a few from Danielle, Rachel and Kerri. I am trying to get to them!
Amy - I am sorry you have to be here... but you are totally doing an excellent thing in supporting your kids! Too many parents dont, instead they stand by their spouse and think the children are telling lies. Congrats on doing the right thing!!
School is kicking my ass.... and I LOVE it!
Unfortunately, other things are suffering, like the blogs and the website. I have a ton of stuff to add to both, but 4 writing intensive classes, an art class and a politics class are screaming for all of my time. I am carrying an A average in all of my classes... my first art project earned a B+, but this last one we did is an A+. I was more proud of that B+ than I am of all my A's because I have the artistic talent of mashed potatoes.
I have a question for all of ya... does anyone know how to blog? Or interested in learning? I really could use some help posting articles. The girl that was doing it for me got mad at me because I told her that she needed to stop being such a bitch to another girl who has just began her healing journey. Its a long story. Anyway....
If you would be interested in learning how to blog, or know how, and would be willing to help me post articles, I would GREATLY appreciate it, and be forever in your debt. You can email me at ashiningsurvivor@... or franki@...
Anyway, I gotta scoot... Im getting out of the house for a pedicure... although I am taking a couple of text books with me so I can do some reading while the toes dry.
Be gentle to you. Lisa aka Franki sadlynormal.org Seeking Justice for Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
Please feel free to pass this on to other survivors and survivor groups... the more the merrier.
I started a new project New Year's day… one for victims, survivors, warriors. It’s all about healing, and finding ourselves. It isnt about the laws, the criminals, the news, or the sex offender registry… its about US. Fighting our pasts, and reinventing our futures.
I invite you to join me on Sadly Normal’s Interactive Discussion blog. Once daily, I will post a question, a thought, a quote, an inspiration, an idea… something to think about, talk about, elaborate on. Share.
I see questions on other lists, and I do borrow a few of them. I hope nobody minds. I really think the more we can open up discussion, and reach more survivors across all generations, races, countries... all boundaries... the better we will heal.
Sharing is huge for survivors. Let’s share what works and what didn’t work for our healing. Let’s share our successes and our accomplishments and our experiences.
I hope you all join me.
Be gentle to you. Lisa aka Franki sadlynormal.org Seeking Justice for Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
The 7th Edition of the Carnival Against Child Abuse has been posted, with many wonderful submissions. Thanks to all who submitted articles, posts, and poems to make this carnival a success!!!
Thank you for everyone's participation and support!! Always.
Be gentle to you. Lisa aka Franki sadlynormal.org Seeking Justice for Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
Hello survivors, advocates, and friends working towards the prevention of Child Abuse and ending violence,
I am writing to invite you to submit a blog post (a favorite from anywhere) or an original article to the 7th Edition of the Carnival Against Child Abuse, hosted by Sadly Normal. Since it is the last one of the year, I would like to make it huge! I am looking for several different types of submissions, including Advocacy and Awareness, Aftermath, Healing & Therapy, In The News, Poetry, and Survivor Stories. For this edition, I have also added a few original categories that I hope you will find interesting. They are geared more towards survivors, but all are invited to share their thoughts. The list is at the link below.
I know not everyone has a blog yet (oh the blasphemy!!! haha), so I have opened up my blog to guest writers for people who dont have one.
I finally finished adding all the resources I had in my files to my website. If you wanna cruise through it, cool. Well.. not all of them... I still need to do state and local resources too...
Infact, if you have any local resources to you, every thing counts... please send them to me. Online links, hotlines, local numbers to RCC... anything. (If you ever get bored and wanna look some up, Id appreciate the help!)
If I promised you a link, and didn't add it, please let me know.
If you have some resources youd like to see added, please email them to me. I hope someone finds them helpful =0)
Thanks
Lisa
PS - Ill be getting the rest of the poetry up this week that everyone has sent to me. If you have anything (poetry, your story, pictures of artwork...) please send it in. Please make sure you tell me how you want to sign it... name/email/both/anonymous....
Be gentle to you. Lisa aka Franki sadlynormal.org Seeking Justice for Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
A group of bloggers who are survivors of and/or fighting against child abuse do these things called Carnivals Against Child Abuse.
We submit articles, and they are all showcased on one blog. December is my turn to host the Carnival.
I am inviting anyone who doesn't have a blog who wants to write an article, post their thoughts, submit a poem to the Carnival to email it to me, and I will post it on my blog as a Guest Writer.
If you have a blog, you can submit an original post for the carnival at the link below called submissions.
You can also submit articles you have seen on other blogs, but please include the link to the original post. Below is the invitation, deadlines, and the categories I am including.
If you have any questions, please let me know. Thanks...
* If you don’t have your own blog, but would still like to write an article, I will open up SadlyNormal for this month to Guest Writers. Submit your original article (please be specific with how you want to be credited - name, email address, etc) to franki@... and I will post them here. (This is for guest writers only, please use the submission link above for articles on your own blog or suggestions for other blogs. Thanks)
Deadline for submissions: Midnight, Dec 20th
Carnival will run: Saturday, December 23rd.
Please submit your articles ASAP!!!!
Be gentle to you. Lisa aka Franki sadlynormal.org Seeking Justice for Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
I had many requests for my shirt "I was sexually abused by my father, and all I got was this stupid tshirt". I was finally able to get them up, along with a bunch of other stuff. I have 18 different 'abusers' listed (father, mother, brother, sister, grandfather, uncle, priest, rabbi, etc), and if you have a request, I will be happy to oblige. Just send me an email.