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#6349 From: "kay sainsbury" <kay.sainsbury@...>
Date: Wed Oct 10, 2007 10:06 pm
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a bit long
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Dear All
I think we must be open minded. As has been said there are no rights and
wrongs, and even in a discussion like this there is a lot of common ground.
There is a lot going on out there, research, work being done on genetics,
physics, healing modalities and their efficacy that even takes the medical
profession to new and wonderful places so maybe we should too. Personally I
wish I had time to read everything and take everything on board. But I do
remember a story once told to me about some monkeys on different islands and
when faced with similar problems of survival it was shown they all more or less
came up with the same solution. So what is happening in America right now, with
the limitations put on reflexology and the law passed that says you have to
become part of the massage qualification, is yet another step that is required
by outside sources to "legitimise" what we do. It has happened in other places
and with time it has been overcome.

When the use of healing modalities goes up in the UK, you can bet your bottom
dollar that the next day in the broadsheets (the more upmarket papers) there is
an article directed at a so-called intelligent section of the population, which
will demean and lower them. It is quite often reflexology. They used to do it
to chiropractics, osteopaths and acupuncturists, but they are now accepted in
their own right. Unfortunately in all of history there has been a lot of fear
borne through misunderstanding and prejudice. Same here in the UK. Only a few
hundred years ago we (reflexologists) would have all been hung by the neck or
drowned as witches, heretics and the like for doing the work of the devil (and
some religions still believe so...). So we have come a long way already.

In England, where I am from, it is enough that you have studied at a
professional level (and yes, it is a profession) are fully qualified and
insured. We do not need a licence to practice (unless it involves breaking the
skin as in acupuncture) but the most successful practitioners do belong to bona
fide associations who are striving to bring educational standards up to a point
where all professional bodies and their teaching methods are integrated. No-one
should work without insurance. There are still grey areas in this country and
basically any beauty therapist can go on a course and say they are a
reflexologist :( Personally I frown on that, but I long ago gave up my shield
and charger to go and fight the good fight.) I have found through experience
that whilst I am fully booked with a waiting list because my reflexology makes a
difference to people, others, including those who have done a diploma or a
college course (arghhh), get very few return clients.

The true test of the efficacy of a particular modality is your return clientele.
If what you are doing works and is bringing your clients and referrals from them
back again (I have clients on my books for 5 years plus as new problems surface
for them) surely that is the true test.

I personally also find that people want to know. People are intelligent on the
whole. They have read about other modalities. The most common question I ask
is can you have Reiki while having reflexology. (Though I don't do Reiki)
People are becoming aware that there are other "tools" available to them,
especially in this country when the NHS has failed so many people through
waiting times and ineffective or too many pills. People throughout the world
are taking back control. They are seeking out our services from a desire to be
more natural; they don't want to keep popping pills. They read up things on the
internet. They ask what I can do for them. What does this mean. What does a
certain colour mean. Personally I would feel inadequate as a therapist,
remembering i am taking their money, if I could not answer their questions with
at least the basics.

As for me, when I learned reflexology no-one explained to me about how the
body's energy (which is fluid) can fluctuate. Nobody explained to me that as a
therapist I could suffer "transference". Very shortly after starting out I
would know what the person's problem is when they entered the room because I
felt it in my body. I was open and receiving and was not taught how to block
that and be grounded and ready to give my session clearly. It was only on a
workshop that I was allowed to feel my own body energy (aura) fluctuating and
when I went to a linking workshop, which doubled up with a work shop by Moss
Arnold on meridians, that lots of pennies dropped. We shouldn't even be taught
reflexology without going into body energy, how emotions affect us, and the
transference of energy between two people. In my opinion therefore all these
other modalities should come before traditional reflexology, not afterwards!

To have no fear is very liberating. I have worked with every contraindication
listed in every reflexology book I have found, with 100% success. Not through
stubborn-ness, but because the opportunities came up and I went with the flow.
My fear is that as therapists if we don't go with the flow (of life, and all its
many shapes and colours reflected in the more "holistic" aspects of reflexology,
including what the feet show me at every level not just physical), then we will
become stagnated. Then we become mediocre, and cannot bend with our clients.

The science of reflexology is there for all to study. If you want to be rigid
in its application and that works for you - great. There is so much benefit to
be had. If you want to go beyond the original concept - and there are many who
have and have had a struggle getting their work accepted - then that should be
fine too. Then it becomes an art.

Give a little in your practice .... the rewards are indescribable.
With love


----- Original Message -----
From: Evelyn McCormack
To: reflexologycommunity@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, October 10, 2007 4:24 PM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked.....too


Dear Kevin,

I read your post and couldn't agree with you more.

Reflexology will never die, it is only growing and despite all the people out
there trying to damage our reputation and our PROFESSION, nothing but human
warmth with a healing and loving spirit would be able to substitute us for
machines or electrodes.

No machine will be able never to substitute the warmth of a hug, a human hug.
No lawyer and no journalist will be able never to destroy people's hearts.
Reflexology is stepping forward, I am glad that Moshe brought all those
outstanding news from Australia. I was so happy yesterday when I read his
post!!! Everyone of us should cheer what's happening now with Reflexology.

I've learnt on your books. When my youngest son was a newborn, somebody handed
me The Complete Parents' guide to Reflexology.

I am afraid of those Reflexologists who claim having founded Reflexology and
try to seed on the ignorance of other people with no more backup than a monetary
and commercial objective. There is a very famous Reflexologist out there who
claims having that credit....of having founded Reflexology. Not you. I am afraid
of those Reflexologists who invent stories, lie or steal techniques from other
people and immediately create and make a trademark with a bombastic name as if
it was their invention or discovery. I am afraid of these people's low level of
ethics, so low that they will never be able to understand what the word ethics
mean. I know who am I talking about.

Therefore, I had a problem in matching the same person whose books I read with
passion and seeded so much for the welfare of Reflexology as you did with the
person who attacked without a reason other sources of knowledge that YES can
enrich Reflexology as a Therapy.

Best wishes

Lov,

Eve

----- Original Message ----
From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogroups.com>
To: reflexologycommunity@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, 10 October, 2007 4:41:30 PM
Subject: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked.....too

I started this and I don't want to continue a flame war on this group. So
after a good
night's sleep let me tell you what is bothering me.

We are not a profession.. . yet. We may have the trimming and look the part
but we are still
in infancy. Why do I say that?

1) We hire a sociologist 27 years ago to help us figure out how to help
reflexology
become a profession. Her major point was to become a profession you need a
systematic
body of knowledge. If you don't you have a weak profession which usually has
little
prestige and low pay.

2) That same year we published The Complete Guide to Foot Reflexology. It was
one of the
hardest struggle Barbara and I ever faced. But we felt compelled to do since
even during
the brief time we saw the field changing. And the field of reflexology was yet
to be
documented. It was all verbal tradition.

Publishing that book wasn't something I wanted to do because coming from an
academic
family. I never what was involved and the sacrifice it meant. But it was
worse.

No publisher would take us so we had to self publish until Prentice Hall saw
the popularity
of reflexology and "found" us. they can originally returned "our baby"
unopened.

But we had at least documented this traditional healing modality. And what
ever happens
to change the field there is a record.

3) The hard part was naming techniques and defining things that hadn't really
been
defined before. Issues went on for weeks and at times months. "Holding hand"
and
"working hand" was a real struggle. Whether to use the traditional description
of
techniques such as "thumb walking" became a major debate..

And then trying to describe the techniques was mind boggling. Barbara was
really the
brains behind this. Instead of 28 different techniques she simplified them
into three
techniques plus desserts. It was a revolution. Suddenly more people could do
reflexology
because it had been simplified.

4) And then just as we put out Hand and Foot Reflexology: A Self Help Guide we
were put
out of business in the city of Albuquerque. We weren't qualified to practice
reflexology
because we didn't have a massage license. We would have had to gone to a local
massage
school to take training in our own book to be qualified.

It took 5 very long years to reverse that decision. Then only a couple of
years later it was
attempted again. It took us 31 meeting to get an exemption from the massage
law.

The definition was absolutely critical. It had to put us outside the massage
law and not
infringe on other professions.

So want is the point of all this. You won't get rich being a writer but you
will preserve
something even if it is only a little piece. And you will help generations to
come.

Labeling and defining your practices is absolutely critical. There is no real
room for error.

And don't look to me if you can't come up with a name for this what -do -you
-call it field.
That's you job.

And yes I am concern about the impact of each and every little addition to the
field of
reflexology. I feel we have earned the right to challenge the additions to
this field and
push the inventors to document the efficacy, safety and mechanism of action as
well as
the origin of what they are proposing.

I am concerned that we may not exist as "reflexologists" in the next few
years, There are
people out there testing reflexology for the neurotransmitters involved. There
are real
time ECG's and EKG's tests going on to measure heart rate function and
brain-waves. Will
we be obsolete before too long because we failed to become a systematic body
of
knowledge.

And I am concerned about the latest fad. Strong professions have peer review
to guard
against the latest fad. We don't. And so the what-do-call- it field is a
danger.

Our fight has never ended. And it will never end if you love this craft as
passionately we
are.

So if you really believe this is a necessary and important addition to the
field of reflexology
be ready to defend it and don't think we won't notice if it is being slipped
in through the
back door.

Until we all embrace our systematic body of knowledge and all become builders
in that
body of knowledge we are still infants and easy prey to those who see the
potential of
reflexology monetarily without the heart we all have.

Kevin Kunz

BTW Barbara and I had never been writes before The Complete Guide to Foot
Reflexology.
Barbara learned to illustrate to do that book. And the best part is we had no
money. But
that is another story.

--- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, learnecm <no_reply@.. .> wrote:
>
>
>
> Hello Evelyn,
>
> After many hours of thinking on your reply to Kevin as well as how I
> replied back to you. I must admit I seemed to myself a tad harsh.
>
> But, after a good night's sleep and again thinking more about your
> posting, I decided to FINISH what I started to say on the last
> posting.
>
> Before I get too upset at you wanting to TREAT PATIENTS I should have
> asked where you received YOUR medical degree. Maybe you are an MD.
> I hae met some wholistic practitioners who are. And some who
> actually promote Reflexology. For example Doctor Susa Wong MD on
> Aboutus.com as well as many who have co published bookds on
> reflexology. So that was unfair of me to assume you were not a
> medical doctor. If you are, my apologies, you do have the RIGHT to
> prescribe, diagnose and treat for specific conditions, however
> looking at the ethical side of things, even medical doctors should
> not claim to cure everyone they meet.
>
> One more note on the fact that you feel your "patients", should not
> have to told what you are doing and that they come to you with trust
> and assurance that'whatever' you do is OK and acceptable . . .
> If a medical doctor tells you that a certain course of treatment is
> OK and that you should take this little pink pill and you will feel
> better - what would you do????? I always question my medical
> doctor, research the treatment (ask questions) before making an
> informed decision about my treatment. Don't you?
> If a doctor tells a person, you will need to remove the limb. Don't
> you want more information before undergoing such radical treatment?
> I would want to know a heck of lot more about the surgery and if
> something else could be done and about whether the one practicing
> (the surgeon in this case) is skilled at what he/she does, not to
> mention if they are ethical in their beliefs.
> This example is REAL diabetics all over the world are told that
> because of foot ulcers they need to "remove the limb" yet in medical
> facilities around the world the medical community is using hyperberic
> chambers to treat diabetics and "saving their limbs" Wow. The ones
> that get this treatment had to SEARCH for it and let the WORLD know
> it is out there. Just like You and I - we need to let everyone know
> what REFLEXLOGY is. Don't cloud it with our own slant on things some
> do. Keep it Pure and if you want to "include" other ideals in your
> treatment of clients, or "patients" do so as not to risk the
> physical, mental, OR moral well being of the ones you so dearly want
> to help and love.
>
> Please understand this is not a personal attack on anyone, just how I
> so deeply believe. We do live in a democratic contry - at least I
> do, and freedom of belief and speech should never besquashed. But as
> a medical doctor does have limitations so are all of us.
>
> I have much more I would like to say, but I will stop here.
>
> Take care and let's live, love and learn,
>
> Deb
>
> --- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, Evelyn McCormack
> <evelyn10267@ > wrote:
> >
> > Dear Kevin,
> >
> > Reading your words, I felt shocked too.
> > I feel compelled to answer to your text.
> >
> > I'll insert my answers between your lines.
> >
> > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> about Personality
> > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> >
> > I agree, all of them were very intelligent.
> >
> > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> what they are doing for
> > their clientele. Labeling is not a matter of choice it is a
> requirement for the protection of
> > the consumer.Deeper than the legal question to me is the ethical
> question. Is client fully and fairly
> > informed as to the nature of the services?That is a law in at least
> one state.
> >
> > I have patients, perhaps you have a clientele.. I have never
> considered my patients as "clients", because I am a Therapist. Have
> you ever heard a Doctor in Medicine talk about his clientele? I'd
> never go to one who speaks like that. Is it perhaps a cultural
> difference between you and me? I was born and grew up in Austria, I
> live now in the UK. I have never heard a practitioner talk about his
> or her "clientele" but about his or her patients. Perhaps terms can
> be different from place to place..
> >
> > I see not ethical question at all. Nobody is hiding anything from
> my patients. People who have given me the privilege of their
> confidence and trust must be respected. I don't provide a "service to
> my clients", I provide a treatment to my patient.
> >
> >
> > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> who really felt resentful
> > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> upon" with the "latest weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner
> had just learned.
> >
> > Who better than you know that there are many kinds of
> practitioners? Does it surprise you? Because of one your friend met
> you are putting an entire group inside the same sac? Come on, Kevin,
> there are good and responsible and there are unprofessional and
> charlatans everywhere. With a wide range of variants in the middle.
> >
> > As a matter of fact, haven't you ever heard a respectable Doctor of
> Medicine who experiments upon his patient with the latest article he
> has read or the latest word in equipment he has purchased?
> >
> > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> a problem with
> > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> attached. They are
> > dangerous.
> >
> > Who told you that we give personality assessments? This affirmation
> shows your total ignorance of the subject you are talking about and
> attacking without knowledge!!
> >
> > You talk about research but you haven't asked questions about how
> exactly do we apply our knowledge to Reflexology. You attack, attack
> and attack without giving others the opportunity to explain what is
> all about.
> >
> > I invite you to attend one of Avi Grrenberg or Moshce Kruchik
> seminars and perhaps you can have an idea of what do they teach and
> why have they become so famous and respected in the world of
> Reflexology. ..
> >
> > As for dangerous, I feel that it is more dangerous to me the person
> who fancies himself of knowing about something that he really
> doesn't, underestimating the real knowledge and skills of those who
> do.
> >
> > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> stable. They are not necessarily
> > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> simplest thing. Planning
> > with someone's head could backfire.
> >
> > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> Reflexology based on? Where is
> > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> contraindications? What are the safety
> > rules?
> >
> > Nobody will be able to answer the question by the simple fact that
> nobody before has talked about Personality Reflexology. Only you. You
> are the first who talked about Personality Reflexology, so I invite
> you to explain to all the members of this respectable forum what is
> that exactly.
> >
> > You are the first one who use this combination of terms. And if you
> ask my opinion, it is wrong. I don't need labels for everything as
> if Reflexology was comparable to a bottle of whisky....
> >
> > Reflexology is a Therapy based on a theory and we, Reflexologists
> around the world are trying to demonstrate that our theory is valid,
> to understand more and more how does it work and how deep it can
> get.
> >
> > Fortunately, Reflexology has many facets, not only one. Reflexology
> has many sources of knowledge, not only one based on
> suppositions. ...What kind of contraindications can have a good word,
> a good dialog with your patient, a good advice given on time....?
> What are you talking about......?
> >
> > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that..
> Not only to the clientele
> > but to this profession as well.
> >
> > Fortunately, not all the Reflexologists think like you do.
> >
> > More and more of us around the world are introducing to the
> practice of Reflexology what you consider dangerous. People like Avi,
> Chris or Moshe are not teaching us the way to criminality. The three
> of them are lovely people who devoted themselves to Reflexology and
> on the contrary, they have made and they are making a great
> contribution to Reflexology with the knowledge they have. If you
> suggest that what they teach is dangerous, so poor we.....! I should
> be a dangerous Therapist too.
> >
> > It's a pity that you didn't get properly assessed before you stated
> such an offence.. With such a statement, you are seriously offending
> the dignity of lots of Reflexologists around the world.
> >
> > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> It is a personality
> > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> >
> > I'll disappoint you once again. I'll give you that false argument,
> as you define it. I believe that it is based on holism.
> >
> > Kevin, please take a look at the world out there and see what is
> religious fundamentalism achieving with their arguments of "absolute
> true".
> > Just intollerance. ....
> >
> > So start throwing your bricks.
> > I threw the ones you've put on my hands.
> >
> > Kevin Kunz
> > Evelyn McCormack
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > ----- Original Message ----
> > From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogroup s.com>
> > To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
> > Sent: Tuesday, 9 October, 2007 9:07:29 PM
> > Subject: [Reflexology Community ] I am shocked
> >
> > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> about Personality
> > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> >
> > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> what they are doing for
> > their clientele.
> > That is a law in at least one state.
> >
> > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> who really felt resentful
> > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> upon" with the "latest
> > weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner had just learned.
> >
> > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> a problem with
> > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> attached. They are
> > dangerous.
> >
> > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> stable. They are not necessarily
> > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> simplest thing. Planning
> > with someone's head could backfire.
> >
> > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> Reflexology based on? Where is
> > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> contraindications? What are the safety
> > rules?
> >
> > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that.
> Not only to the clientele
> > but to this profession as well.
> >
> > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> It is a personality
> > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> >
> > So start throwing your bricks.
> >
> > Kevin Kunz
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
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#6354 From: Mauricio Kruchik <innaymauri@...>
Date: Thu Oct 11, 2007 12:37 am
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a bit long
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Dear all,

Thank you Kay for your long and enlightening post. Even if it was double the
size there was still a pleasure to read it.

The last days I felt like being inside the eye of the hurricane. Much water,
troubled water, had flown over a bridge that must unite us as Reflexologists.
Something very strange happened here, it was like an earthquake trying to
destroy every single piece of the great building we Reflexologists have been
building for years.
I agree with Eve, my dearest (may I call you student?) colleague. As you well
said, I also believe in Open-Minded Reflexology.

When you go to a Doctor and you tell him about your health problems, sometimes
he might say: it is all in your head.
You go home, frustrated and impotent and ask yourself: am I nuts or what? Should
I need to go to a Psychiatrist, a Psychologist....?
Our great privilege as Reflexologists is that when our patient comes to our
consultation, we can enjoy one whole hour and dedicate it to him as he needs it.
A busy doctor would certainly dedicate no more than 5 minutes to all his
complaints, write a couple of prescriptions without even looking at his
patient's eyes and scream: NEXT!

Then, after having being touring all the circles of hell, disappointed by what
tradicional medicine hasn't provided to him yet, come to us, Reflexologists, as
the last option, their last helping hand...
And then, we have an unusual and excellent opportunity to provide them:
DEDICATION and UNDERSTANDING.
Modern medicine has made great steps towards a good quality of life who all of
us try to enjoy. But sometimes, it acts like they have the right of stripping
the patient from all his capacity of self healing and from his own
responsibility for his own health. When you go to a doctor, you instintively
think that he is the one who is able to bring you healing, but you never think
that he will help you orientate to your own self healing. And this is only the
beginning of an endless vicious cycle where the patient doesn't know how to
break, and wher it doesn't have the opportunity to know why that he is suffering
this certain illness.

When the patient has come to our consultation, we can talk with him, ask him
questions that his physician has never asked to him. Without giving him answers,
we can help him find his own hints to understand why this is happening to him.
Sometimes it is a problem caused by a germ, a microbe, a bacteria. But how many
times is this illness caused by an attitude our patient has been developing for
years. Should we trigger his awareness? Do we have the right for it? Please show
me the written law where it is explicitly said that we cannot help another
person. We are allowed to use our knowledge and it is much better that we
develop a friendly way of communication, so our patient can trust us and feel
that we want to help him. Many illnesses develop precisely because the person
doesn't know his body and has never listened to him. He has deposited the
responsibility of taking care of it on the hands of somebody else.

I have a rule of iron in my practice, which is in fact just a starting point for
further observation. My patient can tell me a lot of lies and tell me lots of
excuses about his own health, but his feet won't lie to me.
When I close the door of my room, it is just my patient and me. He is my master.
If he wants to talk, I'll let him. If he prefers to keep silence, I'll be
silent. I will never interfere with his decisions. When he feels open enough to
talk and to ask, I will talk and I will answer. Being gentle. Without attacking
or trying to preech over his conscience. I'll try to show him the way to
understand why is he suffering his illness, based on a deep holistic
understanding. I always try to help my patients understand that there is always
a reason for what they are suffering and it can become a great opportunity to
understand from mistakes. As Evelyn well said, without being a judge, without
pointing this is right and this is wrong. I will be there to escort him through
the path of his own truth.

His feet show not only the physical, but also the emotional and the spiritual.
Yes, Kay, I am sure that if we talked like that 400 years ago, we were hanged
from our nails.
Look at Hyppocrates....2500 years ago he said that there are four main fluids
(or humours) flowing through the body: blood, flegm, black bile and yellow bile.
This is why being on a good humour means to be on a good mood. He meant a good
combination of humours is what makes the spirit flow over the body. Hyppocrates!
The father of medicine! Please show me a doctor who talks like that today. He
will be accused to be a charlatan! Hyppocrates theories were the beginning of
medicine and medicine was born as a holistic science. He also described the four
types of character: sanguine for blood, the happy and smiling person, flegmatic
for phlegm, the lethargic and apathic person, the colleric (coln in greek means
bile) to define the guy dominated by yellow bile= anger, and the melancholic
(from greek mellan= black, cholic= bile) dominated by black bile, sad and
depressive.

How many of this holistic approach have we lost through the years? As
Reflexologists, we have a golden opportunity to interpret the whole world
represented by the two feet. The feet explain the physical, the emotional and
the mind, the one that links between them. Reflexology is not only where and
when to press or what is the best technique to use. Reflexology is a whole world
of understanding on the bottom of your body, your feet represent who you are and
why you are like this. They represent your personality, so a whole knowledge of
personality can also be trusted from the enormous well of information that your
feet show.

How curious! The word Personality comes from the ancient Latin: Per Sonare (to
sound, to echoe a voice), a term born in the ancient Roman theatre. Theatres
were open air, in a period in which there were not amplifiers, so they needed
something to boost the volume of their voices. So they used masks, the famous
masks of the Roman theatre. These masks were called PERSONAE, . The PERSONAGE
was the one who carried the mask. The term PERSONALITY has been rooted as the
expression used to define what's beyond our attitudes, the one who carries the
mask.

Many times we are so much into our religion that we forget about God. Many times
we are so much into research that we forget our own intuition and our own
senses.
Research is useful, but intuition and dialog is beautiful. When my little
daughter comes to me crying and complaining of tummy ache every time I have to
fly abroad to deliver a course, I know that she is giving a physical expression
to her frustration and sadness. I don't need a research for that. But if I had
one, I would certainly read it with pleasure.

Now there is a world movement, a great, pleasant one> FREE HUGS, to make you
feel good. Are they allowed to do that? Have they done a Research to test the
effects of a hug? Or are there some other non written elements that make humans
still develop a primitive sense of self help through their own intuition,
collective help and cooperation?
Is there a research made about the effect of love? Why do people get married
then?

Until all the necessary research in this world is complete and done, we,
Reflexologists and loving human beings, still have our intuition and an open
mind to understand the secrets of our own nature.

With great love

Mauricio (Moshe) Kruchik
www.maternityreflexology.net
www.theartofreflexology.com







If you are carrying with you a certain illness, you


Reflexology is one, it is a therapy by own right and we must call ourselves a
profession by own right.




----- Original Message ----
From: kay sainsbury <kay.sainsbury@...>
To: reflexologycommunity@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2007 12:06:00 AM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a bit
long

Dear All
I think we must be open minded. As has been said there are no rights and wrongs,
and even in a discussion like this there is a lot of common ground. There is a
lot going on out there, research, work being done on genetics, physics, healing
modalities and their efficacy that even takes the medical profession to new and
wonderful places so maybe we should too. Personally I wish I had time to read
everything and take everything on board. But I do remember a story once told to
me about some monkeys on different islands and when faced with similar problems
of survival it was shown they all more or less came up with the same solution.
So what is happening in America right now, with the limitations put on
reflexology and the law passed that says you have to become part of the massage
qualification, is yet another step that is required by outside sources to
"legitimise" what we do. It has happened in other places and with time it has
been overcome.

When the use of healing modalities goes up in the UK, you can bet your bottom
dollar that the next day in the broadsheets (the more upmarket papers) there is
an article directed at a so-called intelligent section of the population, which
will demean and lower them. It is quite often reflexology. They used to do it to
chiropractics, osteopaths and acupuncturists, but they are now accepted in their
own right. Unfortunately in all of history there has been a lot of fear borne
through misunderstanding and prejudice. Same here in the UK. Only a few hundred
years ago we (reflexologists) would have all been hung by the neck or drowned as
witches, heretics and the like for doing the work of the devil (and some
religions still believe so...). So we have come a long way already.

In England, where I am from, it is enough that you have studied at a
professional level (and yes, it is a profession) are fully qualified and
insured. We do not need a licence to practice (unless it involves breaking the
skin as in acupuncture) but the most successful practitioners do belong to bona
fide associations who are striving to bring educational standards up to a point
where all professional bodies and their teaching methods are integrated. No-one
should work without insurance. There are still grey areas in this country and
basically any beauty therapist can go on a course and say they are a
reflexologist :( Personally I frown on that, but I long ago gave up my shield
and charger to go and fight the good fight.) I have found through experience
that whilst I am fully booked with a waiting list because my reflexology makes a
difference to people, others, including those who have done a diploma or a
college course (arghhh), get very few return
clients.

The true test of the efficacy of a particular modality is your return clientele.
If what you are doing works and is bringing your clients and referrals from them
back again (I have clients on my books for 5 years plus as new problems surface
for them) surely that is the true test.

I personally also find that people want to know. People are intelligent on the
whole. They have read about other modalities. The most common question I ask is
can you have Reiki while having reflexology. (Though I don't do Reiki) People
are becoming aware that there are other "tools" available to them, especially in
this country when the NHS has failed so many people through waiting times and
ineffective or too many pills. People throughout the world are taking back
control. They are seeking out our services from a desire to be more natural;
they don't want to keep popping pills. They read up things on the internet. They
ask what I can do for them. What does this mean. What does a certain colour
mean. Personally I would feel inadequate as a therapist, remembering i am taking
their money, if I could not answer their questions with at least the basics.

As for me, when I learned reflexology no-one explained to me about how the
body's energy (which is fluid) can fluctuate. Nobody explained to me that as a
therapist I could suffer "transference" . Very shortly after starting out I
would know what the person's problem is when they entered the room because I
felt it in my body. I was open and receiving and was not taught how to block
that and be grounded and ready to give my session clearly. It was only on a
workshop that I was allowed to feel my own body energy (aura) fluctuating and
when I went to a linking workshop, which doubled up with a work shop by Moss
Arnold on meridians, that lots of pennies dropped. We shouldn't even be taught
reflexology without going into body energy, how emotions affect us, and the
transference of energy between two people. In my opinion therefore all these
other modalities should come before traditional reflexology, not afterwards!

To have no fear is very liberating. I have worked with every contraindication
listed in every reflexology book I have found, with 100% success. Not through
stubborn-ness, but because the opportunities came up and I went with the flow.
My fear is that as therapists if we don't go with the flow (of life, and all its
many shapes and colours reflected in the more "holistic" aspects of reflexology,
including what the feet show me at every level not just physical), then we will
become stagnated. Then we become mediocre, and cannot bend with our clients.

The science of reflexology is there for all to study. If you want to be rigid in
its application and that works for you - great. There is so much benefit to be
had. If you want to go beyond the original concept - and there are many who have
and have had a struggle getting their work accepted - then that should be fine
too. Then it becomes an art.

Give a little in your practice .... the rewards are indescribable.
With love

----- Original Message -----
From: Evelyn McCormack
To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Wednesday, October 10, 2007 4:24 PM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too

Dear Kevin,

I read your post and couldn't agree with you more.

Reflexology will never die, it is only growing and despite all the people out
there trying to damage our reputation and our PROFESSION, nothing but human
warmth with a healing and loving spirit would be able to substitute us for
machines or electrodes.

No machine will be able never to substitute the warmth of a hug, a human hug. No
lawyer and no journalist will be able never to destroy people's hearts.
Reflexology is stepping forward, I am glad that Moshe brought all those
outstanding news from Australia. I was so happy yesterday when I read his
post!!! Everyone of us should cheer what's happening now with Reflexology.

I've learnt on your books. When my youngest son was a newborn, somebody handed
me The Complete Parents' guide to Reflexology.

I am afraid of those Reflexologists who claim having founded Reflexology and try
to seed on the ignorance of other people with no more backup than a monetary and
commercial objective. There is a very famous Reflexologist out there who claims
having that credit....of having founded Reflexology. Not you. I am afraid of
those Reflexologists who invent stories, lie or steal techniques from other
people and immediately create and make a trademark with a bombastic name as if
it was their invention or discovery. I am afraid of these people's low level of
ethics, so low that they will never be able to understand what the word ethics
mean. I know who am I talking about.

Therefore, I had a problem in matching the same person whose books I read with
passion and seeded so much for the welfare of Reflexology as you did with the
person who attacked without a reason other sources of knowledge that YES can
enrich Reflexology as a Therapy.

Best wishes

Lov,

Eve

----- Original Message ----
From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogroup s.com>
To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Wednesday, 10 October, 2007 4:41:30 PM
Subject: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too

I started this and I don't want to continue a flame war on this group. So after
a good
night's sleep let me tell you what is bothering me.

We are not a profession.. . yet. We may have the trimming and look the part but
we are still
in infancy. Why do I say that?

1) We hire a sociologist 27 years ago to help us figure out how to help
reflexology
become a profession. Her major point was to become a profession you need a
systematic
body of knowledge. If you don't you have a weak profession which usually has
little
prestige and low pay.

2) That same year we published The Complete Guide to Foot Reflexology. It was
one of the
hardest struggle Barbara and I ever faced. But we felt compelled to do since
even during
the brief time we saw the field changing. And the field of reflexology was yet
to be
documented. It was all verbal tradition.

Publishing that book wasn't something I wanted to do because coming from an
academic
family. I never what was involved and the sacrifice it meant. But it was worse.

No publisher would take us so we had to self publish until Prentice Hall saw the
popularity
of reflexology and "found" us. they can originally returned "our baby" unopened.

But we had at least documented this traditional healing modality. And what ever
happens
to change the field there is a record.

3) The hard part was naming techniques and defining things that hadn't really
been
defined before. Issues went on for weeks and at times months. "Holding hand" and
"working hand" was a real struggle. Whether to use the traditional description
of
techniques such as "thumb walking" became a major debate..

And then trying to describe the techniques was mind boggling. Barbara was really
the
brains behind this. Instead of 28 different techniques she simplified them into
three
techniques plus desserts. It was a revolution. Suddenly more people could do
reflexology
because it had been simplified.

4) And then just as we put out Hand and Foot Reflexology: A Self Help Guide we
were put
out of business in the city of Albuquerque. We weren't qualified to practice
reflexology
because we didn't have a massage license. We would have had to gone to a local
massage
school to take training in our own book to be qualified.

It took 5 very long years to reverse that decision. Then only a couple of years
later it was
attempted again. It took us 31 meeting to get an exemption from the massage law.

The definition was absolutely critical. It had to put us outside the massage law
and not
infringe on other professions.

So want is the point of all this. You won't get rich being a writer but you will
preserve
something even if it is only a little piece. And you will help generations to
come.

Labeling and defining your practices is absolutely critical. There is no real
room for error.

And don't look to me if you can't come up with a name for this what -do -you
-call it field.
That's you job.

And yes I am concern about the impact of each and every little addition to the
field of
reflexology. I feel we have earned the right to challenge the additions to this
field and
push the inventors to document the efficacy, safety and mechanism of action as
well as
the origin of what they are proposing.

I am concerned that we may not exist as "reflexologists" in the next few years,
There are
people out there testing reflexology for the neurotransmitters involved. There
are real
time ECG's and EKG's tests going on to measure heart rate function and
brain-waves. Will
we be obsolete before too long because we failed to become a systematic body of
knowledge.

And I am concerned about the latest fad. Strong professions have peer review to
guard
against the latest fad. We don't. And so the what-do-call- it field is a danger.

Our fight has never ended. And it will never end if you love this craft as
passionately we
are.

So if you really believe this is a necessary and important addition to the field
of reflexology
be ready to defend it and don't think we won't notice if it is being slipped in
through the
back door.

Until we all embrace our systematic body of knowledge and all become builders in
that
body of knowledge we are still infants and easy prey to those who see the
potential of
reflexology monetarily without the heart we all have.

Kevin Kunz

BTW Barbara and I had never been writes before The Complete Guide to Foot
Reflexology.
Barbara learned to illustrate to do that book. And the best part is we had no
money. But
that is another story.

--- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, learnecm <no_reply@.. .> wrote:
>
>
>
> Hello Evelyn,
>
> After many hours of thinking on your reply to Kevin as well as how I
> replied back to you. I must admit I seemed to myself a tad harsh.
>
> But, after a good night's sleep and again thinking more about your
> posting, I decided to FINISH what I started to say on the last
> posting.
>
> Before I get too upset at you wanting to TREAT PATIENTS I should have
> asked where you received YOUR medical degree. Maybe you are an MD.
> I hae met some wholistic practitioners who are. And some who
> actually promote Reflexology. For example Doctor Susa Wong MD on
> Aboutus.com as well as many who have co published bookds on
> reflexology. So that was unfair of me to assume you were not a
> medical doctor. If you are, my apologies, you do have the RIGHT to
> prescribe, diagnose and treat for specific conditions, however
> looking at the ethical side of things, even medical doctors should
> not claim to cure everyone they meet.
>
> One more note on the fact that you feel your "patients", should not
> have to told what you are doing and that they come to you with trust
> and assurance that'whatever' you do is OK and acceptable . . .
> If a medical doctor tells you that a certain course of treatment is
> OK and that you should take this little pink pill and you will feel
> better - what would you do????? I always question my medical
> doctor, research the treatment (ask questions) before making an
> informed decision about my treatment. Don't you?
> If a doctor tells a person, you will need to remove the limb. Don't
> you want more information before undergoing such radical treatment?
> I would want to know a heck of lot more about the surgery and if
> something else could be done and about whether the one practicing
> (the surgeon in this case) is skilled at what he/she does, not to
> mention if they are ethical in their beliefs.
> This example is REAL diabetics all over the world are told that
> because of foot ulcers they need to "remove the limb" yet in medical
> facilities around the world the medical community is using hyperberic
> chambers to treat diabetics and "saving their limbs" Wow. The ones
> that get this treatment had to SEARCH for it and let the WORLD know
> it is out there. Just like You and I - we need to let everyone know
> what REFLEXLOGY is. Don't cloud it with our own slant on things some
> do. Keep it Pure and if you want to "include" other ideals in your
> treatment of clients, or "patients" do so as not to risk the
> physical, mental, OR moral well being of the ones you so dearly want
> to help and love.
>
> Please understand this is not a personal attack on anyone, just how I
> so deeply believe. We do live in a democratic contry - at least I
> do, and freedom of belief and speech should never besquashed. But as
> a medical doctor does have limitations so are all of us.
>
> I have much more I would like to say, but I will stop here.
>
> Take care and let's live, love and learn,
>
> Deb
>
> --- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, Evelyn McCormack
> <evelyn10267@ > wrote:
> >
> > Dear Kevin,
> >
> > Reading your words, I felt shocked too.
> > I feel compelled to answer to your text.
> >
> > I'll insert my answers between your lines.
> >
> > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> about Personality
> > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> >
> > I agree, all of them were very intelligent.
> >
> > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> what they are doing for
> > their clientele. Labeling is not a matter of choice it is a
> requirement for the protection of
> > the consumer.Deeper than the legal question to me is the ethical
> question. Is client fully and fairly
> > informed as to the nature of the services?That is a law in at least
> one state.
> >
> > I have patients, perhaps you have a clientele.. I have never
> considered my patients as "clients", because I am a Therapist. Have
> you ever heard a Doctor in Medicine talk about his clientele? I'd
> never go to one who speaks like that. Is it perhaps a cultural
> difference between you and me? I was born and grew up in Austria, I
> live now in the UK. I have never heard a practitioner talk about his
> or her "clientele" but about his or her patients. Perhaps terms can
> be different from place to place..
> >
> > I see not ethical question at all. Nobody is hiding anything from
> my patients. People who have given me the privilege of their
> confidence and trust must be respected. I don't provide a "service to
> my clients", I provide a treatment to my patient.
> >
> >
> > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> who really felt resentful
> > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> upon" with the "latest weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner
> had just learned.
> >
> > Who better than you know that there are many kinds of
> practitioners? Does it surprise you? Because of one your friend met
> you are putting an entire group inside the same sac? Come on, Kevin,
> there are good and responsible and there are unprofessional and
> charlatans everywhere. With a wide range of variants in the middle.
> >
> > As a matter of fact, haven't you ever heard a respectable Doctor of
> Medicine who experiments upon his patient with the latest article he
> has read or the latest word in equipment he has purchased?
> >
> > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> a problem with
> > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> attached. They are
> > dangerous.
> >
> > Who told you that we give personality assessments? This affirmation
> shows your total ignorance of the subject you are talking about and
> attacking without knowledge!!
> >
> > You talk about research but you haven't asked questions about how
> exactly do we apply our knowledge to Reflexology. You attack, attack
> and attack without giving others the opportunity to explain what is
> all about.
> >
> > I invite you to attend one of Avi Grrenberg or Moshce Kruchik
> seminars and perhaps you can have an idea of what do they teach and
> why have they become so famous and respected in the world of
> Reflexology. ..
> >
> > As for dangerous, I feel that it is more dangerous to me the person
> who fancies himself of knowing about something that he really
> doesn't, underestimating the real knowledge and skills of those who
> do.
> >
> > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> stable. They are not necessarily
> > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> simplest thing. Planning
> > with someone's head could backfire.
> >
> > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> Reflexology based on? Where is
> > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> contraindications? What are the safety
> > rules?
> >
> > Nobody will be able to answer the question by the simple fact that
> nobody before has talked about Personality Reflexology. Only you. You
> are the first who talked about Personality Reflexology, so I invite
> you to explain to all the members of this respectable forum what is
> that exactly.
> >
> > You are the first one who use this combination of terms. And if you
> ask my opinion, it is wrong. I don't need labels for everything as
> if Reflexology was comparable to a bottle of whisky....
> >
> > Reflexology is a Therapy based on a theory and we, Reflexologists
> around the world are trying to demonstrate that our theory is valid,
> to understand more and more how does it work and how deep it can
> get.
> >
> > Fortunately, Reflexology has many facets, not only one. Reflexology
> has many sources of knowledge, not only one based on
> suppositions. ...What kind of contraindications can have a good word,
> a good dialog with your patient, a good advice given on time....?
> What are you talking about......?
> >
> > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that..
> Not only to the clientele
> > but to this profession as well.
> >
> > Fortunately, not all the Reflexologists think like you do.
> >
> > More and more of us around the world are introducing to the
> practice of Reflexology what you consider dangerous. People like Avi,
> Chris or Moshe are not teaching us the way to criminality. The three
> of them are lovely people who devoted themselves to Reflexology and
> on the contrary, they have made and they are making a great
> contribution to Reflexology with the knowledge they have. If you
> suggest that what they teach is dangerous, so poor we.....! I should
> be a dangerous Therapist too.
> >
> > It's a pity that you didn't get properly assessed before you stated
> such an offence.. With such a statement, you are seriously offending
> the dignity of lots of Reflexologists around the world.
> >
> > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> It is a personality
> > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> >
> > I'll disappoint you once again. I'll give you that false argument,
> as you define it. I believe that it is based on holism.
> >
> > Kevin, please take a look at the world out there and see what is
> religious fundamentalism achieving with their arguments of "absolute
> true".
> > Just intollerance. ....
> >
> > So start throwing your bricks.
> > I threw the ones you've put on my hands.
> >
> > Kevin Kunz
> > Evelyn McCormack
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > ----- Original Message ----
> > From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogrou p s.com>
> > To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
> > Sent: Tuesday, 9 October, 2007 9:07:29 PM
> > Subject: [Reflexology Community ] I am shocked
> >
> > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> about Personality
> > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> >
> > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> what they are doing for
> > their clientele.
> > That is a law in at least one state.
> >
> > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> who really felt resentful
> > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> upon" with the "latest
> > weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner had just learned.
> >
> > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> a problem with
> > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> attached. They are
> > dangerous.
> >
> > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> stable. They are not necessarily
> > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> simplest thing. Planning
> > with someone's head could backfire.
> >
> > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> Reflexology based on? Where is
> > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> contraindications? What are the safety
> > rules?
> >
> > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that.
> Not only to the clientele
> > but to this profession as well.
> >
> > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> It is a personality
> > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> >
> > So start throwing your bricks.
> >
> > Kevin Kunz
> >
> >
> >
> >
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#6363 From: footc1
Date: Thu Oct 11, 2007 3:06 pm
Subject: Re: Moshe
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Actually Moshe they have done research on hugs. In fact, they have done research
on
several forms of touch including massage and reflexology.

I gather from your post that whatever- you- are- calling it therapy comes from
intuition.
That is fine. It is honest. It comes from personal empirical experience.

I am writing a blog on Phrenology or reading bumps on the head. If you look at
the history
of reading bumps on the head one startling fact emerges. Phrenology lead to
modern
psychology.

The reason was actually quite simple. It was the first time that localization of
the brain was
embraced as a concept. That lead to great reforms in prisons (they no longer
beat
prisoners to drive the devil out), education, and several other areas. The irony
was that the
Phrenologists reject their own theory of reading bumps on the head even though
phrenology remained wildly popular for years to come.

Now I am not comparing what you do with phrenology so much as saying there may
be a
Behavioral Reflexology on the way. I can see that just as we have seen patterns
on the
physical there are mental patterns as well.

You and other like you then become a school of thought. I am much more
comfortable
with that. I would not even think it would be a problem to call yourself
Intuitive
Reflexology.

Years ago Barbara and I came to the conclusion that reflexology is an archetype
that has
been rediscovered over and over again throughout history and across cultures
that never
had contact. there are thousands of footwork systems that were created. Most are
lost.
Some were intuitive.

We decided that the real problem became quite simply how could you study various
footwork system without taking on their "baggage". We developed a Footwork
Categorization System. There were systems that focused on body, mind and spirit
systems.

The idea is like the library cataloging system. It wasn't to judge footwork
systems. It was
to locate and study them.

Moshe, don't be afraid of research. At this point it is being our friend and
validating a lot
of what we have to say.

And don't fear labeling either. Labels can be helpful and provide focus.

Kevin Kunz




--- In reflexologycommunity@yahoogroups.com, Mauricio Kruchik <innaymauri@...>
wrote:
>
> Dear all,
>
> Thank you Kay for your long and enlightening post. Even if it was double the
size there
was still a pleasure to read it.
>
> The last days I felt like being inside the eye of the hurricane. Much water,
troubled
water, had flown over a bridge that must unite us as Reflexologists.
> Something very strange happened here, it was like an earthquake trying to
destroy every
single piece of the great building we Reflexologists have been building for
years.
> I agree with Eve, my dearest (may I call you student?) colleague. As you well
said, I also
believe in Open-Minded Reflexology.
>
> When you go to a Doctor and you tell him about your health problems, sometimes
he
might say: it is all in your head.
> You go home, frustrated and impotent and ask yourself: am I nuts or what?
Should I
need to go to a Psychiatrist, a Psychologist....?
> Our great privilege as Reflexologists is that when our patient comes to our
consultation,
we can enjoy one whole hour and dedicate it to him as he needs it.
> A busy doctor would certainly dedicate no more than 5 minutes to all his
complaints,
write a couple of prescriptions without even looking at his patient's eyes and
scream:
NEXT!
>
> Then, after having being touring all the circles of hell, disappointed by what
tradicional
medicine hasn't provided to him yet, come to us, Reflexologists, as the last
option, their
last helping hand...
> And then, we have an unusual and excellent opportunity to provide them:
DEDICATION
and UNDERSTANDING.
> Modern medicine has made great steps towards a good quality of life who all of
us try to
enjoy. But sometimes, it acts like they have the right of stripping the patient
from all his
capacity of self healing and from his own responsibility for his own health.
When you go to
a doctor, you instintively think that he is the one who is able to bring you
healing, but you
never think that he will help you orientate to your own self healing. And this
is only the
beginning of an endless vicious cycle where the patient doesn't know how to
break, and
wher it doesn't have the opportunity to know why that he is suffering this
certain illness.
>
> When the patient has come to our consultation, we can talk with him, ask him
questions
that his physician has never asked to him. Without giving him answers, we can
help him
find his own hints to understand why this is happening to him. Sometimes it is a
problem
caused by a germ, a microbe, a bacteria. But how many times is this illness
caused by an
attitude our patient has been developing for years. Should we trigger his
awareness? Do
we have the right for it? Please show me the written law where it is explicitly
said that we
cannot help another person. We are allowed to use our knowledge and it is much
better
that we develop a friendly way of communication, so our patient can trust us and
feel that
we want to help him. Many illnesses develop precisely because the person doesn't
know
his body and has never listened to him. He has deposited the responsibility of
taking care
of it on the hands of somebody else.
>
> I have a rule of iron in my practice, which is in fact just a starting point
for further
observation. My patient can tell me a lot of lies and tell me lots of excuses
about his own
health, but his feet won't lie to me.
> When I close the door of my room, it is just my patient and me. He is my
master. If he
wants to talk, I'll let him. If he prefers to keep silence, I'll be silent. I
will never interfere
with his decisions. When he feels open enough to talk and to ask, I will talk
and I will
answer. Being gentle. Without attacking or trying to preech over his conscience.
I'll try to
show him the way to understand why is he suffering his illness, based on a deep
holistic
understanding. I always try to help my patients understand that there is always
a reason
for what they are suffering and it can become a great opportunity to understand
from
mistakes. As Evelyn well said, without being a judge, without pointing this is
right and this
is wrong. I will be there to escort him through the path of his own truth.
>
> His feet show not only the physical, but also the emotional and the spiritual.
Yes, Kay, I
am sure that if we talked like that 400 years ago, we were hanged from our
nails.
> Look at Hyppocrates....2500 years ago he said that there are four main fluids
(or
humours) flowing through the body: blood, flegm, black bile and yellow bile.
This is why
being on a good humour means to be on a good mood. He meant a good combination
of
humours is what makes the spirit flow over the body. Hyppocrates! The father of
medicine!
Please show me a doctor who talks like that today. He will be accused to be a
charlatan!
Hyppocrates theories were the beginning of medicine and medicine was born as a
holistic
science. He also described the four types of character: sanguine for blood, the
happy and
smiling person, flegmatic for phlegm, the lethargic and apathic person, the
colleric (coln in
greek means bile) to define the guy dominated by yellow bile= anger, and the
melancholic
(from greek mellan= black, cholic= bile) dominated by black bile, sad and
depressive.
>
> How many of this holistic approach have we lost through the years? As
Reflexologists,
we have a golden opportunity to interpret the whole world represented by the two
feet.
The feet explain the physical, the emotional and the mind, the one that links
between
them. Reflexology is not only where and when to press or what is the best
technique to
use. Reflexology is a whole world of understanding on the bottom of your body,
your feet
represent who you are and why you are like this. They represent your
personality, so a
whole knowledge of personality can also be trusted from the enormous well of
information
that your feet show.
>
> How curious! The word Personality comes from the ancient Latin: Per Sonare (to
sound,
to echoe a voice), a term born in the ancient Roman theatre. Theatres were open
air, in a
period in which there were not amplifiers, so they needed something to boost the
volume
of their voices. So they used masks, the famous masks of the Roman theatre.
These masks
were called PERSONAE, . The PERSONAGE was the one who carried the mask. The term
PERSONALITY has been rooted as the expression used to define what's beyond our
attitudes, the one who carries the mask.
>
> Many times we are so much into our religion that we forget about God. Many
times we
are so much into research that we forget our own intuition and our own senses.
> Research is useful, but intuition and dialog is beautiful. When my little
daughter comes
to me crying and complaining of tummy ache every time I have to fly abroad to
deliver a
course, I know that she is giving a physical expression to her frustration and
sadness. I
don't need a research for that. But if I had one, I would certainly read it with
pleasure.
>
> Now there is a world movement, a great, pleasant one> FREE HUGS, to make you
feel
good. Are they allowed to do that? Have they done a Research to test the effects
of a hug?
Or are there some other non written elements that make humans still develop a
primitive
sense of self help through their own intuition, collective help and cooperation?
> Is there a research made about the effect of love? Why do people get married
then?
>
> Until all the necessary research in this world is complete and done, we,
Reflexologists
and loving human beings, still have our intuition and an open mind to understand
the
secrets of our own nature.
>
> With great love
>
> Mauricio (Moshe) Kruchik
> www.maternityreflexology.net
> www.theartofreflexology.com
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> If you are carrying with you a certain illness, you
>
>
> Reflexology is one, it is a therapy by own right and we must call ourselves a
profession
by own right.
>
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message ----
> From: kay sainsbury <kay.sainsbury@...>
> To: reflexologycommunity@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2007 12:06:00 AM
> Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a
bit long
>
> Dear All
> I think we must be open minded. As has been said there are no rights and
wrongs, and
even in a discussion like this there is a lot of common ground. There is a lot
going on out
there, research, work being done on genetics, physics, healing modalities and
their
efficacy that even takes the medical profession to new and wonderful places so
maybe we
should too. Personally I wish I had time to read everything and take everything
on board.
But I do remember a story once told to me about some monkeys on different
islands and
when faced with similar problems of survival it was shown they all more or less
came up
with the same solution. So what is happening in America right now, with the
limitations
put on reflexology and the law passed that says you have to become part of the
massage
qualification, is yet another step that is required by outside sources to
"legitimise" what we
do. It has happened in other places and with time it has been overcome.
>
> When the use of healing modalities goes up in the UK, you can bet your bottom
dollar
that the next day in the broadsheets (the more upmarket papers) there is an
article
directed at a so-called intelligent section of the population, which will demean
and lower
them. It is quite often reflexology. They used to do it to chiropractics,
osteopaths and
acupuncturists, but they are now accepted in their own right. Unfortunately in
all of history
there has been a lot of fear borne through misunderstanding and prejudice. Same
here in
the UK. Only a few hundred years ago we (reflexologists) would have all been
hung by the
neck or drowned as witches, heretics and the like for doing the work of the
devil (and
some religions still believe so...). So we have come a long way already.
>
> In England, where I am from, it is enough that you have studied at a
professional level
(and yes, it is a profession) are fully qualified and insured. We do not need a
licence to
practice (unless it involves breaking the skin as in acupuncture) but the most
successful
practitioners do belong to bona fide associations who are striving to bring
educational
standards up to a point where all professional bodies and their teaching methods
are
integrated. No-one should work without insurance. There are still grey areas in
this
country and basically any beauty therapist can go on a course and say they are a
reflexologist :( Personally I frown on that, but I long ago gave up my shield
and charger to
go and fight the good fight.) I have found through experience that whilst I am
fully booked
with a waiting list because my reflexology makes a difference to people, others,
including
those who have done a diploma or a college course (arghhh), get very few return
> clients.
>
> The true test of the efficacy of a particular modality is your return
clientele. If what you
are doing works and is bringing your clients and referrals from them back again
(I have
clients on my books for 5 years plus as new problems surface for them) surely
that is the
true test.
>
> I personally also find that people want to know. People are intelligent on the
whole.
They have read about other modalities. The most common question I ask is can you
have
Reiki while having reflexology. (Though I don't do Reiki) People are becoming
aware that
there are other "tools" available to them, especially in this country when the
NHS has failed
so many people through waiting times and ineffective or too many pills. People
throughout
the world are taking back control. They are seeking out our services from a
desire to be
more natural; they don't want to keep popping pills. They read up things on the
internet.
They ask what I can do for them. What does this mean. What does a certain colour
mean.
Personally I would feel inadequate as a therapist, remembering i am taking their
money, if
I could not answer their questions with at least the basics.
>
> As for me, when I learned reflexology no-one explained to me about how the
body's
energy (which is fluid) can fluctuate. Nobody explained to me that as a
therapist I could
suffer "transference" . Very shortly after starting out I would know what the
person's
problem is when they entered the room because I felt it in my body. I was open
and
receiving and was not taught how to block that and be grounded and ready to give
my
session clearly. It was only on a workshop that I was allowed to feel my own
body energy
(aura) fluctuating and when I went to a linking workshop, which doubled up with
a work
shop by Moss Arnold on meridians, that lots of pennies dropped. We shouldn't
even be
taught reflexology without going into body energy, how emotions affect us, and
the
transference of energy between two people. In my opinion therefore all these
other
modalities should come before traditional reflexology, not afterwards!
>
> To have no fear is very liberating. I have worked with every contraindication
listed in
every reflexology book I have found, with 100% success. Not through
stubborn-ness, but
because the opportunities came up and I went with the flow. My fear is that as
therapists if
we don't go with the flow (of life, and all its many shapes and colours
reflected in the more
"holistic" aspects of reflexology, including what the feet show me at every
level not just
physical), then we will become stagnated. Then we become mediocre, and cannot
bend
with our clients.
>
> The science of reflexology is there for all to study. If you want to be rigid
in its
application and that works for you - great. There is so much benefit to be had.
If you want
to go beyond the original concept - and there are many who have and have had a
struggle
getting their work accepted - then that should be fine too. Then it becomes an
art.
>
> Give a little in your practice .... the rewards are indescribable.
> With love
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Evelyn McCormack
> To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
> Sent: Wednesday, October 10, 2007 4:24 PM
> Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too
>
> Dear Kevin,
>
> I read your post and couldn't agree with you more.
>
> Reflexology will never die, it is only growing and despite all the people out
there trying
to damage our reputation and our PROFESSION, nothing but human warmth with a
healing
and loving spirit would be able to substitute us for machines or electrodes.
>
> No machine will be able never to substitute the warmth of a hug, a human hug.
No
lawyer and no journalist will be able never to destroy people's hearts.
Reflexology is
stepping forward, I am glad that Moshe brought all those outstanding news from
Australia. I was so happy yesterday when I read his post!!! Everyone of us
should cheer
what's happening now with Reflexology.
>
> I've learnt on your books. When my youngest son was a newborn, somebody handed
me
The Complete Parents' guide to Reflexology.
>
> I am afraid of those Reflexologists who claim having founded Reflexology and
try to
seed on the ignorance of other people with no more backup than a monetary and
commercial objective. There is a very famous Reflexologist out there who claims
having
that credit....of having founded Reflexology. Not you. I am afraid of those
Reflexologists
who invent stories, lie or steal techniques from other people and immediately
create and
make a trademark with a bombastic name as if it was their invention or
discovery. I am
afraid of these people's low level of ethics, so low that they will never be
able to
understand what the word ethics mean. I know who am I talking about.
>
> Therefore, I had a problem in matching the same person whose books I read with
passion and seeded so much for the welfare of Reflexology as you did with the
person who
attacked without a reason other sources of knowledge that YES can enrich
Reflexology as a
Therapy.
>
> Best wishes
>
> Lov,
>
> Eve
>
> ----- Original Message ----
> From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogroup s.com>
> To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
> Sent: Wednesday, 10 October, 2007 4:41:30 PM
> Subject: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too
>
> I started this and I don't want to continue a flame war on this group. So
after a good
> night's sleep let me tell you what is bothering me.
>
> We are not a profession.. . yet. We may have the trimming and look the part
but we are
still
> in infancy. Why do I say that?
>
> 1) We hire a sociologist 27 years ago to help us figure out how to help
reflexology
> become a profession. Her major point was to become a profession you need a
systematic
> body of knowledge. If you don't you have a weak profession which usually has
little
> prestige and low pay.
>
> 2) That same year we published The Complete Guide to Foot Reflexology. It was
one of
the
> hardest struggle Barbara and I ever faced. But we felt compelled to do since
even during
> the brief time we saw the field changing. And the field of reflexology was yet
to be
> documented. It was all verbal tradition.
>
> Publishing that book wasn't something I wanted to do because coming from an
academic
> family. I never what was involved and the sacrifice it meant. But it was
worse.
>
> No publisher would take us so we had to self publish until Prentice Hall saw
the
popularity
> of reflexology and "found" us. they can originally returned "our baby"
unopened.
>
> But we had at least documented this traditional healing modality. And what
ever
happens
> to change the field there is a record.
>
> 3) The hard part was naming techniques and defining things that hadn't really
been
> defined before. Issues went on for weeks and at times months. "Holding hand"
and
> "working hand" was a real struggle. Whether to use the traditional description
of
> techniques such as "thumb walking" became a major debate..
>
> And then trying to describe the techniques was mind boggling. Barbara was
really the
> brains behind this. Instead of 28 different techniques she simplified them
into three
> techniques plus desserts. It was a revolution. Suddenly more people could do
reflexology
> because it had been simplified.
>
> 4) And then just as we put out Hand and Foot Reflexology: A Self Help Guide we
were
put
> out of business in the city of Albuquerque. We weren't qualified to practice
reflexology
> because we didn't have a massage license. We would have had to gone to a local
massage
> school to take training in our own book to be qualified.
>
> It took 5 very long years to reverse that decision. Then only a couple of
years later it was
> attempted again. It took us 31 meeting to get an exemption from the massage
law.
>
> The definition was absolutely critical. It had to put us outside the massage
law and not
> infringe on other professions.
>
> So want is the point of all this. You won't get rich being a writer but you
will preserve
> something even if it is only a little piece. And you will help generations to
come.
>
> Labeling and defining your practices is absolutely critical. There is no real
room for
error.
>
> And don't look to me if you can't come up with a name for this what -do -you
-call it
field.
> That's you job.
>
> And yes I am concern about the impact of each and every little addition to the
field of
> reflexology. I feel we have earned the right to challenge the additions to
this field and
> push the inventors to document the efficacy, safety and mechanism of action as
well as
> the origin of what they are proposing.
>
> I am concerned that we may not exist as "reflexologists" in the next few
years, There are
> people out there testing reflexology for the neurotransmitters involved. There
are real
> time ECG's and EKG's tests going on to measure heart rate function and
brain-waves.
Will
> we be obsolete before too long because we failed to become a systematic body
of
> knowledge.
>
> And I am concerned about the latest fad. Strong professions have peer review
to guard
> against the latest fad. We don't. And so the what-do-call- it field is a
danger.
>
> Our fight has never ended. And it will never end if you love this craft as
passionately we
> are.
>
> So if you really believe this is a necessary and important addition to the
field of
reflexology
> be ready to defend it and don't think we won't notice if it is being slipped
in through the
> back door.
>
> Until we all embrace our systematic body of knowledge and all become builders
in that
> body of knowledge we are still infants and easy prey to those who see the
potential of
> reflexology monetarily without the heart we all have.
>
> Kevin Kunz
>
> BTW Barbara and I had never been writes before The Complete Guide to Foot
Reflexology.
> Barbara learned to illustrate to do that book. And the best part is we had no
money. But
> that is another story.
>
> --- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, learnecm <no_reply@ .> wrote:
> >
> >
> >
> > Hello Evelyn,
> >
> > After many hours of thinking on your reply to Kevin as well as how I
> > replied back to you. I must admit I seemed to myself a tad harsh.
> >
> > But, after a good night's sleep and again thinking more about your
> > posting, I decided to FINISH what I started to say on the last
> > posting.
> >
> > Before I get too upset at you wanting to TREAT PATIENTS I should have
> > asked where you received YOUR medical degree. Maybe you are an MD.
> > I hae met some wholistic practitioners who are. And some who
> > actually promote Reflexology. For example Doctor Susa Wong MD on
> > Aboutus.com as well as many who have co published bookds on
> > reflexology. So that was unfair of me to assume you were not a
> > medical doctor. If you are, my apologies, you do have the RIGHT to
> > prescribe, diagnose and treat for specific conditions, however
> > looking at the ethical side of things, even medical doctors should
> > not claim to cure everyone they meet.
> >
> > One more note on the fact that you feel your "patients", should not
> > have to told what you are doing and that they come to you with trust
> > and assurance that'whatever' you do is OK and acceptable . . .
> > If a medical doctor tells you that a certain course of treatment is
> > OK and that you should take this little pink pill and you will feel
> > better - what would you do????? I always question my medical
> > doctor, research the treatment (ask questions) before making an
> > informed decision about my treatment. Don't you?
> > If a doctor tells a person, you will need to remove the limb. Don't
> > you want more information before undergoing such radical treatment?
> > I would want to know a heck of lot more about the surgery and if
> > something else could be done and about whether the one practicing
> > (the surgeon in this case) is skilled at what he/she does, not to
> > mention if they are ethical in their beliefs.
> > This example is REAL diabetics all over the world are told that
> > because of foot ulcers they need to "remove the limb" yet in medical
> > facilities around the world the medical community is using hyperberic
> > chambers to treat diabetics and "saving their limbs" Wow. The ones
> > that get this treatment had to SEARCH for it and let the WORLD know
> > it is out there. Just like You and I - we need to let everyone know
> > what REFLEXLOGY is. Don't cloud it with our own slant on things some
> > do. Keep it Pure and if you want to "include" other ideals in your
> > treatment of clients, or "patients" do so as not to risk the
> > physical, mental, OR moral well being of the ones you so dearly want
> > to help and love.
> >
> > Please understand this is not a personal attack on anyone, just how I
> > so deeply believe. We do live in a democratic contry - at least I
> > do, and freedom of belief and speech should never besquashed. But as
> > a medical doctor does have limitations so are all of us.
> >
> > I have much more I would like to say, but I will stop here.
> >
> > Take care and let's live, love and learn,
> >
> > Deb
> >
> > --- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, Evelyn McCormack
> > <evelyn10267@ > wrote:
> > >
> > > Dear Kevin,
> > >
> > > Reading your words, I felt shocked too.
> > > I feel compelled to answer to your text.
> > >
> > > I'll insert my answers between your lines.
> > >
> > > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> > about Personality
> > > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> > >
> > > I agree, all of them were very intelligent.
> > >
> > > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> > what they are doing for
> > > their clientele. Labeling is not a matter of choice it is a
> > requirement for the protection of
> > > the consumer.Deeper than the legal question to me is the ethical
> > question. Is client fully and fairly
> > > informed as to the nature of the services?That is a law in at least
> > one state.
> > >
> > > I have patients, perhaps you have a clientele.. I have never
> > considered my patients as "clients", because I am a Therapist. Have
> > you ever heard a Doctor in Medicine talk about his clientele? I'd
> > never go to one who speaks like that. Is it perhaps a cultural
> > difference between you and me? I was born and grew up in Austria, I
> > live now in the UK. I have never heard a practitioner talk about his
> > or her "clientele" but about his or her patients. Perhaps terms can
> > be different from place to place..
> > >
> > > I see not ethical question at all. Nobody is hiding anything from
> > my patients. People who have given me the privilege of their
> > confidence and trust must be respected. I don't provide a "service to
> > my clients", I provide a treatment to my patient.
> > >
> > >
> > > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> > who really felt resentful
> > > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> > upon" with the "latest weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner
> > had just learned.
> > >
> > > Who better than you know that there are many kinds of
> > practitioners? Does it surprise you? Because of one your friend met
> > you are putting an entire group inside the same sac? Come on, Kevin,
> > there are good and responsible and there are unprofessional and
> > charlatans everywhere. With a wide range of variants in the middle.
> > >
> > > As a matter of fact, haven't you ever heard a respectable Doctor of
> > Medicine who experiments upon his patient with the latest article he
> > has read or the latest word in equipment he has purchased?
> > >
> > > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> > a problem with
> > > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> > attached. They are
> > > dangerous.
> > >
> > > Who told you that we give personality assessments? This affirmation
> > shows your total ignorance of the subject you are talking about and
> > attacking without knowledge!!
> > >
> > > You talk about research but you haven't asked questions about how
> > exactly do we apply our knowledge to Reflexology. You attack, attack
> > and attack without giving others the opportunity to explain what is
> > all about.
> > >
> > > I invite you to attend one of Avi Grrenberg or Moshce Kruchik
> > seminars and perhaps you can have an idea of what do they teach and
> > why have they become so famous and respected in the world of
> > Reflexology. ..
> > >
> > > As for dangerous, I feel that it is more dangerous to me the person
> > who fancies himself of knowing about something that he really
> > doesn't, underestimating the real knowledge and skills of those who
> > do.
> > >
> > > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> > stable. They are not necessarily
> > > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> > simplest thing. Planning
> > > with someone's head could backfire.
> > >
> > > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> > Reflexology based on? Where is
> > > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> > contraindications? What are the safety
> > > rules?
> > >
> > > Nobody will be able to answer the question by the simple fact that
> > nobody before has talked about Personality Reflexology. Only you. You
> > are the first who talked about Personality Reflexology, so I invite
> > you to explain to all the members of this respectable forum what is
> > that exactly.
> > >
> > > You are the first one who use this combination of terms. And if you
> > ask my opinion, it is wrong. I don't need labels for everything as
> > if Reflexology was comparable to a bottle of whisky....
> > >
> > > Reflexology is a Therapy based on a theory and we, Reflexologists
> > around the world are trying to demonstrate that our theory is valid,
> > to understand more and more how does it work and how deep it can
> > get.
> > >
> > > Fortunately, Reflexology has many facets, not only one. Reflexology
> > has many sources of knowledge, not only one based on
> > suppositions. ...What kind of contraindications can have a good word,
> > a good dialog with your patient, a good advice given on time....?
> > What are you talking about......?
> > >
> > > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that..
> > Not only to the clientele
> > > but to this profession as well.
> > >
> > > Fortunately, not all the Reflexologists think like you do.
> > >
> > > More and more of us around the world are introducing to the
> > practice of Reflexology what you consider dangerous. People like Avi,
> > Chris or Moshe are not teaching us the way to criminality. The three
> > of them are lovely people who devoted themselves to Reflexology and
> > on the contrary, they have made and they are making a great
> > contribution to Reflexology with the knowledge they have. If you
> > suggest that what they teach is dangerous, so poor we.....! I should
> > be a dangerous Therapist too.
> > >
> > > It's a pity that you didn't get properly assessed before you stated
> > such an offence.. With such a statement, you are seriously offending
> > the dignity of lots of Reflexologists around the world.
> > >
> > > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> > It is a personality
> > > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> > >
> > > I'll disappoint you once again. I'll give you that false argument,
> > as you define it. I believe that it is based on holism.
> > >
> > > Kevin, please take a look at the world out there and see what is
> > religious fundamentalism achieving with their arguments of "absolute
> > true".
> > > Just intollerance. ....
> > >
> > > So start throwing your bricks.
> > > I threw the ones you've put on my hands.
> > >
> > > Kevin Kunz
> > > Evelyn McCormack
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > ----- Original Message ----
> > > From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogrou p s.com>
> > > To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
> > > Sent: Tuesday, 9 October, 2007 9:07:29 PM
> > > Subject: [Reflexology Community ] I am shocked
> > >
> > > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> > about Personality
> > > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> > >
> > > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> > what they are doing for
> > > their clientele.
> > > That is a law in at least one state.
> > >
> > > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> > who really felt resentful
> > > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> > upon" with the "latest
> > > weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner had just learned.
> > >
> > > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> > a problem with
> > > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> > attached. They are
> > > dangerous.
> > >
> > > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> > stable. They are not necessarily
> > > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> > simplest thing. Planning
> > > with someone's head could backfire.
> > >
> > > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> > Reflexology based on? Where is
> > > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> > contraindications? What are the safety
> > > rules?
> > >
> > > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that.
> > Not only to the clientele
> > > but to this profession as well.
> > >
> > > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> > It is a personality
> > > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> > >
> > > So start throwing your bricks.
> > >
> > > Kevin Kunz
> > >
> > >
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#6367 From: Mauricio Kruchik <innaymauri@...>
Date: Fri Oct 12, 2007 4:40 pm
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Re: Moshe
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Dear Kevin,

Thank you for your concepts and for the beautiful insight you bring when
explaining the concept of Phrenology.

One precision: Intuitive Reflexology has already been labeled by Helen Mary
Perkins, Reflexologist from UK, for more details head of the Area Group Leaders
of the AoR in the UK. Helen is a lovely person, open minded, smooth and smiley
and a skilfull Reflexologist. I had the opportunity to share very constructive
talks when meeting at several world or regional Reflexology conferences like
Amsterdam, Warwick and recently Cairns, Australia. She calls her modality
Intuition and Sound Reflexology.

After reading your words, I've started to think that there is nothing bad on
labeling modalities or approaches. This attitude of me belongs perhaps to a very
"romantic" attitude that backups the rest....because I think and feel that
Reflexology is only one and should not be trademarked, as Medicine is only one
or Architecture is only one. There can be different modalities and
specialisations inside every profession, but I feel reluctant to call myself a
specialist. Many people say I am, but I have never called myself one.

I have devoted myself to Reflexology because I believe in unity, in holism, in
the holistic concept that defines Reflexologist as one great theory, one great
kind of therapy with infinite facets, such infinite as every human being is.

Perhaps I am old-fashioned (although being a young person) with this concept,
it is only a matter of attitude. Your concepts moved me to think about this, so
perhaps it is a good opportunity for me to give a second think and review my
attitude (which is in other words what emerges from my own preeching...). A
stagnated attitude? I accept the challenge to think about it.

I have no reluctancy about accepting Research. Not at all! Exactly the opposite!
I never accept anything for granted, I am a very pragmatic person. So pragmatic,
that my first Reflexology teacher told me once: "You are not a spiritual person"
when I told her about my difficulty to understand the concept of the Chakras by
that time. Now I believe in that concept because I developed my own sensitivity
and understanding towards it. It takes time to adopt every new thing in life.
The seed has to find the right earth to grow, and the earth also has its time to
mature.
Now I think how wrong was she.....I still remember that and I laugh out loud.
Every one who has ever had the opportunity of meeting me knows that what she
said then was completely absurd.

But still, I am pragmatic and I am a great believer of Research and support well
done Research. When I look at my own findings or conclusions, the ones that I
teach to my students or apply on my consultation, know that they have come after
lots of trials and observations and that there are more to come. I never state
anything only because I want it, but because having analyzed facts. This empiric
knowledge and observation have given me the right to express them aloud. My
point is that we would be very poor as human beings if all what we do is based
only on Research. This is the reason why I have written in the Preface of my
book "Analyzing Personality Patterns Through the Feet" the following statement:
"Nothing of what it is written in this book pretends to be absolute truth. You
are kindly invited to disagree".

Columbus arrived to what today is called America because his intuition sent him
to think differently than the establishment, to look for other routes to the
Indies in order to arrive to the same place. He never knew that he arrived to
another place, but his intuition and his belief, added to a stubborn attitude,
were his best guides. The evidence is that he was right in sustaining that the
world was round and not flat, without any Research. Sigmund Freud did a lot of
research and arrived to a million conclusions and findings about the human's
mind, but his theories are still accepted and rejected by professionals of the
world of Psychiatry in the same proportions. Rene Descartes, the great
philosopher, doubted about every single established scientific statement...he
understood and interpreted the reality by what his senses transmitted to him and
even though, he asked himself if his senses were credible enough to state the
truth until he was able to
proof that his life was real life. And he never said: this is truth. He came to
the conclusion that his life was real life after a sequence of logical
statements....

Three different approaches, three giants of human kind, three people who
challenged their time and generated great controversies around them. But it is
for these controversies that human kind is able to advance, with research or
without it.
The greatest educator in Uruguay (my country of origin), in fact the person who
made the great educational reform (one of the first to be done worldwide) Jose
Pedro Varela, said 140 years ago: "It is from discussion that the light can be
born".

I loved your idea of calling my concept "Behavioral Reflexology". It reflects
what it really is.
I thought about exactly the same name some months ago, but at the same time
said....oh, come on, Moshe.
But now, I started to like it. I'll adopt it. Sounds good.I'll think about it.

Thank you for the suggestion.

Best wishes

Moshe




----- Original Message ----
From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogroups.com>
To: reflexologycommunity@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2007 5:06:17 PM
Subject: [Reflexology Community ] Re: Moshe

Actually Moshe they have done research on hugs. In fact, they have done research
on
several forms of touch including massage and reflexology.

I gather from your post that whatever- you- are- calling it therapy comes from
intuition.
That is fine. It is honest. It comes from personal empirical experience.

I am writing a blog on Phrenology or reading bumps on the head. If you look at
the history
of reading bumps on the head one startling fact emerges. Phrenology lead to
modern
psychology.

The reason was actually quite simple. It was the first time that localization of
the brain was
embraced as a concept. That lead to great reforms in prisons (they no longer
beat
prisoners to drive the devil out), education, and several other areas. The irony
was that the
Phrenologists reject their own theory of reading bumps on the head even though
phrenology remained wildly popular for years to come.

Now I am not comparing what you do with phrenology so much as saying there may
be a
Behavioral Reflexology on the way. I can see that just as we have seen patterns
on the
physical there are mental patterns as well.

You and other like you then become a school of thought. I am much more
comfortable
with that. I would not even think it would be a problem to call yourself
Intuitive
Reflexology.

Years ago Barbara and I came to the conclusion that reflexology is an archetype
that has
been rediscovered over and over again throughout history and across cultures
that never
had contact. there are thousands of footwork systems that were created. Most are
lost.
Some were intuitive.

We decided that the real problem became quite simply how could you study various
footwork system without taking on their "baggage". We developed a Footwork
Categorization System. There were systems that focused on body, mind and spirit
systems.

The idea is like the library cataloging system. It wasn't to judge footwork
systems. It was
to locate and study them.

Moshe, don't be afraid of research. At this point it is being our friend and
validating a lot
of what we have to say.

And don't fear labeling either. Labels can be helpful and provide focus.

Kevin Kunz

--- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, Mauricio Kruchik <innaymauri@
...>
wrote:
>
> Dear all,
>
> Thank you Kay for your long and enlightening post. Even if it was double the
size there
was still a pleasure to read it.
>
> The last days I felt like being inside the eye of the hurricane. Much water,
troubled
water, had flown over a bridge that must unite us as Reflexologists.
> Something very strange happened here, it was like an earthquake trying to
destroy every
single piece of the great building we Reflexologists have been building for
years.
> I agree with Eve, my dearest (may I call you student?) colleague. As you well
said, I also
believe in Open-Minded Reflexology.
>
> When you go to a Doctor and you tell him about your health problems, sometimes
he
might say: it is all in your head.
> You go home, frustrated and impotent and ask yourself: am I nuts or what?
Should I
need to go to a Psychiatrist, a Psychologist. ...?
> Our great privilege as Reflexologists is that when our patient comes to our
consultation,
we can enjoy one whole hour and dedicate it to him as he needs it.
> A busy doctor would certainly dedicate no more than 5 minutes to all his
complaints,
write a couple of prescriptions without even looking at his patient's eyes and
scream:
NEXT!
>
> Then, after having being touring all the circles of hell, disappointed by what
tradicional
medicine hasn't provided to him yet, come to us, Reflexologists, as the last
option, their
last helping hand...
> And then, we have an unusual and excellent opportunity to provide them:
DEDICATION
and UNDERSTANDING.
> Modern medicine has made great steps towards a good quality of life who all of
us try to
enjoy. But sometimes, it acts like they have the right of stripping the patient
from all his
capacity of self healing and from his own responsibility for his own health.
When you go to
a doctor, you instintively think that he is the one who is able to bring you
healing, but you
never think that he will help you orientate to your own self healing. And this
is only the
beginning of an endless vicious cycle where the patient doesn't know how to
break, and
wher it doesn't have the opportunity to know why that he is suffering this
certain illness.
>
> When the patient has come to our consultation, we can talk with him, ask him
questions
that his physician has never asked to him. Without giving him answers, we can
help him
find his own hints to understand why this is happening to him. Sometimes it is a
problem
caused by a germ, a microbe, a bacteria. But how many times is this illness
caused by an
attitude our patient has been developing for years. Should we trigger his
awareness? Do
we have the right for it? Please show me the written law where it is explicitly
said that we
cannot help another person. We are allowed to use our knowledge and it is much
better
that we develop a friendly way of communication, so our patient can trust us and
feel that
we want to help him. Many illnesses develop precisely because the person doesn't
know
his body and has never listened to him. He has deposited the responsibility of
taking care
of it on the hands of somebody else.
>
> I have a rule of iron in my practice, which is in fact just a starting point
for further
observation. My patient can tell me a lot of lies and tell me lots of excuses
about his own
health, but his feet won't lie to me.
> When I close the door of my room, it is just my patient and me. He is my
master. If he
wants to talk, I'll let him. If he prefers to keep silence, I'll be silent. I
will never interfere
with his decisions. When he feels open enough to talk and to ask, I will talk
and I will
answer. Being gentle. Without attacking or trying to preech over his conscience.
I'll try to
show him the way to understand why is he suffering his illness, based on a deep
holistic
understanding. I always try to help my patients understand that there is always
a reason
for what they are suffering and it can become a great opportunity to understand
from
mistakes. As Evelyn well said, without being a judge, without pointing this is
right and this
is wrong. I will be there to escort him through the path of his own truth.
>
> His feet show not only the physical, but also the emotional and the spiritual.
Yes, Kay, I
am sure that if we talked like that 400 years ago, we were hanged from our
nails.
> Look at Hyppocrates. ...2500 years ago he said that there are four main fluids
(or
humours) flowing through the body: blood, flegm, black bile and yellow bile.
This is why
being on a good humour means to be on a good mood. He meant a good combination
of
humours is what makes the spirit flow over the body. Hyppocrates! The father of
medicine!
Please show me a doctor who talks like that today. He will be accused to be a
charlatan!
Hyppocrates theories were the beginning of medicine and medicine was born as a
holistic
science. He also described the four types of character: sanguine for blood, the
happy and
smiling person, flegmatic for phlegm, the lethargic and apathic person, the
colleric (coln in
greek means bile) to define the guy dominated by yellow bile= anger, and the
melancholic
(from greek mellan= black, cholic= bile) dominated by black bile, sad and
depressive.
>
> How many of this holistic approach have we lost through the years? As
Reflexologists,
we have a golden opportunity to interpret the whole world represented by the two
feet.
The feet explain the physical, the emotional and the mind, the one that links
between
them. Reflexology is not only where and when to press or what is the best
technique to
use. Reflexology is a whole world of understanding on the bottom of your body,
your feet
represent who you are and why you are like this. They represent your
personality, so a
whole knowledge of personality can also be trusted from the enormous well of
information
that your feet show.
>
> How curious! The word Personality comes from the ancient Latin: Per Sonare (to
sound,
to echoe a voice), a term born in the ancient Roman theatre. Theatres were open
air, in a
period in which there were not amplifiers, so they needed something to boost the
volume
of their voices. So they used masks, the famous masks of the Roman theatre.
These masks
were called PERSONAE, . The PERSONAGE was the one who carried the mask. The term
PERSONALITY has been rooted as the expression used to define what's beyond our
attitudes, the one who carries the mask.
>
> Many times we are so much into our religion that we forget about God. Many
times we
are so much into research that we forget our own intuition and our own senses.
> Research is useful, but intuition and dialog is beautiful. When my little
daughter comes
to me crying and complaining of tummy ache every time I have to fly abroad to
deliver a
course, I know that she is giving a physical expression to her frustration and
sadness. I
don't need a research for that. But if I had one, I would certainly read it with
pleasure.
>
> Now there is a world movement, a great, pleasant one> FREE HUGS, to make you
feel
good. Are they allowed to do that? Have they done a Research to test the effects
of a hug?
Or are there some other non written elements that make humans still develop a
primitive
sense of self help through their own intuition, collective help and cooperation?
> Is there a research made about the effect of love? Why do people get married
then?
>
> Until all the necessary research in this world is complete and done, we,
Reflexologists
and loving human beings, still have our intuition and an open mind to understand
the
secrets of our own nature.
>
> With great love
>
> Mauricio (Moshe) Kruchik
> www.maternityreflex ology.net
> www.theartofreflexo logy.com
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> If you are carrying with you a certain illness, you
>
>
> Reflexology is one, it is a therapy by own right and we must call ourselves a
profession
by own right.
>
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message ----
> From: kay sainsbury <kay.sainsbury@ ...>
> To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
> Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2007 12:06:00 AM
> Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a
bit long
>
> Dear All
> I think we must be open minded. As has been said there are no rights and
wrongs, and
even in a discussion like this there is a lot of common ground. There is a lot
going on out
there, research, work being done on genetics, physics, healing modalities and
their
efficacy that even takes the medical profession to new and wonderful places so
maybe we
should too. Personally I wish I had time to read everything and take everything
on board.
But I do remember a story once told to me about some monkeys on different
islands and
when faced with similar problems of survival it was shown they all more or less
came up
with the same solution. So what is happening in America right now, with the
limitations
put on reflexology and the law passed that says you have to become part of the
massage
qualification, is yet another step that is required by outside sources to
"legitimise" what we
do. It has happened in other places and with time it has been overcome.
>
> When the use of healing modalities goes up in the UK, you can bet your bottom
dollar
that the next day in the broadsheets (the more upmarket papers) there is an
article
directed at a so-called intelligent section of the population, which will demean
and lower
them. It is quite often reflexology. They used to do it to chiropractics,
osteopaths and
acupuncturists, but they are now accepted in their own right. Unfortunately in
all of history
there has been a lot of fear borne through misunderstanding and prejudice. Same
here in
the UK. Only a few hundred years ago we (reflexologists) would have all been
hung by the
neck or drowned as witches, heretics and the like for doing the work of the
devil (and
some religions still believe so...). So we have come a long way already.
>
> In England, where I am from, it is enough that you have studied at a
professional level
(and yes, it is a profession) are fully qualified and insured. We do not need a
licence to
practice (unless it involves breaking the skin as in acupuncture) but the most
successful
practitioners do belong to bona fide associations who are striving to bring
educational
standards up to a point where all professional bodies and their teaching methods
are
integrated. No-one should work without insurance. There are still grey areas in
this
country and basically any beauty therapist can go on a course and say they are a
reflexologist :( Personally I frown on that, but I long ago gave up my shield
and charger to
go and fight the good fight.) I have found through experience that whilst I am
fully booked
with a waiting list because my reflexology makes a difference to people, others,
including
those who have done a diploma or a college course (arghhh), get very few return
> clients.
>
> The true test of the efficacy of a particular modality is your return
clientele. If what you
are doing works and is bringing your clients and referrals from them back again
(I have
clients on my books for 5 years plus as new problems surface for them) surely
that is the
true test.
>
> I personally also find that people want to know. People are intelligent on the
whole.
They have read about other modalities. The most common question I ask is can you
have
Reiki while having reflexology. (Though I don't do Reiki) People are becoming
aware that
there are other "tools" available to them, especially in this country when the
NHS has failed
so many people through waiting times and ineffective or too many pills. People
throughout
the world are taking back control. They are seeking out our services from a
desire to be
more natural; they don't want to keep popping pills. They read up things on the
internet.
They ask what I can do for them. What does this mean. What does a certain colour
mean.
Personally I would feel inadequate as a therapist, remembering i am taking their
money, if
I could not answer their questions with at least the basics.
>
> As for me, when I learned reflexology no-one explained to me about how the
body's
energy (which is fluid) can fluctuate. Nobody explained to me that as a
therapist I could
suffer "transference" . Very shortly after starting out I would know what the
person's
problem is when they entered the room because I felt it in my body. I was open
and
receiving and was not taught how to block that and be grounded and ready to give
my
session clearly. It was only on a workshop that I was allowed to feel my own
body energy
(aura) fluctuating and when I went to a linking workshop, which doubled up with
a work
shop by Moss Arnold on meridians, that lots of pennies dropped. We shouldn't
even be
taught reflexology without going into body energy, how emotions affect us, and
the
transference of energy between two people. In my opinion therefore all these
other
modalities should come before traditional reflexology, not afterwards!
>
> To have no fear is very liberating. I have worked with every contraindication
listed in
every reflexology book I have found, with 100% success. Not through
stubborn-ness, but
because the opportunities came up and I went with the flow. My fear is that as
therapists if
we don't go with the flow (of life, and all its many shapes and colours
reflected in the more
"holistic" aspects of reflexology, including what the feet show me at every
level not just
physical), then we will become stagnated. Then we become mediocre, and cannot
bend
with our clients.
>
> The science of reflexology is there for all to study. If you want to be rigid
in its
application and that works for you - great. There is so much benefit to be had.
If you want
to go beyond the original concept - and there are many who have and have had a
struggle
getting their work accepted - then that should be fine too. Then it becomes an
art.
>
> Give a little in your practice .... the rewards are indescribable.
> With love
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Evelyn McCormack
> To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
> Sent: Wednesday, October 10, 2007 4:24 PM
> Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too
>
> Dear Kevin,
>
> I read your post and couldn't agree with you more.
>
> Reflexology will never die, it is only growing and despite all the people out
there trying
to damage our reputation and our PROFESSION, nothing but human warmth with a
healing
and loving spirit would be able to substitute us for machines or electrodes.
>
> No machine will be able never to substitute the warmth of a hug, a human hug.
No
lawyer and no journalist will be able never to destroy people's hearts.
Reflexology is
stepping forward, I am glad that Moshe brought all those outstanding news from
Australia. I was so happy yesterday when I read his post!!! Everyone of us
should cheer
what's happening now with Reflexology.
>
> I've learnt on your books. When my youngest son was a newborn, somebody handed
me
The Complete Parents' guide to Reflexology.
>
> I am afraid of those Reflexologists who claim having founded Reflexology and
try to
seed on the ignorance of other people with no more backup than a monetary and
commercial objective. There is a very famous Reflexologist out there who claims
having
that credit....of having founded Reflexology. Not you. I am afraid of those
Reflexologists
who invent stories, lie or steal techniques from other people and immediately
create and
make a trademark with a bombastic name as if it was their invention or
discovery. I am
afraid of these people's low level of ethics, so low that they will never be
able to
understand what the word ethics mean. I know who am I talking about.
>
> Therefore, I had a problem in matching the same person whose books I read with
passion and seeded so much for the welfare of Reflexology as you did with the
person who
attacked without a reason other sources of knowledge that YES can enrich
Reflexology as a
Therapy.
>
> Best wishes
>
> Lov,
>
> Eve
>
> ----- Original Message ----
> From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogrou p s.com>
> To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
> Sent: Wednesday, 10 October, 2007 4:41:30 PM
> Subject: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too
>
> I started this and I don't want to continue a flame war on this group. So
after a good
> night's sleep let me tell you what is bothering me.
>
> We are not a profession.. . yet. We may have the trimming and look the part
but we are
still
> in infancy. Why do I say that?
>
> 1) We hire a sociologist 27 years ago to help us figure out how to help
reflexology
> become a profession. Her major point was to become a profession you need a
systematic
> body of knowledge. If you don't you have a weak profession which usually has
little
> prestige and low pay.
>
> 2) That same year we published The Complete Guide to Foot Reflexology. It was
one of
the
> hardest struggle Barbara and I ever faced. But we felt compelled to do since
even during
> the brief time we saw the field changing. And the field of reflexology was yet
to be
> documented. It was all verbal tradition.
>
> Publishing that book wasn't something I wanted to do because coming from an
academic
> family. I never what was involved and the sacrifice it meant. But it was
worse.
>
> No publisher would take us so we had to self publish until Prentice Hall saw
the
popularity
> of reflexology and "found" us. they can originally returned "our baby"
unopened.
>
> But we had at least documented this traditional healing modality. And what
ever
happens
> to change the field there is a record.
>
> 3) The hard part was naming techniques and defining things that hadn't really
been
> defined before. Issues went on for weeks and at times months. "Holding hand"
and
> "working hand" was a real struggle. Whether to use the traditional description
of
> techniques such as "thumb walking" became a major debate..
>
> And then trying to describe the techniques was mind boggling. Barbara was
really the
> brains behind this. Instead of 28 different techniques she simplified them
into three
> techniques plus desserts. It was a revolution. Suddenly more people could do
reflexology
> because it had been simplified.
>
> 4) And then just as we put out Hand and Foot Reflexology: A Self Help Guide we
were
put
> out of business in the city of Albuquerque. We weren't qualified to practice
reflexology
> because we didn't have a massage license. We would have had to gone to a local
massage
> school to take training in our own book to be qualified.
>
> It took 5 very long years to reverse that decision. Then only a couple of
years later it was
> attempted again. It took us 31 meeting to get an exemption from the massage
law.
>
> The definition was absolutely critical. It had to put us outside the massage
law and not
> infringe on other professions.
>
> So want is the point of all this. You won't get rich being a writer but you
will preserve
> something even if it is only a little piece. And you will help generations to
come.
>
> Labeling and defining your practices is absolutely critical. There is no real
room for
error.
>
> And don't look to me if you can't come up with a name for this what -do -you
-call it
field.
> That's you job.
>
> And yes I am concern about the impact of each and every little addition to the
field of
> reflexology. I feel we have earned the right to challenge the additions to
this field and
> push the inventors to document the efficacy, safety and mechanism of action as
well as
> the origin of what they are proposing.
>
> I am concerned that we may not exist as "reflexologists" in the next few
years, There are
> people out there testing reflexology for the neurotransmitters involved. There
are real
> time ECG's and EKG's tests going on to measure heart rate function and
brain-waves.
Will
> we be obsolete before too long because we failed to become a systematic body
of
> knowledge.
>
> And I am concerned about the latest fad. Strong professions have peer review
to guard
> against the latest fad. We don't. And so the what-do-call- it field is a
danger.
>
> Our fight has never ended. And it will never end if you love this craft as
passionately we
> are.
>
> So if you really believe this is a necessary and important addition to the
field of
reflexology
> be ready to defend it and don't think we won't notice if it is being slipped
in through the
> back door.
>
> Until we all embrace our systematic body of knowledge and all become builders
in that
> body of knowledge we are still infants and easy prey to those who see the
potential of
> reflexology monetarily without the heart we all have.
>
> Kevin Kunz
>
> BTW Barbara and I had never been writes before The Complete Guide to Foot
Reflexology.
> Barbara learned to illustrate to do that book. And the best part is we had no
money. But
> that is another story.
>
> --- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, learnecm <no_reply@ .> wrote:
> >
> >
> >
> > Hello Evelyn,
> >
> > After many hours of thinking on your reply to Kevin as well as how I
> > replied back to you. I must admit I seemed to myself a tad harsh.
> >
> > But, after a good night's sleep and again thinking more about your
> > posting, I decided to FINISH what I started to say on the last
> > posting.
> >
> > Before I get too upset at you wanting to TREAT PATIENTS I should have
> > asked where you received YOUR medical degree. Maybe you are an MD.
> > I hae met some wholistic practitioners who are. And some who
> > actually promote Reflexology. For example Doctor Susa Wong MD on
> > Aboutus.com as well as many who have co published bookds on
> > reflexology. So that was unfair of me to assume you were not a
> > medical doctor. If you are, my apologies, you do have the RIGHT to
> > prescribe, diagnose and treat for specific conditions, however
> > looking at the ethical side of things, even medical doctors should
> > not claim to cure everyone they meet.
> >
> > One more note on the fact that you feel your "patients", should not
> > have to told what you are doing and that they come to you with trust
> > and assurance that'whatever' you do is OK and acceptable . . .
> > If a medical doctor tells you that a certain course of treatment is
> > OK and that you should take this little pink pill and you will feel
> > better - what would you do????? I always question my medical
> > doctor, research the treatment (ask questions) before making an
> > informed decision about my treatment. Don't you?
> > If a doctor tells a person, you will need to remove the limb. Don't
> > you want more information before undergoing such radical treatment?
> > I would want to know a heck of lot more about the surgery and if
> > something else could be done and about whether the one practicing
> > (the surgeon in this case) is skilled at what he/she does, not to
> > mention if they are ethical in their beliefs.
> > This example is REAL diabetics all over the world are told that
> > because of foot ulcers they need to "remove the limb" yet in medical
> > facilities around the world the medical community is using hyperberic
> > chambers to treat diabetics and "saving their limbs" Wow. The ones
> > that get this treatment had to SEARCH for it and let the WORLD know
> > it is out there. Just like You and I - we need to let everyone know
> > what REFLEXLOGY is. Don't cloud it with our own slant on things some
> > do. Keep it Pure and if you want to "include" other ideals in your
> > treatment of clients, or "patients" do so as not to risk the
> > physical, mental, OR moral well being of the ones you so dearly want
> > to help and love.
> >
> > Please understand this is not a personal attack on anyone, just how I
> > so deeply believe. We do live in a democratic contry - at least I
> > do, and freedom of belief and speech should never besquashed. But as
> > a medical doctor does have limitations so are all of us.
> >
> > I have much more I would like to say, but I will stop here.
> >
> > Take care and let's live, love and learn,
> >
> > Deb
> >
> > --- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, Evelyn McCormack
> > <evelyn10267@ > wrote:
> > >
> > > Dear Kevin,
> > >
> > > Reading your words, I felt shocked too.
> > > I feel compelled to answer to your text.
> > >
> > > I'll insert my answers between your lines.
> > >
> > > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> > about Personality
> > > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> > >
> > > I agree, all of them were very intelligent.
> > >
> > > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> > what they are doing for
> > > their clientele. Labeling is not a matter of choice it is a
> > requirement for the protection of
> > > the consumer.Deeper than the legal question to me is the ethical
> > question. Is client fully and fairly
> > > informed as to the nature of the services?That is a law in at least
> > one state.
> > >
> > > I have patients, perhaps you have a clientele.. I have never
> > considered my patients as "clients", because I am a Therapist. Have
> > you ever heard a Doctor in Medicine talk about his clientele? I'd
> > never go to one who speaks like that. Is it perhaps a cultural
> > difference between you and me? I was born and grew up in Austria, I
> > live now in the UK. I have never heard a practitioner talk about his
> > or her "clientele" but about his or her patients. Perhaps terms can
> > be different from place to place..
> > >
> > > I see not ethical question at all. Nobody is hiding anything from
> > my patients. People who have given me the privilege of their
> > confidence and trust must be respected. I don't provide a "service to
> > my clients", I provide a treatment to my patient.
> > >
> > >
> > > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> > who really felt resentful
> > > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> > upon" with the "latest weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner
> > had just learned.
> > >
> > > Who better than you know that there are many kinds of
> > practitioners? Does it surprise you? Because of one your friend met
> > you are putting an entire group inside the same sac? Come on, Kevin,
> > there are good and responsible and there are unprofessional and
> > charlatans everywhere. With a wide range of variants in the middle.
> > >
> > > As a matter of fact, haven't you ever heard a respectable Doctor of
> > Medicine who experiments upon his patient with the latest article he
> > has read or the latest word in equipment he has purchased?
> > >
> > > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> > a problem with
> > > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> > attached. They are
> > > dangerous.
> > >
> > > Who told you that we give personality assessments? This affirmation
> > shows your total ignorance of the subject you are talking about and
> > attacking without knowledge!!
> > >
> > > You talk about research but you haven't asked questions about how
> > exactly do we apply our knowledge to Reflexology. You attack, attack
> > and attack without giving others the opportunity to explain what is
> > all about.
> > >
> > > I invite you to attend one of Avi Grrenberg or Moshce Kruchik
> > seminars and perhaps you can have an idea of what do they teach and
> > why have they become so famous and respected in the world of
> > Reflexology. ..
> > >
> > > As for dangerous, I feel that it is more dangerous to me the person
> > who fancies himself of knowing about something that he really
> > doesn't, underestimating the real knowledge and skills of those who
> > do.
> > >
> > > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> > stable. They are not necessarily
> > > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> > simplest thing. Planning
> > > with someone's head could backfire.
> > >
> > > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> > Reflexology based on? Where is
> > > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> > contraindications? What are the safety
> > > rules?
> > >
> > > Nobody will be able to answer the question by the simple fact that
> > nobody before has talked about Personality Reflexology. Only you. You
> > are the first who talked about Personality Reflexology, so I invite
> > you to explain to all the members of this respectable forum what is
> > that exactly.
> > >
> > > You are the first one who use this combination of terms. And if you
> > ask my opinion, it is wrong. I don't need labels for everything as
> > if Reflexology was comparable to a bottle of whisky....
> > >
> > > Reflexology is a Therapy based on a theory and we, Reflexologists
> > around the world are trying to demonstrate that our theory is valid,
> > to understand more and more how does it work and how deep it can
> > get.
> > >
> > > Fortunately, Reflexology has many facets, not only one. Reflexology
> > has many sources of knowledge, not only one based on
> > suppositions. ...What kind of contraindications can have a good word,
> > a good dialog with your patient, a good advice given on time....?
> > What are you talking about......?
> > >
> > > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that..
> > Not only to the clientele
> > > but to this profession as well.
> > >
> > > Fortunately, not all the Reflexologists think like you do.
> > >
> > > More and more of us around the world are introducing to the
> > practice of Reflexology what you consider dangerous. People like Avi,
> > Chris or Moshe are not teaching us the way to criminality. The three
> > of them are lovely people who devoted themselves to Reflexology and
> > on the contrary, they have made and they are making a great
> > contribution to Reflexology with the knowledge they have. If you
> > suggest that what they teach is dangerous, so poor we.....! I should
> > be a dangerous Therapist too.
> > >
> > > It's a pity that you didn't get properly assessed before you stated
> > such an offence.. With such a statement, you are seriously offending
> > the dignity of lots of Reflexologists around the world.
> > >
> > > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> > It is a personality
> > > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> > >
> > > I'll disappoint you once again. I'll give you that false argument,
> > as you define it. I believe that it is based on holism.
> > >
> > > Kevin, please take a look at the world out there and see what is
> > religious fundamentalism achieving with their arguments of "absolute
> > true".
> > > Just intollerance. ....
> > >
> > > So start throwing your bricks.
> > > I threw the ones you've put on my hands.
> > >
> > > Kevin Kunz
> > > Evelyn McCormack
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > ----- Original Message ----
> > > From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogrou p s.com>
> > > To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
> > > Sent: Tuesday, 9 October, 2007 9:07:29 PM
> > > Subject: [Reflexology Community ] I am shocked
> > >
> > > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> > about Personality
> > > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> > >
> > > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> > what they are doing for
> > > their clientele.
> > > That is a law in at least one state.
> > >
> > > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> > who really felt resentful
> > > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> > upon" with the "latest
> > > weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner had just learned.
> > >
> > > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> > a problem with
> > > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> > attached. They are
> > > dangerous.
> > >
> > > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> > stable. They are not necessarily
> > > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> > simplest thing. Planning
> > > with someone's head could backfire.
> > >
> > > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> > Reflexology based on? Where is
> > > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> > contraindications? What are the safety
> > > rules?
> > >
> > > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that.
> > Not only to the clientele
> > > but to this profession as well.
> > >
> > > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> > It is a personality
> > > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> > >
> > > So start throwing your bricks.
> > >
> > > Kevin Kunz
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
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#6369 From: "kay sainsbury" <kay.sainsbury@...>
Date: Fri Oct 12, 2007 5:24 pm
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Re: Moshe
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Hi Moshe, Kevin

As well as being a passionate reflexologist (thanks Moshe) I also have a keen
sense of humour and I had to laugh at your comment - along with you, not against
you - about there having been research on hugs. Who, I wonder, would need
research on the efficacy of a hug. Sometimes I think the human race has lost
its way.

So I go hug someone - that's all the research I need.

Much love
Kay


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#7457 From: footc1
Date: Tue May 13, 2008 4:33 pm
Subject: Moshe
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I had a very nice phone call from Moshe while he was awaiting a flight back to
Israel. Glad
you all had a chance to meet and hoping that there will be other meetings in the
future.

Remember the cancer conference in Israel. Be sure to spread the word.

Kevin Kunz

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#7458 From: Mauricio Kruchik <innaymauri@...>
Date: Tue May 13, 2008 5:21 pm
Subject: Moshe
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Dear Kevin,

My pleasure.
I very much enjoyed speaking with you on the phone. One day it will be face to
face.

Back to Israel to the warmth of my family (and the weather..) after an exciting
and thrilling trip to the States.

Kevin, thank you so much for your commitment and your help.
Thank you for helping us spreading the word.
I wish that what we are trying to build today will be for our commonwealth
tomorrow.

And thanks to wonderful Oran and my wife for backing me up while I was abroad.

Now I go to sleep...

All the best,
 Mauricio (Moshe) Kruchik-Biderman
President
THE ISRAELI FORUM OF REFLEXOLOGY
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Phone: +972 (0)9 7467676
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Website: www.isreflexology.com
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En Español: www.isreflexology.com/es

________________________________
Maternity Reflexology
www.maternityreflexology.net 

 

Reflexology of the Spirit
www.theartofreflexology.com

 




----- Original Message ----
From: Mauricio Kruchik <innaymauri@...>
To: reflexologycommunity@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Tuesday, May 13, 2008 4:15:46 AM
Subject: Reflexology & Inducing labour


Dear Marie,
 
How are you?
Yes, the RAA was amazing....no doubt. I was very proud and happy to participate,
great people, great environment, great colleagues,....
....and I met you personally!!

Now to our subject:
Your answer to your client was MORE than perfect.
In my courses I always point that it is very difficult to INDUCE labour until
the baby hasn't taken the decision yet to be born. 
But YES, Reflexology can be an excellent and powerful tool once labour has
started, when there is a dynamic of labour, even if it is very poor with
weak and sporadic contractions. Why do I say that your answer was more than
perfect? Because labour is not an automatic process. The mother has to be in a
perfect onset in order to promote a good dynamic by herself. Stress?
Catecholamines, adrenaline, no oxytocine, poor contractions, nervousness and
pain. Relax? Oxytocine, no tension, a good dynamic and probably self confidence
will do the rest.

Now, let's think about a bad scenario: there is no need to push the labour but
the doctors are impatient and want to induce (something that happens VERY
FREQUENTLY). Given this scenario you can try to induce labour, knowing that when
contractions come gradually, that the mother can tollerate them and she is able
to cope with them at her own pace, it is much better and different than when she
is induced with Pitocin, the contractions come one after the other without
remission and after 10 minutes or less she is claiming for an epidural.
Reflexology does a fantastic job promoting not only contractions but energyzing
the mother and enhancing her own natural reserves to do the great job.

Warm regards!!

Moshe
 
 
 Mauricio (Moshe) Kruchik-Biderman
President
THE ISRAELI FORUM OF REFLEXOLOGY
________________________________

Phone: +972 (0)9 7467676
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Website: www.isreflexology.com
In English: www.isreflexology.com/en
En Español: www.isreflexology.com/es

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#6361 From: "kay sainsbury" <kay.sainsbury@...>
Date: Thu Oct 11, 2007 2:35 pm
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a bit long
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Dear Moshe

Thanks for your kind words. I have to say the same. I can feel the passion for
the things you do in your words. They come across very strongly and this too
was a pleasure to read. You put it so eloquently.

Thank you Kay

----- Original Message -----
From: Mauricio Kruchik
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Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2007 1:37 AM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a
bit long


Dear all,

Thank you Kay for your long and enlightening post. Even if it was double the
size there was still a pleasure to read it.

The last days I felt like being inside the eye of the hurricane. Much water,
troubled water, had flown over a bridge that must unite us as Reflexologists.
Something very strange happened here, it was like an earthquake trying to
destroy every single piece of the great building we Reflexologists have been
building for years.
I agree with Eve, my dearest (may I call you student?) colleague. As you well
said, I also believe in Open-Minded Reflexology.

When you go to a Doctor and you tell him about your health problems, sometimes
he might say: it is all in your head.
You go home, frustrated and impotent and ask yourself: am I nuts or what?
Should I need to go to a Psychiatrist, a Psychologist....?
Our great privilege as Reflexologists is that when our patient comes to our
consultation, we can enjoy one whole hour and dedicate it to him as he needs it.
A busy doctor would certainly dedicate no more than 5 minutes to all his
complaints, write a couple of prescriptions without even looking at his
patient's eyes and scream: NEXT!

Then, after having being touring all the circles of hell, disappointed by what
tradicional medicine hasn't provided to him yet, come to us, Reflexologists, as
the last option, their last helping hand...
And then, we have an unusual and excellent opportunity to provide them:
DEDICATION and UNDERSTANDING.
Modern medicine has made great steps towards a good quality of life who all of
us try to enjoy. But sometimes, it acts like they have the right of stripping
the patient from all his capacity of self healing and from his own
responsibility for his own health. When you go to a doctor, you instintively
think that he is the one who is able to bring you healing, but you never think
that he will help you orientate to your own self healing. And this is only the
beginning of an endless vicious cycle where the patient doesn't know how to
break, and wher it doesn't have the opportunity to know why that he is suffering
this certain illness.

When the patient has come to our consultation, we can talk with him, ask him
questions that his physician has never asked to him. Without giving him answers,
we can help him find his own hints to understand why this is happening to him.
Sometimes it is a problem caused by a germ, a microbe, a bacteria. But how many
times is this illness caused by an attitude our patient has been developing for
years. Should we trigger his awareness? Do we have the right for it? Please show
me the written law where it is explicitly said that we cannot help another
person. We are allowed to use our knowledge and it is much better that we
develop a friendly way of communication, so our patient can trust us and feel
that we want to help him. Many illnesses develop precisely because the person
doesn't know his body and has never listened to him. He has deposited the
responsibility of taking care of it on the hands of somebody else.

I have a rule of iron in my practice, which is in fact just a starting point
for further observation. My patient can tell me a lot of lies and tell me lots
of excuses about his own health, but his feet won't lie to me.
When I close the door of my room, it is just my patient and me. He is my
master. If he wants to talk, I'll let him. If he prefers to keep silence, I'll
be silent. I will never interfere with his decisions. When he feels open enough
to talk and to ask, I will talk and I will answer. Being gentle. Without
attacking or trying to preech over his conscience. I'll try to show him the way
to understand why is he suffering his illness, based on a deep holistic
understanding. I always try to help my patients understand that there is always
a reason for what they are suffering and it can become a great opportunity to
understand from mistakes. As Evelyn well said, without being a judge, without
pointing this is right and this is wrong. I will be there to escort him through
the path of his own truth.

His feet show not only the physical, but also the emotional and the spiritual.
Yes, Kay, I am sure that if we talked like that 400 years ago, we were hanged
from our nails.
Look at Hyppocrates....2500 years ago he said that there are four main fluids
(or humours) flowing through the body: blood, flegm, black bile and yellow bile.
This is why being on a good humour means to be on a good mood. He meant a good
combination of humours is what makes the spirit flow over the body. Hyppocrates!
The father of medicine! Please show me a doctor who talks like that today. He
will be accused to be a charlatan! Hyppocrates theories were the beginning of
medicine and medicine was born as a holistic science. He also described the four
types of character: sanguine for blood, the happy and smiling person, flegmatic
for phlegm, the lethargic and apathic person, the colleric (coln in greek means
bile) to define the guy dominated by yellow bile= anger, and the melancholic
(from greek mellan= black, cholic= bile) dominated by black bile, sad and
depressive.

How many of this holistic approach have we lost through the years? As
Reflexologists, we have a golden opportunity to interpret the whole world
represented by the two feet. The feet explain the physical, the emotional and
the mind, the one that links between them. Reflexology is not only where and
when to press or what is the best technique to use. Reflexology is a whole world
of understanding on the bottom of your body, your feet represent who you are and
why you are like this. They represent your personality, so a whole knowledge of
personality can also be trusted from the enormous well of information that your
feet show.

How curious! The word Personality comes from the ancient Latin: Per Sonare (to
sound, to echoe a voice), a term born in the ancient Roman theatre. Theatres
were open air, in a period in which there were not amplifiers, so they needed
something to boost the volume of their voices. So they used masks, the famous
masks of the Roman theatre. These masks were called PERSONAE, . The PERSONAGE
was the one who carried the mask. The term PERSONALITY has been rooted as the
expression used to define what's beyond our attitudes, the one who carries the
mask.

Many times we are so much into our religion that we forget about God. Many
times we are so much into research that we forget our own intuition and our own
senses.
Research is useful, but intuition and dialog is beautiful. When my little
daughter comes to me crying and complaining of tummy ache every time I have to
fly abroad to deliver a course, I know that she is giving a physical expression
to her frustration and sadness. I don't need a research for that. But if I had
one, I would certainly read it with pleasure.

Now there is a world movement, a great, pleasant one> FREE HUGS, to make you
feel good. Are they allowed to do that? Have they done a Research to test the
effects of a hug? Or are there some other non written elements that make humans
still develop a primitive sense of self help through their own intuition,
collective help and cooperation?
Is there a research made about the effect of love? Why do people get married
then?

Until all the necessary research in this world is complete and done, we,
Reflexologists and loving human beings, still have our intuition and an open
mind to understand the secrets of our own nature.

With great love

Mauricio (Moshe) Kruchik
www.maternityreflexology.net
www.theartofreflexology.com

If you are carrying with you a certain illness, you


Reflexology is one, it is a therapy by own right and we must call ourselves a
profession by own right.

----- Original Message ----
From: kay sainsbury <kay.sainsbury@...>
To: reflexologycommunity@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2007 12:06:00 AM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a
bit long

Dear All
I think we must be open minded. As has been said there are no rights and
wrongs, and even in a discussion like this there is a lot of common ground.
There is a lot going on out there, research, work being done on genetics,
physics, healing modalities and their efficacy that even takes the medical
profession to new and wonderful places so maybe we should too. Personally I wish
I had time to read everything and take everything on board. But I do remember a
story once told to me about some monkeys on different islands and when faced
with similar problems of survival it was shown they all more or less came up
with the same solution. So what is happening in America right now, with the
limitations put on reflexology and the law passed that says you have to become
part of the massage qualification, is yet another step that is required by
outside sources to "legitimise" what we do. It has happened in other places and
with time it has been overcome.

When the use of healing modalities goes up in the UK, you can bet your bottom
dollar that the next day in the broadsheets (the more upmarket papers) there is
an article directed at a so-called intelligent section of the population, which
will demean and lower them. It is quite often reflexology. They used to do it to
chiropractics, osteopaths and acupuncturists, but they are now accepted in their
own right. Unfortunately in all of history there has been a lot of fear borne
through misunderstanding and prejudice. Same here in the UK. Only a few hundred
years ago we (reflexologists) would have all been hung by the neck or drowned as
witches, heretics and the like for doing the work of the devil (and some
religions still believe so...). So we have come a long way already.

In England, where I am from, it is enough that you have studied at a
professional level (and yes, it is a profession) are fully qualified and
insured. We do not need a licence to practice (unless it involves breaking the
skin as in acupuncture) but the most successful practitioners do belong to bona
fide associations who are striving to bring educational standards up to a point
where all professional bodies and their teaching methods are integrated. No-one
should work without insurance. There are still grey areas in this country and
basically any beauty therapist can go on a course and say they are a
reflexologist :( Personally I frown on that, but I long ago gave up my shield
and charger to go and fight the good fight.) I have found through experience
that whilst I am fully booked with a waiting list because my reflexology makes a
difference to people, others, including those who have done a diploma or a
college course (arghhh), get very few return
clients.

The true test of the efficacy of a particular modality is your return
clientele. If what you are doing works and is bringing your clients and
referrals from them back again (I have clients on my books for 5 years plus as
new problems surface for them) surely that is the true test.

I personally also find that people want to know. People are intelligent on the
whole. They have read about other modalities. The most common question I ask is
can you have Reiki while having reflexology. (Though I don't do Reiki) People
are becoming aware that there are other "tools" available to them, especially in
this country when the NHS has failed so many people through waiting times and
ineffective or too many pills. People throughout the world are taking back
control. They are seeking out our services from a desire to be more natural;
they don't want to keep popping pills. They read up things on the internet. They
ask what I can do for them. What does this mean. What does a certain colour
mean. Personally I would feel inadequate as a therapist, remembering i am taking
their money, if I could not answer their questions with at least the basics.

As for me, when I learned reflexology no-one explained to me about how the
body's energy (which is fluid) can fluctuate. Nobody explained to me that as a
therapist I could suffer "transference" . Very shortly after starting out I
would know what the person's problem is when they entered the room because I
felt it in my body. I was open and receiving and was not taught how to block
that and be grounded and ready to give my session clearly. It was only on a
workshop that I was allowed to feel my own body energy (aura) fluctuating and
when I went to a linking workshop, which doubled up with a work shop by Moss
Arnold on meridians, that lots of pennies dropped. We shouldn't even be taught
reflexology without going into body energy, how emotions affect us, and the
transference of energy between two people. In my opinion therefore all these
other modalities should come before traditional reflexology, not afterwards!

To have no fear is very liberating. I have worked with every contraindication
listed in every reflexology book I have found, with 100% success. Not through
stubborn-ness, but because the opportunities came up and I went with the flow.
My fear is that as therapists if we don't go with the flow (of life, and all its
many shapes and colours reflected in the more "holistic" aspects of reflexology,
including what the feet show me at every level not just physical), then we will
become stagnated. Then we become mediocre, and cannot bend with our clients.

The science of reflexology is there for all to study. If you want to be rigid
in its application and that works for you - great. There is so much benefit to
be had. If you want to go beyond the original concept - and there are many who
have and have had a struggle getting their work accepted - then that should be
fine too. Then it becomes an art.

Give a little in your practice .... the rewards are indescribable.
With love

----- Original Message -----
From: Evelyn McCormack
To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Wednesday, October 10, 2007 4:24 PM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too

Dear Kevin,

I read your post and couldn't agree with you more.

Reflexology will never die, it is only growing and despite all the people out
there trying to damage our reputation and our PROFESSION, nothing but human
warmth with a healing and loving spirit would be able to substitute us for
machines or electrodes.

No machine will be able never to substitute the warmth of a hug, a human hug.
No lawyer and no journalist will be able never to destroy people's hearts.
Reflexology is stepping forward, I am glad that Moshe brought all those
outstanding news from Australia. I was so happy yesterday when I read his
post!!! Everyone of us should cheer what's happening now with Reflexology.

I've learnt on your books. When my youngest son was a newborn, somebody handed
me The Complete Parents' guide to Reflexology.

I am afraid of those Reflexologists who claim having founded Reflexology and
try to seed on the ignorance of other people with no more backup than a monetary
and commercial objective. There is a very famous Reflexologist out there who
claims having that credit....of having founded Reflexology. Not you. I am afraid
of those Reflexologists who invent stories, lie or steal techniques from other
people and immediately create and make a trademark with a bombastic name as if
it was their invention or discovery. I am afraid of these people's low level of
ethics, so low that they will never be able to understand what the word ethics
mean. I know who am I talking about.

Therefore, I had a problem in matching the same person whose books I read with
passion and seeded so much for the welfare of Reflexology as you did with the
person who attacked without a reason other sources of knowledge that YES can
enrich Reflexology as a Therapy.

Best wishes

Lov,

Eve

----- Original Message ----
From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogroup s.com>
To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Wednesday, 10 October, 2007 4:41:30 PM
Subject: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too

I started this and I don't want to continue a flame war on this group. So
after a good
night's sleep let me tell you what is bothering me.

We are not a profession.. . yet. We may have the trimming and look the part
but we are still
in infancy. Why do I say that?

1) We hire a sociologist 27 years ago to help us figure out how to help
reflexology
become a profession. Her major point was to become a profession you need a
systematic
body of knowledge. If you don't you have a weak profession which usually has
little
prestige and low pay.

2) That same year we published The Complete Guide to Foot Reflexology. It was
one of the
hardest struggle Barbara and I ever faced. But we felt compelled to do since
even during
the brief time we saw the field changing. And the field of reflexology was yet
to be
documented. It was all verbal tradition.

Publishing that book wasn't something I wanted to do because coming from an
academic
family. I never what was involved and the sacrifice it meant. But it was
worse.

No publisher would take us so we had to self publish until Prentice Hall saw
the popularity
of reflexology and "found" us. they can originally returned "our baby"
unopened.

But we had at least documented this traditional healing modality. And what
ever happens
to change the field there is a record.

3) The hard part was naming techniques and defining things that hadn't really
been
defined before. Issues went on for weeks and at times months. "Holding hand"
and
"working hand" was a real struggle. Whether to use the traditional description
of
techniques such as "thumb walking" became a major debate..

And then trying to describe the techniques was mind boggling. Barbara was
really the
brains behind this. Instead of 28 different techniques she simplified them
into three
techniques plus desserts. It was a revolution. Suddenly more people could do
reflexology
because it had been simplified.

4) And then just as we put out Hand and Foot Reflexology: A Self Help Guide we
were put
out of business in the city of Albuquerque. We weren't qualified to practice
reflexology
because we didn't have a massage license. We would have had to gone to a local
massage
school to take training in our own book to be qualified.

It took 5 very long years to reverse that decision. Then only a couple of
years later it was
attempted again. It took us 31 meeting to get an exemption from the massage
law.

The definition was absolutely critical. It had to put us outside the massage
law and not
infringe on other professions.

So want is the point of all this. You won't get rich being a writer but you
will preserve
something even if it is only a little piece. And you will help generations to
come.

Labeling and defining your practices is absolutely critical. There is no real
room for error.

And don't look to me if you can't come up with a name for this what -do -you
-call it field.
That's you job.

And yes I am concern about the impact of each and every little addition to the
field of
reflexology. I feel we have earned the right to challenge the additions to
this field and
push the inventors to document the efficacy, safety and mechanism of action as
well as
the origin of what they are proposing.

I am concerned that we may not exist as "reflexologists" in the next few
years, There are
people out there testing reflexology for the neurotransmitters involved. There
are real
time ECG's and EKG's tests going on to measure heart rate function and
brain-waves. Will
we be obsolete before too long because we failed to become a systematic body
of
knowledge.

And I am concerned about the latest fad. Strong professions have peer review
to guard
against the latest fad. We don't. And so the what-do-call- it field is a
danger.

Our fight has never ended. And it will never end if you love this craft as
passionately we
are.

So if you really believe this is a necessary and important addition to the
field of reflexology
be ready to defend it and don't think we won't notice if it is being slipped
in through the
back door.

Until we all embrace our systematic body of knowledge and all become builders
in that
body of knowledge we are still infants and easy prey to those who see the
potential of
reflexology monetarily without the heart we all have.

Kevin Kunz

BTW Barbara and I had never been writes before The Complete Guide to Foot
Reflexology.
Barbara learned to illustrate to do that book. And the best part is we had no
money. But
that is another story.

--- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, learnecm <no_reply@.. .> wrote:
>
>
>
> Hello Evelyn,
>
> After many hours of thinking on your reply to Kevin as well as how I
> replied back to you. I must admit I seemed to myself a tad harsh.
>
> But, after a good night's sleep and again thinking more about your
> posting, I decided to FINISH what I started to say on the last
> posting.
>
> Before I get too upset at you wanting to TREAT PATIENTS I should have
> asked where you received YOUR medical degree. Maybe you are an MD.
> I hae met some wholistic practitioners who are. And some who
> actually promote Reflexology. For example Doctor Susa Wong MD on
> Aboutus.com as well as many who have co published bookds on
> reflexology. So that was unfair of me to assume you were not a
> medical doctor. If you are, my apologies, you do have the RIGHT to
> prescribe, diagnose and treat for specific conditions, however
> looking at the ethical side of things, even medical doctors should
> not claim to cure everyone they meet.
>
> One more note on the fact that you feel your "patients", should not
> have to told what you are doing and that they come to you with trust
> and assurance that'whatever' you do is OK and acceptable . . .
> If a medical doctor tells you that a certain course of treatment is
> OK and that you should take this little pink pill and you will feel
> better - what would you do????? I always question my medical
> doctor, research the treatment (ask questions) before making an
> informed decision about my treatment. Don't you?
> If a doctor tells a person, you will need to remove the limb. Don't
> you want more information before undergoing such radical treatment?
> I would want to know a heck of lot more about the surgery and if
> something else could be done and about whether the one practicing
> (the surgeon in this case) is skilled at what he/she does, not to
> mention if they are ethical in their beliefs.
> This example is REAL diabetics all over the world are told that
> because of foot ulcers they need to "remove the limb" yet in medical
> facilities around the world the medical community is using hyperberic
> chambers to treat diabetics and "saving their limbs" Wow. The ones
> that get this treatment had to SEARCH for it and let the WORLD know
> it is out there. Just like You and I - we need to let everyone know
> what REFLEXLOGY is. Don't cloud it with our own slant on things some
> do. Keep it Pure and if you want to "include" other ideals in your
> treatment of clients, or "patients" do so as not to risk the
> physical, mental, OR moral well being of the ones you so dearly want
> to help and love.
>
> Please understand this is not a personal attack on anyone, just how I
> so deeply believe. We do live in a democratic contry - at least I
> do, and freedom of belief and speech should never besquashed. But as
> a medical doctor does have limitations so are all of us.
>
> I have much more I would like to say, but I will stop here.
>
> Take care and let's live, love and learn,
>
> Deb
>
> --- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, Evelyn McCormack
> <evelyn10267@ > wrote:
> >
> > Dear Kevin,
> >
> > Reading your words, I felt shocked too.
> > I feel compelled to answer to your text.
> >
> > I'll insert my answers between your lines.
> >
> > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> about Personality
> > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> >
> > I agree, all of them were very intelligent.
> >
> > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> what they are doing for
> > their clientele. Labeling is not a matter of choice it is a
> requirement for the protection of
> > the consumer.Deeper than the legal question to me is the ethical
> question. Is client fully and fairly
> > informed as to the nature of the services?That is a law in at least
> one state.
> >
> > I have patients, perhaps you have a clientele.. I have never
> considered my patients as "clients", because I am a Therapist. Have
> you ever heard a Doctor in Medicine talk about his clientele? I'd
> never go to one who speaks like that. Is it perhaps a cultural
> difference between you and me? I was born and grew up in Austria, I
> live now in the UK. I have never heard a practitioner talk about his
> or her "clientele" but about his or her patients. Perhaps terms can
> be different from place to place..
> >
> > I see not ethical question at all. Nobody is hiding anything from
> my patients. People who have given me the privilege of their
> confidence and trust must be respected. I don't provide a "service to
> my clients", I provide a treatment to my patient.
> >
> >
> > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> who really felt resentful
> > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> upon" with the "latest weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner
> had just learned.
> >
> > Who better than you know that there are many kinds of
> practitioners? Does it surprise you? Because of one your friend met
> you are putting an entire group inside the same sac? Come on, Kevin,
> there are good and responsible and there are unprofessional and
> charlatans everywhere. With a wide range of variants in the middle.
> >
> > As a matter of fact, haven't you ever heard a respectable Doctor of
> Medicine who experiments upon his patient with the latest article he
> has read or the latest word in equipment he has purchased?
> >
> > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> a problem with
> > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> attached. They are
> > dangerous.
> >
> > Who told you that we give personality assessments? This affirmation
> shows your total ignorance of the subject you are talking about and
> attacking without knowledge!!
> >
> > You talk about research but you haven't asked questions about how
> exactly do we apply our knowledge to Reflexology. You attack, attack
> and attack without giving others the opportunity to explain what is
> all about.
> >
> > I invite you to attend one of Avi Grrenberg or Moshce Kruchik
> seminars and perhaps you can have an idea of what do they teach and
> why have they become so famous and respected in the world of
> Reflexology. ..
> >
> > As for dangerous, I feel that it is more dangerous to me the person
> who fancies himself of knowing about something that he really
> doesn't, underestimating the real knowledge and skills of those who
> do.
> >
> > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> stable. They are not necessarily
> > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> simplest thing. Planning
> > with someone's head could backfire.
> >
> > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> Reflexology based on? Where is
> > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> contraindications? What are the safety
> > rules?
> >
> > Nobody will be able to answer the question by the simple fact that
> nobody before has talked about Personality Reflexology. Only you. You
> are the first who talked about Personality Reflexology, so I invite
> you to explain to all the members of this respectable forum what is
> that exactly.
> >
> > You are the first one who use this combination of terms. And if you
> ask my opinion, it is wrong. I don't need labels for everything as
> if Reflexology was comparable to a bottle of whisky....
> >
> > Reflexology is a Therapy based on a theory and we, Reflexologists
> around the world are trying to demonstrate that our theory is valid,
> to understand more and more how does it work and how deep it can
> get.
> >
> > Fortunately, Reflexology has many facets, not only one. Reflexology
> has many sources of knowledge, not only one based on
> suppositions. ...What kind of contraindications can have a good word,
> a good dialog with your patient, a good advice given on time....?
> What are you talking about......?
> >
> > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that..
> Not only to the clientele
> > but to this profession as well.
> >
> > Fortunately, not all the Reflexologists think like you do.
> >
> > More and more of us around the world are introducing to the
> practice of Reflexology what you consider dangerous. People like Avi,
> Chris or Moshe are not teaching us the way to criminality. The three
> of them are lovely people who devoted themselves to Reflexology and
> on the contrary, they have made and they are making a great
> contribution to Reflexology with the knowledge they have. If you
> suggest that what they teach is dangerous, so poor we.....! I should
> be a dangerous Therapist too.
> >
> > It's a pity that you didn't get properly assessed before you stated
> such an offence.. With such a statement, you are seriously offending
> the dignity of lots of Reflexologists around the world.
> >
> > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> It is a personality
> > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> >
> > I'll disappoint you once again. I'll give you that false argument,
> as you define it. I believe that it is based on holism.
> >
> > Kevin, please take a look at the world out there and see what is
> religious fundamentalism achieving with their arguments of "absolute
> true".
> > Just intollerance. ....
> >
> > So start throwing your bricks.
> > I threw the ones you've put on my hands.
> >
> > Kevin Kunz
> > Evelyn McCormack
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > ----- Original Message ----
> > From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogrou p s.com>
> > To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
> > Sent: Tuesday, 9 October, 2007 9:07:29 PM
> > Subject: [Reflexology Community ] I am shocked
> >
> > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> about Personality
> > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> >
> > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> what they are doing for
> > their clientele.
> > That is a law in at least one state.
> >
> > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> who really felt resentful
> > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> upon" with the "latest
> > weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner had just learned.
> >
> > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> a problem with
> > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> attached. They are
> > dangerous.
> >
> > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> stable. They are not necessarily
> > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> simplest thing. Planning
> > with someone's head could backfire.
> >
> > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> Reflexology based on? Where is
> > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> contraindications? What are the safety
> > rules?
> >
> > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that.
> Not only to the clientele
> > but to this profession as well.
> >
> > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> It is a personality
> > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> >
> > So start throwing your bricks.
> >
> > Kevin Kunz
> >
> >
> >
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#6368 From: Mauricio Kruchik <innaymauri@...>
Date: Fri Oct 12, 2007 4:58 pm
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a bit long
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Dear Kay,

A paperback writer meets a lady in a party.
When he introduces himself, she says: Oh! So you are Mr.X, the famous writer!
Nice to meet you! I've read your book!
And he says: Aha, so it was you....!

Kay, at least one person read my answer to you.
Thank you for your kindness in replying.
I am sure we share a great passion for Reflexology and from the way you express
your words, we have lots in common.

All the best,

Moshe Kruchik
www.maternityreflexology.net
www.theartofreflexology.com



----- Original Message ----
From: kay sainsbury <kay.sainsbury@...>
To: reflexologycommunity@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2007 4:35:43 PM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a bit
long

Dear Moshe

Thanks for your kind words. I have to say the same. I can feel the passion for
the things you do in your words. They come across very strongly and this too was
a pleasure to read. You put it so eloquently.

Thank you Kay

----- Original Message -----
From: Mauricio Kruchik
To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2007 1:37 AM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a bit
long

Dear all,

Thank you Kay for your long and enlightening post. Even if it was double the
size there was still a pleasure to read it.

The last days I felt like being inside the eye of the hurricane. Much water,
troubled water, had flown over a bridge that must unite us as Reflexologists.
Something very strange happened here, it was like an earthquake trying to
destroy every single piece of the great building we Reflexologists have been
building for years.
I agree with Eve, my dearest (may I call you student?) colleague. As you well
said, I also believe in Open-Minded Reflexology.

When you go to a Doctor and you tell him about your health problems, sometimes
he might say: it is all in your head.
You go home, frustrated and impotent and ask yourself: am I nuts or what? Should
I need to go to a Psychiatrist, a Psychologist. ...?
Our great privilege as Reflexologists is that when our patient comes to our
consultation, we can enjoy one whole hour and dedicate it to him as he needs it.
A busy doctor would certainly dedicate no more than 5 minutes to all his
complaints, write a couple of prescriptions without even looking at his
patient's eyes and scream: NEXT!

Then, after having being touring all the circles of hell, disappointed by what
tradicional medicine hasn't provided to him yet, come to us, Reflexologists, as
the last option, their last helping hand...
And then, we have an unusual and excellent opportunity to provide them:
DEDICATION and UNDERSTANDING.
Modern medicine has made great steps towards a good quality of life who all of
us try to enjoy. But sometimes, it acts like they have the right of stripping
the patient from all his capacity of self healing and from his own
responsibility for his own health. When you go to a doctor, you instintively
think that he is the one who is able to bring you healing, but you never think
that he will help you orientate to your own self healing. And this is only the
beginning of an endless vicious cycle where the patient doesn't know how to
break, and wher it doesn't have the opportunity to know why that he is suffering
this certain illness.

When the patient has come to our consultation, we can talk with him, ask him
questions that his physician has never asked to him. Without giving him answers,
we can help him find his own hints to understand why this is happening to him.
Sometimes it is a problem caused by a germ, a microbe, a bacteria. But how many
times is this illness caused by an attitude our patient has been developing for
years. Should we trigger his awareness? Do we have the right for it? Please show
me the written law where it is explicitly said that we cannot help another
person. We are allowed to use our knowledge and it is much better that we
develop a friendly way of communication, so our patient can trust us and feel
that we want to help him. Many illnesses develop precisely because the person
doesn't know his body and has never listened to him. He has deposited the
responsibility of taking care of it on the hands of somebody else.

I have a rule of iron in my practice, which is in fact just a starting point for
further observation. My patient can tell me a lot of lies and tell me lots of
excuses about his own health, but his feet won't lie to me.
When I close the door of my room, it is just my patient and me. He is my master.
If he wants to talk, I'll let him. If he prefers to keep silence, I'll be
silent. I will never interfere with his decisions. When he feels open enough to
talk and to ask, I will talk and I will answer. Being gentle. Without attacking
or trying to preech over his conscience. I'll try to show him the way to
understand why is he suffering his illness, based on a deep holistic
understanding. I always try to help my patients understand that there is always
a reason for what they are suffering and it can become a great opportunity to
understand from mistakes. As Evelyn well said, without being a judge, without
pointing this is right and this is wrong. I will be there to escort him through
the path of his own truth.

His feet show not only the physical, but also the emotional and the spiritual.
Yes, Kay, I am sure that if we talked like that 400 years ago, we were hanged
from our nails.
Look at Hyppocrates. ...2500 years ago he said that there are four main fluids
(or humours) flowing through the body: blood, flegm, black bile and yellow bile.
This is why being on a good humour means to be on a good mood. He meant a good
combination of humours is what makes the spirit flow over the body. Hyppocrates!
The father of medicine! Please show me a doctor who talks like that today. He
will be accused to be a charlatan! Hyppocrates theories were the beginning of
medicine and medicine was born as a holistic science. He also described the four
types of character: sanguine for blood, the happy and smiling person, flegmatic
for phlegm, the lethargic and apathic person, the colleric (coln in greek means
bile) to define the guy dominated by yellow bile= anger, and the melancholic
(from greek mellan= black, cholic= bile) dominated by black bile, sad and
depressive.

How many of this holistic approach have we lost through the years? As
Reflexologists, we have a golden opportunity to interpret the whole world
represented by the two feet. The feet explain the physical, the emotional and
the mind, the one that links between them. Reflexology is not only where and
when to press or what is the best technique to use. Reflexology is a whole world
of understanding on the bottom of your body, your feet represent who you are and
why you are like this. They represent your personality, so a whole knowledge of
personality can also be trusted from the enormous well of information that your
feet show.

How curious! The word Personality comes from the ancient Latin: Per Sonare (to
sound, to echoe a voice), a term born in the ancient Roman theatre. Theatres
were open air, in a period in which there were not amplifiers, so they needed
something to boost the volume of their voices. So they used masks, the famous
masks of the Roman theatre. These masks were called PERSONAE, . The PERSONAGE
was the one who carried the mask. The term PERSONALITY has been rooted as the
expression used to define what's beyond our attitudes, the one who carries the
mask.

Many times we are so much into our religion that we forget about God. Many times
we are so much into research that we forget our own intuition and our own
senses.
Research is useful, but intuition and dialog is beautiful. When my little
daughter comes to me crying and complaining of tummy ache every time I have to
fly abroad to deliver a course, I know that she is giving a physical expression
to her frustration and sadness. I don't need a research for that. But if I had
one, I would certainly read it with pleasure.

Now there is a world movement, a great, pleasant one> FREE HUGS, to make you
feel good. Are they allowed to do that? Have they done a Research to test the
effects of a hug? Or are there some other non written elements that make humans
still develop a primitive sense of self help through their own intuition,
collective help and cooperation?
Is there a research made about the effect of love? Why do people get married
then?

Until all the necessary research in this world is complete and done, we,
Reflexologists and loving human beings, still have our intuition and an open
mind to understand the secrets of our own nature.

With great love

Mauricio (Moshe) Kruchik
www.maternityreflex ology.net
www.theartofreflexo logy.com

If you are carrying with you a certain illness, you

Reflexology is one, it is a therapy by own right and we must call ourselves a
profession by own right.

----- Original Message ----
From: kay sainsbury <kay.sainsbury@ dsl.pipex. com>
To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2007 12:06:00 AM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a bit
long

Dear All
I think we must be open minded. As has been said there are no rights and wrongs,
and even in a discussion like this there is a lot of common ground. There is a
lot going on out there, research, work being done on genetics, physics, healing
modalities and their efficacy that even takes the medical profession to new and
wonderful places so maybe we should too. Personally I wish I had time to read
everything and take everything on board. But I do remember a story once told to
me about some monkeys on different islands and when faced with similar problems
of survival it was shown they all more or less came up with the same solution.
So what is happening in America right now, with the limitations put on
reflexology and the law passed that says you have to become part of the massage
qualification, is yet another step that is required by outside sources to
"legitimise" what we do. It has happened in other places and with time it has
been overcome.

When the use of healing modalities goes up in the UK, you can bet your bottom
dollar that the next day in the broadsheets (the more upmarket papers) there is
an article directed at a so-called intelligent section of the population, which
will demean and lower them. It is quite often reflexology. They used to do it to
chiropractics, osteopaths and acupuncturists, but they are now accepted in their
own right. Unfortunately in all of history there has been a lot of fear borne
through misunderstanding and prejudice. Same here in the UK. Only a few hundred
years ago we (reflexologists) would have all been hung by the neck or drowned as
witches, heretics and the like for doing the work of the devil (and some
religions still believe so...). So we have come a long way already.

In England, where I am from, it is enough that you have studied at a
professional level (and yes, it is a profession) are fully qualified and
insured. We do not need a licence to practice (unless it involves breaking the
skin as in acupuncture) but the most successful practitioners do belong to bona
fide associations who are striving to bring educational standards up to a point
where all professional bodies and their teaching methods are integrated. No-one
should work without insurance. There are still grey areas in this country and
basically any beauty therapist can go on a course and say they are a
reflexologist :( Personally I frown on that, but I long ago gave up my shield
and charger to go and fight the good fight.) I have found through experience
that whilst I am fully booked with a waiting list because my reflexology makes a
difference to people, others, including those who have done a diploma or a
college course (arghhh), get very few return
clients.

The true test of the efficacy of a particular modality is your return clientele.
If what you are doing works and is bringing your clients and referrals from them
back again (I have clients on my books for 5 years plus as new problems surface
for them) surely that is the true test.

I personally also find that people want to know. People are intelligent on the
whole. They have read about other modalities. The most common question I ask is
can you have Reiki while having reflexology. (Though I don't do Reiki) People
are becoming aware that there are other "tools" available to them, especially in
this country when the NHS has failed so many people through waiting times and
ineffective or too many pills. People throughout the world are taking back
control. They are seeking out our services from a desire to be more natural;
they don't want to keep popping pills. They read up things on the internet. They
ask what I can do for them. What does this mean. What does a certain colour
mean. Personally I would feel inadequate as a therapist, remembering i am taking
their money, if I could not answer their questions with at least the basics.

As for me, when I learned reflexology no-one explained to me about how the
body's energy (which is fluid) can fluctuate. Nobody explained to me that as a
therapist I could suffer "transference" . Very shortly after starting out I
would know what the person's problem is when they entered the room because I
felt it in my body. I was open and receiving and was not taught how to block
that and be grounded and ready to give my session clearly. It was only on a
workshop that I was allowed to feel my own body energy (aura) fluctuating and
when I went to a linking workshop, which doubled up with a work shop by Moss
Arnold on meridians, that lots of pennies dropped. We shouldn't even be taught
reflexology without going into body energy, how emotions affect us, and the
transference of energy between two people. In my opinion therefore all these
other modalities should come before traditional reflexology, not afterwards!

To have no fear is very liberating. I have worked with every contraindication
listed in every reflexology book I have found, with 100% success. Not through
stubborn-ness, but because the opportunities came up and I went with the flow.
My fear is that as therapists if we don't go with the flow (of life, and all its
many shapes and colours reflected in the more "holistic" aspects of reflexology,
including what the feet show me at every level not just physical), then we will
become stagnated. Then we become mediocre, and cannot bend with our clients.

The science of reflexology is there for all to study. If you want to be rigid in
its application and that works for you - great. There is so much benefit to be
had. If you want to go beyond the original concept - and there are many who have
and have had a struggle getting their work accepted - then that should be fine
too. Then it becomes an art.

Give a little in your practice .... the rewards are indescribable.
With love

----- Original Message -----
From: Evelyn McCormack
To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Wednesday, October 10, 2007 4:24 PM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too

Dear Kevin,

I read your post and couldn't agree with you more.

Reflexology will never die, it is only growing and despite all the people out
there trying to damage our reputation and our PROFESSION, nothing but human
warmth with a healing and loving spirit would be able to substitute us for
machines or electrodes.

No machine will be able never to substitute the warmth of a hug, a human hug. No
lawyer and no journalist will be able never to destroy people's hearts.
Reflexology is stepping forward, I am glad that Moshe brought all those
outstanding news from Australia. I was so happy yesterday when I read his
post!!! Everyone of us should cheer what's happening now with Reflexology.

I've learnt on your books. When my youngest son was a newborn, somebody handed
me The Complete Parents' guide to Reflexology.

I am afraid of those Reflexologists who claim having founded Reflexology and try
to seed on the ignorance of other people with no more backup than a monetary and
commercial objective. There is a very famous Reflexologist out there who claims
having that credit....of having founded Reflexology. Not you. I am afraid of
those Reflexologists who invent stories, lie or steal techniques from other
people and immediately create and make a trademark with a bombastic name as if
it was their invention or discovery. I am afraid of these people's low level of
ethics, so low that they will never be able to understand what the word ethics
mean. I know who am I talking about.

Therefore, I had a problem in matching the same person whose books I read with
passion and seeded so much for the welfare of Reflexology as you did with the
person who attacked without a reason other sources of knowledge that YES can
enrich Reflexology as a Therapy.

Best wishes

Lov,

Eve

----- Original Message ----
From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogrou p s.com>
To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Wednesday, 10 October, 2007 4:41:30 PM
Subject: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too

I started this and I don't want to continue a flame war on this group. So after
a good
night's sleep let me tell you what is bothering me.

We are not a profession.. . yet. We may have the trimming and look the part but
we are still
in infancy. Why do I say that?

1) We hire a sociologist 27 years ago to help us figure out how to help
reflexology
become a profession. Her major point was to become a profession you need a
systematic
body of knowledge. If you don't you have a weak profession which usually has
little
prestige and low pay.

2) That same year we published The Complete Guide to Foot Reflexology. It was
one of the
hardest struggle Barbara and I ever faced. But we felt compelled to do since
even during
the brief time we saw the field changing. And the field of reflexology was yet
to be
documented. It was all verbal tradition.

Publishing that book wasn't something I wanted to do because coming from an
academic
family. I never what was involved and the sacrifice it meant. But it was worse.

No publisher would take us so we had to self publish until Prentice Hall saw the
popularity
of reflexology and "found" us. they can originally returned "our baby" unopened.

But we had at least documented this traditional healing modality. And what ever
happens
to change the field there is a record.

3) The hard part was naming techniques and defining things that hadn't really
been
defined before. Issues went on for weeks and at times months. "Holding hand" and
"working hand" was a real struggle. Whether to use the traditional description
of
techniques such as "thumb walking" became a major debate..

And then trying to describe the techniques was mind boggling. Barbara was really
the
brains behind this. Instead of 28 different techniques she simplified them into
three
techniques plus desserts. It was a revolution. Suddenly more people could do
reflexology
because it had been simplified.

4) And then just as we put out Hand and Foot Reflexology: A Self Help Guide we
were put
out of business in the city of Albuquerque. We weren't qualified to practice
reflexology
because we didn't have a massage license. We would have had to gone to a local
massage
school to take training in our own book to be qualified.

It took 5 very long years to reverse that decision. Then only a couple of years
later it was
attempted again. It took us 31 meeting to get an exemption from the massage law.

The definition was absolutely critical. It had to put us outside the massage law
and not
infringe on other professions.

So want is the point of all this. You won't get rich being a writer but you will
preserve
something even if it is only a little piece. And you will help generations to
come.

Labeling and defining your practices is absolutely critical. There is no real
room for error.

And don't look to me if you can't come up with a name for this what -do -you
-call it field.
That's you job.

And yes I am concern about the impact of each and every little addition to the
field of
reflexology. I feel we have earned the right to challenge the additions to this
field and
push the inventors to document the efficacy, safety and mechanism of action as
well as
the origin of what they are proposing.

I am concerned that we may not exist as "reflexologists" in the next few years,
There are
people out there testing reflexology for the neurotransmitters involved. There
are real
time ECG's and EKG's tests going on to measure heart rate function and
brain-waves. Will
we be obsolete before too long because we failed to become a systematic body of
knowledge.

And I am concerned about the latest fad. Strong professions have peer review to
guard
against the latest fad. We don't. And so the what-do-call- it field is a danger.

Our fight has never ended. And it will never end if you love this craft as
passionately we
are.

So if you really believe this is a necessary and important addition to the field
of reflexology
be ready to defend it and don't think we won't notice if it is being slipped in
through the
back door.

Until we all embrace our systematic body of knowledge and all become builders in
that
body of knowledge we are still infants and easy prey to those who see the
potential of
reflexology monetarily without the heart we all have.

Kevin Kunz

BTW Barbara and I had never been writes before The Complete Guide to Foot
Reflexology.
Barbara learned to illustrate to do that book. And the best part is we had no
money. But
that is another story.

--- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, learnecm <no_reply@.. .> wrote:
>
>
>
> Hello Evelyn,
>
> After many hours of thinking on your reply to Kevin as well as how I
> replied back to you. I must admit I seemed to myself a tad harsh.
>
> But, after a good night's sleep and again thinking more about your
> posting, I decided to FINISH what I started to say on the last
> posting.
>
> Before I get too upset at you wanting to TREAT PATIENTS I should have
> asked where you received YOUR medical degree. Maybe you are an MD.
> I hae met some wholistic practitioners who are. And some who
> actually promote Reflexology. For example Doctor Susa Wong MD on
> Aboutus.com as well as many who have co published bookds on
> reflexology. So that was unfair of me to assume you were not a
> medical doctor. If you are, my apologies, you do have the RIGHT to
> prescribe, diagnose and treat for specific conditions, however
> looking at the ethical side of things, even medical doctors should
> not claim to cure everyone they meet.
>
> One more note on the fact that you feel your "patients", should not
> have to told what you are doing and that they come to you with trust
> and assurance that'whatever' you do is OK and acceptable . . .
> If a medical doctor tells you that a certain course of treatment is
> OK and that you should take this little pink pill and you will feel
> better - what would you do????? I always question my medical
> doctor, research the treatment (ask questions) before making an
> informed decision about my treatment. Don't you?
> If a doctor tells a person, you will need to remove the limb. Don't
> you want more information before undergoing such radical treatment?
> I would want to know a heck of lot more about the surgery and if
> something else could be done and about whether the one practicing
> (the surgeon in this case) is skilled at what he/she does, not to
> mention if they are ethical in their beliefs.
> This example is REAL diabetics all over the world are told that
> because of foot ulcers they need to "remove the limb" yet in medical
> facilities around the world the medical community is using hyperberic
> chambers to treat diabetics and "saving their limbs" Wow. The ones
> that get this treatment had to SEARCH for it and let the WORLD know
> it is out there. Just like You and I - we need to let everyone know
> what REFLEXLOGY is. Don't cloud it with our own slant on things some
> do. Keep it Pure and if you want to "include" other ideals in your
> treatment of clients, or "patients" do so as not to risk the
> physical, mental, OR moral well being of the ones you so dearly want
> to help and love.
>
> Please understand this is not a personal attack on anyone, just how I
> so deeply believe. We do live in a democratic contry - at least I
> do, and freedom of belief and speech should never besquashed. But as
> a medical doctor does have limitations so are all of us.
>
> I have much more I would like to say, but I will stop here.
>
> Take care and let's live, love and learn,
>
> Deb
>
> --- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, Evelyn McCormack
> <evelyn10267@ > wrote:
> >
> > Dear Kevin,
> >
> > Reading your words, I felt shocked too.
> > I feel compelled to answer to your text.
> >
> > I'll insert my answers between your lines.
> >
> > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> about Personality
> > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> >
> > I agree, all of them were very intelligent.
> >
> > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> what they are doing for
> > their clientele. Labeling is not a matter of choice it is a
> requirement for the protection of
> > the consumer.Deeper than the legal question to me is the ethical
> question. Is client fully and fairly
> > informed as to the nature of the services?That is a law in at least
> one state.
> >
> > I have patients, perhaps you have a clientele.. I have never
> considered my patients as "clients", because I am a Therapist. Have
> you ever heard a Doctor in Medicine talk about his clientele? I'd
> never go to one who speaks like that. Is it perhaps a cultural
> difference between you and me? I was born and grew up in Austria, I
> live now in the UK. I have never heard a practitioner talk about his
> or her "clientele" but about his or her patients. Perhaps terms can
> be different from place to place..
> >
> > I see not ethical question at all. Nobody is hiding anything from
> my patients. People who have given me the privilege of their
> confidence and trust must be respected. I don't provide a "service to
> my clients", I provide a treatment to my patient.
> >
> >
> > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> who really felt resentful
> > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> upon" with the "latest weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner
> had just learned.
> >
> > Who better than you know that there are many kinds of
> practitioners? Does it surprise you? Because of one your friend met
> you are putting an entire group inside the same sac? Come on, Kevin,
> there are good and responsible and there are unprofessional and
> charlatans everywhere. With a wide range of variants in the middle.
> >
> > As a matter of fact, haven't you ever heard a respectable Doctor of
> Medicine who experiments upon his patient with the latest article he
> has read or the latest word in equipment he has purchased?
> >
> > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> a problem with
> > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> attached. They are
> > dangerous.
> >
> > Who told you that we give personality assessments? This affirmation
> shows your total ignorance of the subject you are talking about and
> attacking without knowledge!!
> >
> > You talk about research but you haven't asked questions about how
> exactly do we apply our knowledge to Reflexology. You attack, attack
> and attack without giving others the opportunity to explain what is
> all about.
> >
> > I invite you to attend one of Avi Grrenberg or Moshce Kruchik
> seminars and perhaps you can have an idea of what do they teach and
> why have they become so famous and respected in the world of
> Reflexology. ..
> >
> > As for dangerous, I feel that it is more dangerous to me the person
> who fancies himself of knowing about something that he really
> doesn't, underestimating the real knowledge and skills of those who
> do.
> >
> > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> stable. They are not necessarily
> > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> simplest thing. Planning
> > with someone's head could backfire.
> >
> > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> Reflexology based on? Where is
> > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> contraindications? What are the safety
> > rules?
> >
> > Nobody will be able to answer the question by the simple fact that
> nobody before has talked about Personality Reflexology. Only you. You
> are the first who talked about Personality Reflexology, so I invite
> you to explain to all the members of this respectable forum what is
> that exactly.
> >
> > You are the first one who use this combination of terms. And if you
> ask my opinion, it is wrong. I don't need labels for everything as
> if Reflexology was comparable to a bottle of whisky....
> >
> > Reflexology is a Therapy based on a theory and we, Reflexologists
> around the world are trying to demonstrate that our theory is valid,
> to understand more and more how does it work and how deep it can
> get.
> >
> > Fortunately, Reflexology has many facets, not only one. Reflexology
> has many sources of knowledge, not only one based on
> suppositions. ...What kind of contraindications can have a good word,
> a good dialog with your patient, a good advice given on time....?
> What are you talking about......?
> >
> > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that..
> Not only to the clientele
> > but to this profession as well.
> >
> > Fortunately, not all the Reflexologists think like you do.
> >
> > More and more of us around the world are introducing to the
> practice of Reflexology what you consider dangerous. People like Avi,
> Chris or Moshe are not teaching us the way to criminality. The three
> of them are lovely people who devoted themselves to Reflexology and
> on the contrary, they have made and they are making a great
> contribution to Reflexology with the knowledge they have. If you
> suggest that what they teach is dangerous, so poor we.....! I should
> be a dangerous Therapist too.
> >
> > It's a pity that you didn't get properly assessed before you stated
> such an offence.. With such a statement, you are seriously offending
> the dignity of lots of Reflexologists around the world.
> >
> > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> It is a personality
> > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> >
> > I'll disappoint you once again. I'll give you that false argument,
> as you define it. I believe that it is based on holism.
> >
> > Kevin, please take a look at the world out there and see what is
> religious fundamentalism achieving with their arguments of "absolute
> true".
> > Just intollerance. ....
> >
> > So start throwing your bricks.
> > I threw the ones you've put on my hands.
> >
> > Kevin Kunz
> > Evelyn McCormack
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > ----- Original Message ----
> > From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogrou p s.com>
> > To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
> > Sent: Tuesday, 9 October, 2007 9:07:29 PM
> > Subject: [Reflexology Community ] I am shocked
> >
> > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> about Personality
> > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> >
> > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> what they are doing for
> > their clientele.
> > That is a law in at least one state.
> >
> > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> who really felt resentful
> > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> upon" with the "latest
> > weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner had just learned.
> >
> > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> a problem with
> > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> attached. They are
> > dangerous.
> >
> > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> stable. They are not necessarily
> > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> simplest thing. Planning
> > with someone's head could backfire.
> >
> > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> Reflexology based on? Where is
> > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> contraindications? What are the safety
> > rules?
> >
> > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that.
> Not only to the clientele
> > but to this profession as well.
> >
> > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> It is a personality
> > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> >
> > So start throwing your bricks.
> >
> > Kevin Kunz
> >
> >
> >
> >
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#6377 From: Evelyn McCormack <evelyn10267@...>
Date: Fri Oct 12, 2007 11:21 pm
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Dear Kay,

Your words sounded to me like a healing balm on an hurt heart.
Can't agree with you more and wish to give you a big hug. May I? I send it to
you with these words.

I was delighted by the wisdom and the love you dedicated to write it.
What an example of love, friendship and understanding you have given to every
one of us!
There is so much to learn from you too.

Thank you for that.
Lov

Eve





----- Original Message ----
From: kay sainsbury <kay.sainsbury@...>
To: reflexologycommunity@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Thursday, 11 October, 2007 12:06:00 AM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a bit
long

Dear All
I think we must be open minded.. As has been said there are no rights and
wrongs, and even in a discussion like this there is a lot of common ground.
There is a lot going on out there, research, work being done on genetics,
physics, healing modalities and their efficacy that even takes the medical
profession to new and wonderful places so maybe we should too. Personally I wish
I had time to read everything and take everything on board. But I do remember a
story once told to me about some monkeys on different islands and when faced
with similar problems of survival it was shown they all more or less came up
with the same solution. So what is happening in America right now, with the
limitations put on reflexology and the law passed that says you have to become
part of the massage qualification, is yet another step that is required by
outside sources to "legitimise" what we do. It has happened in other places and
with time it has been overcome.

When the use of healing modalities goes up in the UK, you can bet your bottom
dollar that the next day in the broadsheets (the more upmarket papers) there is
an article directed at a so-called intelligent section of the population, which
will demean and lower them. It is quite often reflexology. They used to do it to
chiropractics, osteopaths and acupuncturists, but they are now accepted in their
own right. Unfortunately in all of history there has been a lot of fear borne
through misunderstanding and prejudice. Same here in the UK. Only a few hundred
years ago we (reflexologists) would have all been hung by the neck or drowned as
witches, heretics and the like for doing the work of the devil (and some
religions still believe so...). So we have come a long way already.

In England, where I am from, it is enough that you have studied at a
professional level (and yes, it is a profession) are fully qualified and
insured. We do not need a licence to practice (unless it involves breaking the
skin as in acupuncture) but the most successful practitioners do belong to bona
fide associations who are striving to bring educational standards up to a point
where all professional bodies and their teaching methods are integrated. No-one
should work without insurance. There are still grey areas in this country and
basically any beauty therapist can go on a course and say they are a
reflexologist :( Personally I frown on that, but I long ago gave up my shield
and charger to go and fight the good fight.) I have found through experience
that whilst I am fully booked with a waiting list because my reflexology makes a
difference to people, others, including those who have done a diploma or a
college course (arghhh), get very few return
clients.

The true test of the efficacy of a particular modality is your return clientele.
If what you are doing works and is bringing your clients and referrals from them
back again (I have clients on my books for 5 years plus as new problems surface
for them) surely that is the true test.

I personally also find that people want to know. People are intelligent on the
whole. They have read about other modalities. The most common question I ask is
can you have Reiki while having reflexology. (Though I don't do Reiki) People
are becoming aware that there are other "tools" available to them, especially in
this country when the NHS has failed so many people through waiting times and
ineffective or too many pills. People throughout the world are taking back
control. They are seeking out our services from a desire to be more natural;
they don't want to keep popping pills. They read up things on the internet. They
ask what I can do for them. What does this mean. What does a certain colour
mean. Personally I would feel inadequate as a therapist, remembering i am taking
their money, if I could not answer their questions with at least the basics.

As for me, when I learned reflexology no-one explained to me about how the
body's energy (which is fluid) can fluctuate. Nobody explained to me that as a
therapist I could suffer "transference" . Very shortly after starting out I
would know what the person's problem is when they entered the room because I
felt it in my body. I was open and receiving and was not taught how to block
that and be grounded and ready to give my session clearly. It was only on a
workshop that I was allowed to feel my own body energy (aura) fluctuating and
when I went to a linking workshop, which doubled up with a work shop by Moss
Arnold on meridians, that lots of pennies dropped. We shouldn't even be taught
reflexology without going into body energy, how emotions affect us, and the
transference of energy between two people. In my opinion therefore all these
other modalities should come before traditional reflexology, not afterwards!

To have no fear is very liberating. I have worked with every contraindication
listed in every reflexology book I have found, with 100% success. Not through
stubborn-ness, but because the opportunities came up and I went with the flow.
My fear is that as therapists if we don't go with the flow (of life, and all its
many shapes and colours reflected in the more "holistic" aspects of reflexology,
including what the feet show me at every level not just physical), then we will
become stagnated. Then we become mediocre, and cannot bend with our clients.

The science of reflexology is there for all to study. If you want to be rigid in
its application and that works for you - great. There is so much benefit to be
had. If you want to go beyond the original concept - and there are many who have
and have had a struggle getting their work accepted - then that should be fine
too. Then it becomes an art.

Give a little in your practice .... the rewards are indescribable.
With love

----- Original Message -----
From: Evelyn McCormack
To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Wednesday, October 10, 2007 4:24 PM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too

Dear Kevin,

I read your post and couldn't agree with you more.

Reflexology will never die, it is only growing and despite all the people out
there trying to damage our reputation and our PROFESSION, nothing but human
warmth with a healing and loving spirit would be able to substitute us for
machines or electrodes.

No machine will be able never to substitute the warmth of a hug, a human hug. No
lawyer and no journalist will be able never to destroy people's hearts.
Reflexology is stepping forward, I am glad that Moshe brought all those
outstanding news from Australia. I was so happy yesterday when I read his
post!!! Everyone of us should cheer what's happening now with Reflexology.

I've learnt on your books. When my youngest son was a newborn, somebody handed
me The Complete Parents' guide to Reflexology.

I am afraid of those Reflexologists who claim having founded Reflexology and try
to seed on the ignorance of other people with no more backup than a monetary and
commercial objective. There is a very famous Reflexologist out there who claims
having that credit....of having founded Reflexology. Not you. I am afraid of
those Reflexologists who invent stories, lie or steal techniques from other
people and immediately create and make a trademark with a bombastic name as if
it was their invention or discovery. I am afraid of these people's low level of
ethics, so low that they will never be able to understand what the word ethics
mean. I know who am I talking about.

Therefore, I had a problem in matching the same person whose books I read with
passion and seeded so much for the welfare of Reflexology as you did with the
person who attacked without a reason other sources of knowledge that YES can
enrich Reflexology as a Therapy.

Best wishes

Lov,

Eve

----- Original Message ----
From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogroup s.com>
To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Wednesday, 10 October, 2007 4:41:30 PM
Subject: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too

I started this and I don't want to continue a flame war on this group. So after
a good
night's sleep let me tell you what is bothering me.

We are not a profession.. . yet. We may have the trimming and look the part but
we are still
in infancy. Why do I say that?

1) We hire a sociologist 27 years ago to help us figure out how to help
reflexology
become a profession. Her major point was to become a profession you need a
systematic
body of knowledge. If you don't you have a weak profession which usually has
little
prestige and low pay.

2) That same year we published The Complete Guide to Foot Reflexology. It was
one of the
hardest struggle Barbara and I ever faced. But we felt compelled to do since
even during
the brief time we saw the field changing. And the field of reflexology was yet
to be
documented. It was all verbal tradition.

Publishing that book wasn't something I wanted to do because coming from an
academic
family. I never what was involved and the sacrifice it meant. But it was worse.

No publisher would take us so we had to self publish until Prentice Hall saw the
popularity
of reflexology and "found" us. they can originally returned "our baby" unopened.

But we had at least documented this traditional healing modality. And what ever
happens
to change the field there is a record.

3) The hard part was naming techniques and defining things that hadn't really
been
defined before. Issues went on for weeks and at times months. "Holding hand" and
"working hand" was a real struggle. Whether to use the traditional description
of
techniques such as "thumb walking" became a major debate..

And then trying to describe the techniques was mind boggling. Barbara was really
the
brains behind this. Instead of 28 different techniques she simplified them into
three
techniques plus desserts. It was a revolution. Suddenly more people could do
reflexology
because it had been simplified.

4) And then just as we put out Hand and Foot Reflexology: A Self Help Guide we
were put
out of business in the city of Albuquerque. We weren't qualified to practice
reflexology
because we didn't have a massage license. We would have had to gone to a local
massage
school to take training in our own book to be qualified.

It took 5 very long years to reverse that decision. Then only a couple of years
later it was
attempted again. It took us 31 meeting to get an exemption from the massage law.

The definition was absolutely critical. It had to put us outside the massage law
and not
infringe on other professions.

So want is the point of all this. You won't get rich being a writer but you will
preserve
something even if it is only a little piece. And you will help generations to
come.

Labeling and defining your practices is absolutely critical. There is no real
room for error.

And don't look to me if you can't come up with a name for this what -do -you
-call it field.
That's you job.

And yes I am concern about the impact of each and every little addition to the
field of
reflexology. I feel we have earned the right to challenge the additions to this
field and
push the inventors to document the efficacy, safety and mechanism of action as
well as
the origin of what they are proposing.

I am concerned that we may not exist as "reflexologists" in the next few years,
There are
people out there testing reflexology for the neurotransmitters involved. There
are real
time ECG's and EKG's tests going on to measure heart rate function and
brain-waves. Will
we be obsolete before too long because we failed to become a systematic body of
knowledge.

And I am concerned about the latest fad. Strong professions have peer review to
guard
against the latest fad. We don't. And so the what-do-call- it field is a danger.

Our fight has never ended. And it will never end if you love this craft as
passionately we
are.

So if you really believe this is a necessary and important addition to the field
of reflexology
be ready to defend it and don't think we won't notice if it is being slipped in
through the
back door.

Until we all embrace our systematic body of knowledge and all become builders in
that
body of knowledge we are still infants and easy prey to those who see the
potential of
reflexology monetarily without the heart we all have.

Kevin Kunz

BTW Barbara and I had never been writes before The Complete Guide to Foot
Reflexology.
Barbara learned to illustrate to do that book. And the best part is we had no
money. But
that is another story.

--- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, learnecm <no_reply@.. .> wrote:
>
>
>
> Hello Evelyn,
>
> After many hours of thinking on your reply to Kevin as well as how I
> replied back to you. I must admit I seemed to myself a tad harsh.
>
> But, after a good night's sleep and again thinking more about your
> posting, I decided to FINISH what I started to say on the last
> posting.
>
> Before I get too upset at you wanting to TREAT PATIENTS I should have
> asked where you received YOUR medical degree. Maybe you are an MD.
> I hae met some wholistic practitioners who are. And some who
> actually promote Reflexology. For example Doctor Susa Wong MD on
> Aboutus.com as well as many who have co published bookds on
> reflexology. So that was unfair of me to assume you were not a
> medical doctor. If you are, my apologies, you do have the RIGHT to
> prescribe, diagnose and treat for specific conditions, however
> looking at the ethical side of things, even medical doctors should
> not claim to cure everyone they meet.
>
> One more note on the fact that you feel your "patients", should not
> have to told what you are doing and that they come to you with trust
> and assurance that'whatever' you do is OK and acceptable . . .
> If a medical doctor tells you that a certain course of treatment is
> OK and that you should take this little pink pill and you will feel
> better - what would you do????? I always question my medical
> doctor, research the treatment (ask questions) before making an
> informed decision about my treatment. Don't you?
> If a doctor tells a person, you will need to remove the limb. Don't
> you want more information before undergoing such radical treatment?
> I would want to know a heck of lot more about the surgery and if
> something else could be done and about whether the one practicing
> (the surgeon in this case) is skilled at what he/she does, not to
> mention if they are ethical in their beliefs.
> This example is REAL diabetics all over the world are told that
> because of foot ulcers they need to "remove the limb" yet in medical
> facilities around the world the medical community is using hyperberic
> chambers to treat diabetics and "saving their limbs" Wow. The ones
> that get this treatment had to SEARCH for it and let the WORLD know
> it is out there. Just like You and I - we need to let everyone know
> what REFLEXLOGY is. Don't cloud it with our own slant on things some
> do. Keep it Pure and if you want to "include" other ideals in your
> treatment of clients, or "patients" do so as not to risk the
> physical, mental, OR moral well being of the ones you so dearly want
> to help and love.
>
> Please understand this is not a personal attack on anyone, just how I
> so deeply believe. We do live in a democratic contry - at least I
> do, and freedom of belief and speech should never besquashed. But as
> a medical doctor does have limitations so are all of us.
>
> I have much more I would like to say, but I will stop here.
>
> Take care and let's live, love and learn,
>
> Deb
>
> --- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, Evelyn McCormack
> <evelyn10267@ > wrote:
> >
> > Dear Kevin,
> >
> > Reading your words, I felt shocked too.
> > I feel compelled to answer to your text.
> >
> > I'll insert my answers between your lines.
> >
> > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> about Personality
> > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> >
> > I agree, all of them were very intelligent.
> >
> > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> what they are doing for
> > their clientele. Labeling is not a matter of choice it is a
> requirement for the protection of
> > the consumer.Deeper than the legal question to me is the ethical
> question. Is client fully and fairly
> > informed as to the nature of the services?That is a law in at least
> one state.
> >
> > I have patients, perhaps you have a clientele.. I have never
> considered my patients as "clients", because I am a Therapist. Have
> you ever heard a Doctor in Medicine talk about his clientele? I'd
> never go to one who speaks like that. Is it perhaps a cultural
> difference between you and me? I was born and grew up in Austria, I
> live now in the UK. I have never heard a practitioner talk about his
> or her "clientele" but about his or her patients. Perhaps terms can
> be different from place to place..
> >
> > I see not ethical question at all. Nobody is hiding anything from
> my patients. People who have given me the privilege of their
> confidence and trust must be respected. I don't provide a "service to
> my clients", I provide a treatment to my patient.
> >
> >
> > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> who really felt resentful
> > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> upon" with the "latest weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner
> had just learned.
> >
> > Who better than you know that there are many kinds of
> practitioners? Does it surprise you? Because of one your friend met
> you are putting an entire group inside the same sac? Come on, Kevin,
> there are good and responsible and there are unprofessional and
> charlatans everywhere. With a wide range of variants in the middle.
> >
> > As a matter of fact, haven't you ever heard a respectable Doctor of
> Medicine who experiments upon his patient with the latest article he
> has read or the latest word in equipment he has purchased?
> >
> > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> a problem with
> > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> attached. They are
> > dangerous.
> >
> > Who told you that we give personality assessments? This affirmation
> shows your total ignorance of the subject you are talking about and
> attacking without knowledge!!
> >
> > You talk about research but you haven't asked questions about how
> exactly do we apply our knowledge to Reflexology. You attack, attack
> and attack without giving others the opportunity to explain what is
> all about.
> >
> > I invite you to attend one of Avi Grrenberg or Moshce Kruchik
> seminars and perhaps you can have an idea of what do they teach and
> why have they become so famous and respected in the world of
> Reflexology. ..
> >
> > As for dangerous, I feel that it is more dangerous to me the person
> who fancies himself of knowing about something that he really
> doesn't, underestimating the real knowledge and skills of those who
> do.
> >
> > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> stable. They are not necessarily
> > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> simplest thing. Planning
> > with someone's head could backfire.
> >
> > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> Reflexology based on? Where is
> > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> contraindications? What are the safety
> > rules?
> >
> > Nobody will be able to answer the question by the simple fact that
> nobody before has talked about Personality Reflexology. Only you. You
> are the first who talked about Personality Reflexology, so I invite
> you to explain to all the members of this respectable forum what is
> that exactly.
> >
> > You are the first one who use this combination of terms. And if you
> ask my opinion, it is wrong. I don't need labels for everything as
> if Reflexology was comparable to a bottle of whisky....
> >
> > Reflexology is a Therapy based on a theory and we, Reflexologists
> around the world are trying to demonstrate that our theory is valid,
> to understand more and more how does it work and how deep it can
> get.
> >
> > Fortunately, Reflexology has many facets, not only one. Reflexology
> has many sources of knowledge, not only one based on
> suppositions. ...What kind of contraindications can have a good word,
> a good dialog with your patient, a good advice given on time....?
> What are you talking about......?
> >
> > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that..
> Not only to the clientele
> > but to this profession as well.
> >
> > Fortunately, not all the Reflexologists think like you do.
> >
> > More and more of us around the world are introducing to the
> practice of Reflexology what you consider dangerous. People like Avi,
> Chris or Moshe are not teaching us the way to criminality. The three
> of them are lovely people who devoted themselves to Reflexology and
> on the contrary, they have made and they are making a great
> contribution to Reflexology with the knowledge they have. If you
> suggest that what they teach is dangerous, so poor we.....! I should
> be a dangerous Therapist too.
> >
> > It's a pity that you didn't get properly assessed before you stated
> such an offence.. With such a statement, you are seriously offending
> the dignity of lots of Reflexologists around the world.
> >
> > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> It is a personality
> > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> >
> > I'll disappoint you once again. I'll give you that false argument,
> as you define it. I believe that it is based on holism.
> >
> > Kevin, please take a look at the world out there and see what is
> religious fundamentalism achieving with their arguments of "absolute
> true".
> > Just intollerance. ....
> >
> > So start throwing your bricks.
> > I threw the ones you've put on my hands.
> >
> > Kevin Kunz
> > Evelyn McCormack
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > ----- Original Message ----
> > From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogrou p s.com>
> > To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
> > Sent: Tuesday, 9 October, 2007 9:07:29 PM
> > Subject: [Reflexology Community ] I am shocked
> >
> > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> about Personality
> > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> >
> > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> what they are doing for
> > their clientele.
> > That is a law in at least one state.
> >
> > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> who really felt resentful
> > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> upon" with the "latest
> > weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner had just learned.
> >
> > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> a problem with
> > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> attached. They are
> > dangerous.
> >
> > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> stable. They are not necessarily
> > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> simplest thing. Planning
> > with someone's head could backfire.
> >
> > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> Reflexology based on? Where is
> > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> contraindications? What are the safety
> > rules?
> >
> > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that.
> Not only to the clientele
> > but to this profession as well.
> >
> > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> It is a personality
> > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> >
> > So start throwing your bricks.
> >
> > Kevin Kunz
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
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#6381 From: "kay sainsbury" <kay.sainsbury@...>
Date: Sat Oct 13, 2007 3:12 pm
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a bit long
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Dear Eve

I am always open to a hug.... and it is gratefully received.
I read every post in this forum and yes there is a lot to learn from everybody,
you included. But thanks for your kind words
No doubt we will both be posting again and can share the wisdom.
Take care
Kay


----- Original Message -----
From: Evelyn McCormack
To: reflexologycommunity@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Saturday, October 13, 2007 12:21 AM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a
bit long


Dear Kay,

Your words sounded to me like a healing balm on an hurt heart.
Can't agree with you more and wish to give you a big hug. May I? I send it to
you with these words.

I was delighted by the wisdom and the love you dedicated to write it.
What an example of love, friendship and understanding you have given to every
one of us!
There is so much to learn from you too.

Thank you for that.
Lov

Eve

----- Original Message ----
From: kay sainsbury <kay.sainsbury@...>
To: reflexologycommunity@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Thursday, 11 October, 2007 12:06:00 AM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Recent thread - sorry if the post is a
bit long

Dear All
I think we must be open minded.. As has been said there are no rights and
wrongs, and even in a discussion like this there is a lot of common ground.
There is a lot going on out there, research, work being done on genetics,
physics, healing modalities and their efficacy that even takes the medical
profession to new and wonderful places so maybe we should too. Personally I wish
I had time to read everything and take everything on board. But I do remember a
story once told to me about some monkeys on different islands and when faced
with similar problems of survival it was shown they all more or less came up
with the same solution. So what is happening in America right now, with the
limitations put on reflexology and the law passed that says you have to become
part of the massage qualification, is yet another step that is required by
outside sources to "legitimise" what we do. It has happened in other places and
with time it has been overcome.

When the use of healing modalities goes up in the UK, you can bet your bottom
dollar that the next day in the broadsheets (the more upmarket papers) there is
an article directed at a so-called intelligent section of the population, which
will demean and lower them. It is quite often reflexology. They used to do it to
chiropractics, osteopaths and acupuncturists, but they are now accepted in their
own right. Unfortunately in all of history there has been a lot of fear borne
through misunderstanding and prejudice. Same here in the UK. Only a few hundred
years ago we (reflexologists) would have all been hung by the neck or drowned as
witches, heretics and the like for doing the work of the devil (and some
religions still believe so...). So we have come a long way already.

In England, where I am from, it is enough that you have studied at a
professional level (and yes, it is a profession) are fully qualified and
insured. We do not need a licence to practice (unless it involves breaking the
skin as in acupuncture) but the most successful practitioners do belong to bona
fide associations who are striving to bring educational standards up to a point
where all professional bodies and their teaching methods are integrated. No-one
should work without insurance. There are still grey areas in this country and
basically any beauty therapist can go on a course and say they are a
reflexologist :( Personally I frown on that, but I long ago gave up my shield
and charger to go and fight the good fight.) I have found through experience
that whilst I am fully booked with a waiting list because my reflexology makes a
difference to people, others, including those who have done a diploma or a
college course (arghhh), get very few return
clients.

The true test of the efficacy of a particular modality is your return
clientele. If what you are doing works and is bringing your clients and
referrals from them back again (I have clients on my books for 5 years plus as
new problems surface for them) surely that is the true test.

I personally also find that people want to know. People are intelligent on the
whole. They have read about other modalities. The most common question I ask is
can you have Reiki while having reflexology. (Though I don't do Reiki) People
are becoming aware that there are other "tools" available to them, especially in
this country when the NHS has failed so many people through waiting times and
ineffective or too many pills. People throughout the world are taking back
control. They are seeking out our services from a desire to be more natural;
they don't want to keep popping pills. They read up things on the internet. They
ask what I can do for them. What does this mean. What does a certain colour
mean. Personally I would feel inadequate as a therapist, remembering i am taking
their money, if I could not answer their questions with at least the basics.

As for me, when I learned reflexology no-one explained to me about how the
body's energy (which is fluid) can fluctuate. Nobody explained to me that as a
therapist I could suffer "transference" . Very shortly after starting out I
would know what the person's problem is when they entered the room because I
felt it in my body. I was open and receiving and was not taught how to block
that and be grounded and ready to give my session clearly. It was only on a
workshop that I was allowed to feel my own body energy (aura) fluctuating and
when I went to a linking workshop, which doubled up with a work shop by Moss
Arnold on meridians, that lots of pennies dropped. We shouldn't even be taught
reflexology without going into body energy, how emotions affect us, and the
transference of energy between two people. In my opinion therefore all these
other modalities should come before traditional reflexology, not afterwards!

To have no fear is very liberating. I have worked with every contraindication
listed in every reflexology book I have found, with 100% success. Not through
stubborn-ness, but because the opportunities came up and I went with the flow.
My fear is that as therapists if we don't go with the flow (of life, and all its
many shapes and colours reflected in the more "holistic" aspects of reflexology,
including what the feet show me at every level not just physical), then we will
become stagnated. Then we become mediocre, and cannot bend with our clients.

The science of reflexology is there for all to study. If you want to be rigid
in its application and that works for you - great. There is so much benefit to
be had. If you want to go beyond the original concept - and there are many who
have and have had a struggle getting their work accepted - then that should be
fine too. Then it becomes an art.

Give a little in your practice .... the rewards are indescribable.
With love

----- Original Message -----
From: Evelyn McCormack
To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Wednesday, October 10, 2007 4:24 PM
Subject: Re: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too

Dear Kevin,

I read your post and couldn't agree with you more.

Reflexology will never die, it is only growing and despite all the people out
there trying to damage our reputation and our PROFESSION, nothing but human
warmth with a healing and loving spirit would be able to substitute us for
machines or electrodes.

No machine will be able never to substitute the warmth of a hug, a human hug.
No lawyer and no journalist will be able never to destroy people's hearts.
Reflexology is stepping forward, I am glad that Moshe brought all those
outstanding news from Australia. I was so happy yesterday when I read his
post!!! Everyone of us should cheer what's happening now with Reflexology.

I've learnt on your books. When my youngest son was a newborn, somebody handed
me The Complete Parents' guide to Reflexology.

I am afraid of those Reflexologists who claim having founded Reflexology and
try to seed on the ignorance of other people with no more backup than a monetary
and commercial objective. There is a very famous Reflexologist out there who
claims having that credit....of having founded Reflexology. Not you. I am afraid
of those Reflexologists who invent stories, lie or steal techniques from other
people and immediately create and make a trademark with a bombastic name as if
it was their invention or discovery. I am afraid of these people's low level of
ethics, so low that they will never be able to understand what the word ethics
mean. I know who am I talking about.

Therefore, I had a problem in matching the same person whose books I read with
passion and seeded so much for the welfare of Reflexology as you did with the
person who attacked without a reason other sources of knowledge that YES can
enrich Reflexology as a Therapy.

Best wishes

Lov,

Eve

----- Original Message ----
From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogroup s.com>
To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
Sent: Wednesday, 10 October, 2007 4:41:30 PM
Subject: [Reflexology Community ] Re: I am shocked..... too

I started this and I don't want to continue a flame war on this group. So
after a good
night's sleep let me tell you what is bothering me.

We are not a profession.. . yet. We may have the trimming and look the part
but we are still
in infancy. Why do I say that?

1) We hire a sociologist 27 years ago to help us figure out how to help
reflexology
become a profession. Her major point was to become a profession you need a
systematic
body of knowledge. If you don't you have a weak profession which usually has
little
prestige and low pay.

2) That same year we published The Complete Guide to Foot Reflexology. It was
one of the
hardest struggle Barbara and I ever faced. But we felt compelled to do since
even during
the brief time we saw the field changing. And the field of reflexology was yet
to be
documented. It was all verbal tradition.

Publishing that book wasn't something I wanted to do because coming from an
academic
family. I never what was involved and the sacrifice it meant. But it was
worse.

No publisher would take us so we had to self publish until Prentice Hall saw
the popularity
of reflexology and "found" us. they can originally returned "our baby"
unopened.

But we had at least documented this traditional healing modality. And what
ever happens
to change the field there is a record.

3) The hard part was naming techniques and defining things that hadn't really
been
defined before. Issues went on for weeks and at times months. "Holding hand"
and
"working hand" was a real struggle. Whether to use the traditional description
of
techniques such as "thumb walking" became a major debate..

And then trying to describe the techniques was mind boggling. Barbara was
really the
brains behind this. Instead of 28 different techniques she simplified them
into three
techniques plus desserts. It was a revolution. Suddenly more people could do
reflexology
because it had been simplified.

4) And then just as we put out Hand and Foot Reflexology: A Self Help Guide we
were put
out of business in the city of Albuquerque. We weren't qualified to practice
reflexology
because we didn't have a massage license. We would have had to gone to a local
massage
school to take training in our own book to be qualified.

It took 5 very long years to reverse that decision. Then only a couple of
years later it was
attempted again. It took us 31 meeting to get an exemption from the massage
law.

The definition was absolutely critical. It had to put us outside the massage
law and not
infringe on other professions.

So want is the point of all this. You won't get rich being a writer but you
will preserve
something even if it is only a little piece. And you will help generations to
come.

Labeling and defining your practices is absolutely critical. There is no real
room for error.

And don't look to me if you can't come up with a name for this what -do -you
-call it field.
That's you job.

And yes I am concern about the impact of each and every little addition to the
field of
reflexology. I feel we have earned the right to challenge the additions to
this field and
push the inventors to document the efficacy, safety and mechanism of action as
well as
the origin of what they are proposing.

I am concerned that we may not exist as "reflexologists" in the next few
years, There are
people out there testing reflexology for the neurotransmitters involved. There
are real
time ECG's and EKG's tests going on to measure heart rate function and
brain-waves. Will
we be obsolete before too long because we failed to become a systematic body
of
knowledge.

And I am concerned about the latest fad. Strong professions have peer review
to guard
against the latest fad. We don't. And so the what-do-call- it field is a
danger.

Our fight has never ended. And it will never end if you love this craft as
passionately we
are.

So if you really believe this is a necessary and important addition to the
field of reflexology
be ready to defend it and don't think we won't notice if it is being slipped
in through the
back door.

Until we all embrace our systematic body of knowledge and all become builders
in that
body of knowledge we are still infants and easy prey to those who see the
potential of
reflexology monetarily without the heart we all have.

Kevin Kunz

BTW Barbara and I had never been writes before The Complete Guide to Foot
Reflexology.
Barbara learned to illustrate to do that book. And the best part is we had no
money. But
that is another story.

--- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, learnecm <no_reply@.. .> wrote:
>
>
>
> Hello Evelyn,
>
> After many hours of thinking on your reply to Kevin as well as how I
> replied back to you. I must admit I seemed to myself a tad harsh.
>
> But, after a good night's sleep and again thinking more about your
> posting, I decided to FINISH what I started to say on the last
> posting.
>
> Before I get too upset at you wanting to TREAT PATIENTS I should have
> asked where you received YOUR medical degree. Maybe you are an MD.
> I hae met some wholistic practitioners who are. And some who
> actually promote Reflexology. For example Doctor Susa Wong MD on
> Aboutus.com as well as many who have co published bookds on
> reflexology. So that was unfair of me to assume you were not a
> medical doctor. If you are, my apologies, you do have the RIGHT to
> prescribe, diagnose and treat for specific conditions, however
> looking at the ethical side of things, even medical doctors should
> not claim to cure everyone they meet.
>
> One more note on the fact that you feel your "patients", should not
> have to told what you are doing and that they come to you with trust
> and assurance that'whatever' you do is OK and acceptable . . .
> If a medical doctor tells you that a certain course of treatment is
> OK and that you should take this little pink pill and you will feel
> better - what would you do????? I always question my medical
> doctor, research the treatment (ask questions) before making an
> informed decision about my treatment. Don't you?
> If a doctor tells a person, you will need to remove the limb. Don't
> you want more information before undergoing such radical treatment?
> I would want to know a heck of lot more about the surgery and if
> something else could be done and about whether the one practicing
> (the surgeon in this case) is skilled at what he/she does, not to
> mention if they are ethical in their beliefs.
> This example is REAL diabetics all over the world are told that
> because of foot ulcers they need to "remove the limb" yet in medical
> facilities around the world the medical community is using hyperberic
> chambers to treat diabetics and "saving their limbs" Wow. The ones
> that get this treatment had to SEARCH for it and let the WORLD know
> it is out there. Just like You and I - we need to let everyone know
> what REFLEXLOGY is. Don't cloud it with our own slant on things some
> do. Keep it Pure and if you want to "include" other ideals in your
> treatment of clients, or "patients" do so as not to risk the
> physical, mental, OR moral well being of the ones you so dearly want
> to help and love.
>
> Please understand this is not a personal attack on anyone, just how I
> so deeply believe. We do live in a democratic contry - at least I
> do, and freedom of belief and speech should never besquashed. But as
> a medical doctor does have limitations so are all of us.
>
> I have much more I would like to say, but I will stop here.
>
> Take care and let's live, love and learn,
>
> Deb
>
> --- In reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com, Evelyn McCormack
> <evelyn10267@ > wrote:
> >
> > Dear Kevin,
> >
> > Reading your words, I felt shocked too.
> > I feel compelled to answer to your text.
> >
> > I'll insert my answers between your lines.
> >
> > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> about Personality
> > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> >
> > I agree, all of them were very intelligent.
> >
> > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> what they are doing for
> > their clientele. Labeling is not a matter of choice it is a
> requirement for the protection of
> > the consumer.Deeper than the legal question to me is the ethical
> question. Is client fully and fairly
> > informed as to the nature of the services?That is a law in at least
> one state.
> >
> > I have patients, perhaps you have a clientele.. I have never
> considered my patients as "clients", because I am a Therapist. Have
> you ever heard a Doctor in Medicine talk about his clientele? I'd
> never go to one who speaks like that. Is it perhaps a cultural
> difference between you and me? I was born and grew up in Austria, I
> live now in the UK. I have never heard a practitioner talk about his
> or her "clientele" but about his or her patients. Perhaps terms can
> be different from place to place..
> >
> > I see not ethical question at all. Nobody is hiding anything from
> my patients. People who have given me the privilege of their
> confidence and trust must be respected. I don't provide a "service to
> my clients", I provide a treatment to my patient.
> >
> >
> > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> who really felt resentful
> > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> upon" with the "latest weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner
> had just learned.
> >
> > Who better than you know that there are many kinds of
> practitioners? Does it surprise you? Because of one your friend met
> you are putting an entire group inside the same sac? Come on, Kevin,
> there are good and responsible and there are unprofessional and
> charlatans everywhere. With a wide range of variants in the middle.
> >
> > As a matter of fact, haven't you ever heard a respectable Doctor of
> Medicine who experiments upon his patient with the latest article he
> has read or the latest word in equipment he has purchased?
> >
> > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> a problem with
> > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> attached. They are
> > dangerous.
> >
> > Who told you that we give personality assessments? This affirmation
> shows your total ignorance of the subject you are talking about and
> attacking without knowledge!!
> >
> > You talk about research but you haven't asked questions about how
> exactly do we apply our knowledge to Reflexology. You attack, attack
> and attack without giving others the opportunity to explain what is
> all about.
> >
> > I invite you to attend one of Avi Grrenberg or Moshce Kruchik
> seminars and perhaps you can have an idea of what do they teach and
> why have they become so famous and respected in the world of
> Reflexology. ..
> >
> > As for dangerous, I feel that it is more dangerous to me the person
> who fancies himself of knowing about something that he really
> doesn't, underestimating the real knowledge and skills of those who
> do.
> >
> > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> stable. They are not necessarily
> > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> simplest thing. Planning
> > with someone's head could backfire.
> >
> > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> Reflexology based on? Where is
> > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> contraindications? What are the safety
> > rules?
> >
> > Nobody will be able to answer the question by the simple fact that
> nobody before has talked about Personality Reflexology. Only you. You
> are the first who talked about Personality Reflexology, so I invite
> you to explain to all the members of this respectable forum what is
> that exactly.
> >
> > You are the first one who use this combination of terms. And if you
> ask my opinion, it is wrong. I don't need labels for everything as
> if Reflexology was comparable to a bottle of whisky....
> >
> > Reflexology is a Therapy based on a theory and we, Reflexologists
> around the world are trying to demonstrate that our theory is valid,
> to understand more and more how does it work and how deep it can
> get.
> >
> > Fortunately, Reflexology has many facets, not only one. Reflexology
> has many sources of knowledge, not only one based on
> suppositions. ...What kind of contraindications can have a good word,
> a good dialog with your patient, a good advice given on time....?
> What are you talking about......?
> >
> > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that..
> Not only to the clientele
> > but to this profession as well.
> >
> > Fortunately, not all the Reflexologists think like you do.
> >
> > More and more of us around the world are introducing to the
> practice of Reflexology what you consider dangerous. People like Avi,
> Chris or Moshe are not teaching us the way to criminality. The three
> of them are lovely people who devoted themselves to Reflexology and
> on the contrary, they have made and they are making a great
> contribution to Reflexology with the knowledge they have. If you
> suggest that what they teach is dangerous, so poor we.....! I should
> be a dangerous Therapist too.
> >
> > It's a pity that you didn't get properly assessed before you stated
> such an offence.. With such a statement, you are seriously offending
> the dignity of lots of Reflexologists around the world.
> >
> > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> It is a personality
> > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> >
> > I'll disappoint you once again. I'll give you that false argument,
> as you define it. I believe that it is based on holism.
> >
> > Kevin, please take a look at the world out there and see what is
> religious fundamentalism achieving with their arguments of "absolute
> true".
> > Just intollerance. ....
> >
> > So start throwing your bricks.
> > I threw the ones you've put on my hands.
> >
> > Kevin Kunz
> > Evelyn McCormack
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > ----- Original Message ----
> > From: footc1 <no_reply@yahoogrou p s.com>
> > To: reflexologycommunit y@yahoogroups. com
> > Sent: Tuesday, 9 October, 2007 9:07:29 PM
> > Subject: [Reflexology Community ] I am shocked
> >
> > There have been some very intelligent and well thought out posts
> about Personality
> > Reflexology and Ear Reflexology.
> >
> > But I am shocked at the idea that a professional would not define
> what they are doing for
> > their clientele.
> > That is a law in at least one state.
> >
> > The word profession is synonymous with discipline. I had a friend
> who really felt resentful
> > when she went for a massage and as she put it was "experimented
> upon" with the "latest
> > weekend seminar techniques" the practitioner had just learned.
> >
> > I have another problem. I used to work in mental health and I have
> a problem with
> > personality assessments based on findings without any research
> attached. They are
> > dangerous.
> >
> > It would be nice if all your clientele was well balanced and
> stable. They are not necessarily
> > balanced nor stable. People can be effected in many ways by the
> simplest thing. Planning
> > with someone's head could backfire.
> >
> > Nobody yet has answered my question. What is Personality
> Reflexology based on? Where is
> > the research? Where is it's history? What are the
> contraindications? What are the safety
> > rules?
> >
> > Or is this a parlor game like palmistry? A dangerous one at that.
> Not only to the clientele
> > but to this profession as well.
> >
> > And don't give me that false argument that this is based on holism.
> It is a personality
> > assessment based on physical characteristics of the feet.
> >
> > So start throwing your bricks.
> >
> > Kevin Kunz
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
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