I havent wrote in a while I have been having bad days and I just
left my sons father. I had been seeking abuse counseling for a
couple of months now because he wasent great before the disease but
became terrible after. In tje beginning he was okay but within 3
months of my fall he began getting meaner and meaner, stole my meds
took what very little money I had, would refuse to push me in my
wheelchair ever and dint want to be seen with me unless I had a good
day and walked, wheelhairs embarased him, well he finally hit me for
the first time yesterday. I made a police repot and have been seeing
a domestic abuse hotline for months so I packed all my sons and I
clothes all his toys my family and I purchased, my dresser , one of
the babies bed the one given to me not the one he bought , my 2
small tvs and a thrift store vcr and a playstation and left him
with the babies bed he brought, the babies and his dresser and both
our beds the one we have packed, the BIG tv, china closent with all
my fine dishware, all photos except the ones of just me and the baby
the dishes couch entertainment center, nicknakes all the nice art
work, my 2 antique endtable and chip in dale mirror(these 2 id like
back) the bar, basically almost everything and now he says he is
going to tell them I took more than my share.


The main reason Im writing is because I have RSD pretty bad and
have to go to the er atleasrt once a month for pain but because they
hav been tril and erroring and I now need to find a hospitol or
clinic in new york who can figure all whats wrong they think sd and
other nerve damage(if anyone knows any Ill be very grateful) but as
you all no you have good and bad days butI always care for my son
whether Im in pain or not and on te absolute unbearable days we stay
at my moms and she watches him or if I need or want she also can
take meto my appointments or hospitol and my aunt or grandma can
watch my baby boy... but the father says no judge will give me
custody becuse of the rsd. Is this true? I have plenty of help and
good and bad days and getting in for treatments and have always
taken care of him can the father really take custody from me? Im
scared do disabled parents have rights to keep custody ? Can the
other parent who is not disabled but had a past dwi, 2 bar fights a
drinking and gambling problem, a dropped harassment charge that got
dropped and now the bruises on me realy win custody just because im
hurt? Whats my disability parental rights, I live in ny any help or
even where to ask would be greatly appreciated. Thanks